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Question for the girls on attraction to men......

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Question - (16 March 2011) 8 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2011)
A male United Arab Emirates age 41-50, *azanco writes:

Hi girls

i have two question i have always thought of!

1-Do you by nature get attracted to normally hairy men, like some hair on the chest and legs and do you enjoy it if you do?

2-Do you feel the sexual desire a man feels when he sees a pretty woman with a good body on beach wearing bikini, so the question is "Do you have feelings for men wearing shorts on beach with a great six-packs body"?

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A female reader, FoxyRoxy United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2011):

Hairy men are definatey sexy! Its a primal thing, curling up into a hairy chest after some passionate love making is the best! And as for the other question, yes toned men can seem more physically appealing sometimes, but only if their face is attractive! Its all in the smile :D

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011):

I like hair on a man yes. Anywhere. Not loads and loads though I could get used to it.

Not really. Being attractive to me isnt about looking plastic and muscley or like you go the gym. Men have different look to them to us girls and as long as you have a man shape etc you will qualify IMO.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011):

I feel sexually energized from a man's voice or his conversations...I don't care if he is hairy, hairless, chunky, lean, bumpy...men are just plain sexy in every odd and pleasant way...hey I love men...but I hate bad teeth...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011):

1. Yes, I prefer men with some hair on their chest, legs and arms. I don't like them without hair. Yes, on my man, I find that hair incredibly attractive. It drives me wild.

2. Yes, if I see a man with a really nice body, it affects me physically.

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A female reader, TamyKarcz Romania +, writes (16 March 2011):

TamyKarcz agony auntWell everyone is entitled to their own.. BUT here is MY opinion:

1- Yes i get attracted to men that have hair, but only on reasonable places... hair on legs and chest is SEXY... hair on the back is SCARY; i don't like guys who shave their chest hair, is like if they would shave their masculinity off! So keep your chest hair, it's more than SEXY!

2- Yes i do feel a desire for a nice build guy..but i don't think it's the same desire a man feels towards a woman. I just like to admire, not necessarily diving in a full fantasy.. And a nice six-pack is ok, too much is scary once again!

Hope i helped! ^_~

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (16 March 2011):

chigirl agony auntYes to both. But there is no general rule, I can only speak for myself. Some do, some don't. And not all men are sexually attracted to a gorgeous woman in a bikini either. It's all dependent on the person.

As for me, seeing someone sexy (in the definition I have for sexyness), doesn't mean I want to have sex with that person. But it can arouse me.

As for body hair, personally I think it's nice on a man. I like my men natural and masculine. If a person is attracted to body hair then naturally they will enjoy it as well. But there are limits, I'd not want a full grown bush of a man, but some chest hair is nice, and hair on legs is a must. If a man doesn't have hair on his legs it makes him look feminine I think.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011):

1 - men are made naturally with hair. Unless there is an unreasonable amount of hair on the body then yes, I find hair sexy. Especially the line to the pants. 2- by personal preference I would. But I would not want to be in a relationship with a man just because he is attractive or has a 6-pack. Love lies inside, not out.

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2011):

k_c100 agony auntWell keep in mind that all women are different and like different types of men, but here is my opinion:

1. Dont mind if a man has hair on his chest and legs, but if he has hair on his back that is just wrong. Most men have hair and I wouldnt like it if the main was so vain he shaved or waxed all the hair from his body, but then again I would not want to date a very hair man either!

2. If I see an attractive man on the beach in his swimwear then yes, there is some sexual desire there. I would not say that I get turned on, or that I have 'feelings' for him, more that I am simply appreciating his attractiveness and enjoying the view! I dont like 6-packs though so I wouldnt enjoy that, I prefer tall guys who have dark hair and are reasonably slim in their physique, I dont like muscular men. But in terms of the same sexual desire men feel - I dont think many women would feel the same levels of desire towards a man as a man does towards a girl. Men tend to have a stronger physical reaction to physical attractiveness in the opposite sex, whereas women tend just to appreciate how good they look and think to themselve 'ooh he's hot' - that about it. We dont often picture ourselves having sex with them in the way that a man might.

I hope this helps and good luck!

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