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Just your average type of girl, who has a good sense of humor, and who is interested in helping others out! Always with a smile on my face, i make others around me see the glass half full!

Only vices around here: chocolate, perfume and coca-cola! ^_~

I want to meet up with her, but we didn't meet on a dating site. Am I reading too much into her being nice?

Q.   Hi all, I have been talking to a girl on a penpal site and she seems really nice and I was considering after a bit more talking to ask about meeting up. The problem is, she says that people seem to just message her saying things about her being'...

A.   2 November 2011: Hello there! Well, i can only agree with the other agony aunts! She doesn't really seem that interested in finding a partner or anything of that nature. I bet she is seeking a good friend. And i also bet YOU could definitely be that good friend f... (read in full...)

How do I get this girl to accept my proposal?

Q.   I'm 3rd year Electronics engineering student,I like a girl and I had been proposed her 1 year ago but she says that we are good friends.I have special feelings for her I still love her.What should be done which help to get my answer? ...

A.   5 October 2011: If she said No, then she has her reasons. Don't try to push things if she already has made up her mind.... (read in full...)

Am I scared of getting married, or is something else going on?

Q.   Hi, I have questions that I wish to have answered, but I do not think an answer exists to these questions. I guess I am looking for what other people think, and I am not expecting some magic response... My fiancee and I have been together...

A.   2 September 2011: Dear OP I have read your entire story and i would have the tendency to say you almost sound like you're having an arranged marriage. And even if that would be the case i wouldn't take it hardly. If it was an arranged marriage, depending on t... (read in full...)

Is it me? Does my attractiveness make people not take me seriously?

Q.   For some reason, nobody takes me seriously. For reference, I've heard from my friends that I have a fairly, ahem, attractive face and body. I've been told I'm very pretty and have quite the voluptuous body. And I'm not trying to sound arrogant or ...

A.   28 August 2011: Girl, you just described my life! So there i have it, i'm NOT the only one with those problems. When i was in high-school (some time ago) it didn't matter, be it teachers or just plain colleagues, both thought i was just a bimbo (and mind you i ... (read in full...)

Ladies, aged less than 30, would you date a guy even if he isn't ''FUN''?

Q.   Would you consider a relatively young male to be dateable even if he is a 180 degrees from the hard party bad boy persona? I am not saying that I am weak, nor that I can't stick up for myself and who I care about. I simply have no interest in ...

A.   28 August 2011: Wow! Such guys still exists????? Consider yourself lucky! I would give anything to meet a guy like you...and yes i am under 30! I am actually 20 and i would kill to encounter more guys who think and act like you! Story of my life: the good g... (read in full...)

Do you regret having sex before getting married?

Q.   So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now and he's 19 and I'm 17 and we've been talking about having sex for a couple of months now and my question is do any of you regret having sex before marriage or just having it at all when you ...

A.   4 May 2011: Not at all! ... (read in full...)

I want to know what is acceptable before we do anything!

Q.   Age. Im 19 in the army and this girl im talking to is 17 turning 18 in 2 months. Im in GA shes in CT I have to follow local laws and the UCMJ. UCMJ keeps bringing up the age of under 16 and in GA and CT it seems like our relationship would be f...

A.   24 April 2011: First off.. behind 'closed doors' you can do pretty much anything and it's nobody's business! PERIOD! Now.. if you two are comfortable enough for sending pictures, or doing anything... go ahead! It all depends on both of you... if the both par... (read in full...)

Does anyone else get turned on by older men

Q.   Hey guys i was wondering if anyone else felt this way? Im 24 and i just go out of a bad five year relationship with someone that was 29, but lately i have been very attracted to men who are older like mid thirties or forties. People say im a very p...

A.   24 April 2011: You're not alone, that's for sure! Let me tell you.. older guys will always win over younger one's.... at least from my point of view! And i dare say... they are much better lovers...but also in general, they are better actually in every department! ... (read in full...)

Help ! My orgasms are not normal !! why do I release so much sperm ?!?!

Q.   I am 22 yrs. bi male from Czech Republic living in Canada I don't know if I should call this a problem. but it's definitely causing some serious distraction lately I have these really intense orgasms. Most people can't wait to orgasm and reach...

A.   24 April 2011: Well as far as i know.. there is NOTHING wrong with it! Enjoy it i would say... :))... (read in full...)

Why do women lie that they're virgins?

Q.   Why do women get angry if a virgin man wants to marry a virgin woman? And why do most of them lie about there sexual past to the virgin guy?...

A.   24 April 2011: Well honey... 1 NOT all women get angry if a virgin man wants to marry a virgin woman.. don't categorize please! 2 Why are you so sure they lie? Maybe they don't... and if they do... then again... it's only a small proportion who choose to li... (read in full...)

Sex for the first time?

Q.   I am thinking about having sex for the first time. Does it hurt and can somebody give me details...

A.   20 April 2011: Well dear.. it's definitely your choice...your body... your mind who takes those actions... Therefor i won't even try and tell you not to do it. Although you're quite young... in the end it doesn't matter what others tell you, cause you will ... (read in full...)

My neighbour is the perfect girl -- what do I do?

Q.   Hey, so i just moved into a new place and right next door is a perfect woman for me. She's beautiful smart and can cook (what else does a man wants right?) She just got out of a relationship and I want to be the next and final guy she will be ...

A.   17 April 2011: I say Go for it! After all you'll never know what life has in store for ya! Though if you really have not talked to her, or simply don't know her that well... the best thing would be to approach the small-steps technique! She's your neighbor... (read in full...)

Would a girl laugh at my penis when its not erect?

Q.   i wondering if my 6-7 inch dick (erect)is big enough to do the job? when its not erect its maybe about 2 inches. i kind of feel embaressed when its not erect. i feel like a girl would laugh when she felt it not erect....

A.   24 March 2011: Hey there... relax is all i'm gonna say! And yes.. a 6-7 inch will do the job just fine, trust me! If by any chance a girl would laugh at you [when you're not erect]..then please dump her, cause she isn't worth your time. See ya! ^_~ ... (read in full...)

I don't enjoy sex at all

Q.   me and my bf have been together for 3 years. We have a healthy sex life but the problem is i dont enjoy sex at all. i think it uncomftable and unpleasurable the only bit i like is the fact i get to hold my bf so close and were so cuddly afterwards. ...

A.   23 March 2011: Well if there isn't any kind of sexual compatibility i hate to say it...but you better move on. Or..... maybe you are the one who continuously thinks 'i won't enjoy it'... and well we all know what the power of auto-suggestion can do! Or..... (read in full...)

She looks like she's interested..should I go for it?

Q.   hey ladies. just wondering your thoughts. only females please. i have always known i can get pretty girls but im freshly single now and just started a new job. my first day i seen this gorgous woman and we looked at eachother. i was walking around ...

A.   20 March 2011: Best way to find out IF she really is interested in you is to simply take some attitude and speak to her. If she reacts positively, then you know for sure. It's actually pretty easy trust me. ^_~ ... (read in full...)

Can you fall in love without knowing?

Q.   is it possible to fall in love with someone without knowing it's happening? ...

A.   17 March 2011: Yes it is very possible! ... (read in full...)

Question for the girls on attraction to men......

Q.   Hi girls i have two question i have always thought of! 1-Do you by nature get attracted to normally hairy men, like some hair on the chest and legs and do you enjoy it if you do? 2-Do you feel the sexual desire a man feels when he sees a pre...

A.   16 March 2011: Well everyone is entitled to their own.. BUT here is MY opinion: 1- Yes i get attracted to men that have hair, but only on reasonable places... hair on legs and chest is SEXY... hair on the back is SCARY; i don't like guys who shave their ches... (read in full...)

I have body issues and am afraid I won't be able to please my bf.

Q.   Hi, well I'll make this short and simple. I truly love my boyfriend and I want to show him that. But I'm really self conscious about my body. I'm afraid he wont like my body, or that I won't be able to pleasure him. Please help, and thank you!...

A.   20 February 2011: Hello dear.... well first off it really doesn't matter how you THINK you look, if your boyfriend truly cares about you, everything else will kinda disappear along the way. You have to learn to loose your inhibitions...trust me on that! ... (read in full...)

Is it bad my new husband and I have so much sex?

Q.   Hi, I am married for 6 months now. But me and my husband are having sex all the time. We don't talk to each other too much when we are alone. Is it bad to have lots of sex? We have sex at least 3 times per day. I have also found out that my husba...

A.   20 February 2011: Sweety it's perfectly normal! You are still newlyweds, you still discover more things about each other... it's only natural you want to spend as much time together as possible. I don't see it as an impediment, really! If you also enjoy it...then go ... (read in full...)

I'm independent and I want to court him!

Q.   I really like a guy. We dont talk because we feel akward around each other. I live in a conservative family but im thinking of courting him even though im a girl.Is it ok? Or should I wait?...

A.   18 February 2011: Dear you're my hero! Yes if you really like him.. go ahead and court him! It's a good thing to see that finally some of us have waken up and take the lead.. it's about time! We live in a modern world..than why the hell not act like it. And when... (read in full...)

My wife never initiates sex with me. How can I fix this?

Q.   My wife and I have been together for 9 yrs and she is not happy with her body and I have never given her any reason to think I agree with what she thinks I have actually told her and showed her I love the way she looks but even with all my effort ...

A.   18 February 2011: Well she does seem to be very self conscious about her body, but then again after a 9 year relationship it shouldn't matter anymore, plus the fact that you are reassuring her that everything is alright and that you love her the way she is. These ... (read in full...)

Is my out of control pubic hair normal for women?

Q.   Hey, I'm worried about my pubic hair. Its dark and curly and also feels kind of spiky. I cut it every few weeks so it doesnt stick out my underwear. Is this normal? Do most women have hair like this? Im particularly interested what white people have ...

A.   4 February 2011: Yes honey it's perfectly normal. You did a great job by trimming down a little. If it really bothers you that much you should consider shaving it off..or a way better alternative wax it off (takes longer to grow back).. But that's really up to you ... (read in full...)

Why is his love making quiet? is that normal?

Q.   Is it normal for a guy not to moan or make any sound at all when making love? It makes me think he is not enjoying it..or is it that guys moan when they cum only?i sound silly but i want to know!! thank you !!!!!!...

A.   31 January 2011: Nop... there's nothing wrong with the guy. Everybody is different..so maybe that's the way he is..that's nothing much you can do about it. ... (read in full...)

The spark has gone, should I leave him?

Q.   HI. I hope someone can help somehow. I have been in a relationship for over 3 years and I split up with him 3 times. We r back together, we have similar interests, but there is something missing. The fire, the spark. The other problem is that I dont ...

A.   31 January 2011: Well deary.. that's my honest opinion.. if the spark isn't there, it's time to move on. Not saying that in a arrogant way, it's just the way i see things. And even you have mentioned that the other guy is much more better for your personality, caus... (read in full...)

While my boyfriend performs oral on me, he masturbates?

Q.   OK so the other day my boyfriend was going down on me and I noticed that he was masturbating while he was doing it!! This made me feel like crap because it's like, is going down on me SO boring and unsexy that you need to touch yourself to make...

A.   31 January 2011: I can only agree with the previous posts! Going down on you made him actually loose his mind..so he had touch himself! Don't worry about it dear.. everything is perfect! ^_~... (read in full...)

Lacking stamina in bed?

Q.   How long should a girl be able to go for before she gets tired during sex? This is nothing to do with coming, but more like physical exhaustion. I can go on top, but I can only go for a few minutes before I'm exhausted. My boyfriend can go for ten ...

A.   27 September 2010: Hi there! Well, don't worry too much about it, it's the best answer i can get you! Trust me, every girl that's on top gets tired much more easily than any guy!!!! On the other hand though, if you practice, everything is achievable! Nothing is impo... (read in full...)

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