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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone there.Well, my bf says he loves me a lot. and I do believe him for he has done a lot for me.But whenever he is tense he dont even talk to me.once I called him (when he already had said not to call him )he talked too rudly.He never picks my call, never reply to my text.and when his tension is over, he is back with all his love or whatever.What should I call this???i am not picking his calls now because the same thing happened a couple of days ago. now he is again sending me text messages and showing me that he cares.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): Maybe he wants to only talk to you when he isn't tense, so that he keeps the best of himself for you.
You could ask him to confide in you when he is tense, so that you can support him.
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reader, karlgoo  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 Talk to him about it very gently and let him know that it bothers you and you want to work through your problems together.
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reader, that_one_female +, writes (9 November 2008):
 I think he does love you because of the fact he shows you that he's caring. But then again he might just really cares for you. I think that the frustration of your arguments get him to the point of where he starts acting rude and says childish or hurtful things. When he gets over his frustration and calls and texts you saying he's sorry or shows he cares is because he thought about everything, the moments you 2 have shared and realizing what a jerk he's been for being rude. I do think he loves you, just stay in there =]
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 you should tell him to buy something to hit on, and let his bad feeling go off, whenever his tense. seriously. that's what i always tell people to do...
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