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writes:Hey guys i was wondering if anyone else felt this way?Im 24 and i just go out of a bad five year relationship with someone that was 29, but lately i have been very attracted to men who are older like mid thirties or forties. People say im a very pretty girl, like petite big breast long hair, but i like the geeky, older men in suits. the quiet ones. is this normal. I've only been with one man who was rude and emotionally abusive, but I want to experience someone older, someone who is going to make me feel like a WOMAN, kind of like wake me up and make me feel alive.and lately i seem to fantasize about these older who are smart, mature, and kind and can kind of take me and make me feel alive! its weird but has anyone felt this way. I just find guys my age to be boring, maybe its because i like oldies and literature, and am attracted to intellectual types?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): I'm exactly the same as you. I like tall hispanic men, definitely over 6ft;)They just seem more masculine and overall hotter. Yay! FOR OLDER MEN!:D
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reader, cardinal +, writes (25 April 2011):
 *raises hand* I do!! Lol you're not alone! Go out and mingle with the ancient girl. I have to tell you--they ARE more mature and stable, and that ex sounds terrible and completely out of his mind! Go for it and look for a guy so you want...your feelings are perfectly normal! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): you called your relationship a 'bad' one. it sounds like your ex bf was a sleaze. Maybe you are looking for a more successful man, hence the business guys. i think its fine to be turned on by older men, i also like a grey haired 40 something business man. i think you want to be the boss of a relationship as you said you like the shy geeky type.
be careful when dating older men though. a 43 year old took me out to dinner a few times and we had sex a couple of times but thankfully just weeks into the 'relationship' i found out he had a wife and kids. i dont blame myself at all but im sure his wife would.
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reader, TamyKarcz  +, writes (24 April 2011):
 You're not alone, that's for sure! Let me tell you.. older guys will always win over younger one's.... at least from my point of view! And i dare say... they are much better lovers...but also in general, they are better actually in every department! They already lived a little more life than you.. so yeah!
Oh well... i say.. GO AHEAD! ... ^_~ Enjoy yourself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2011): Yes I always liked to be with someone older than me, I had a boyfriend when I was 22 he was 22 too. He was immature abusive child who made me hate dating young guys and if I felt that I like dating older guys, he made me sure about it. I felt like I couldn’t rely on young guys and I still think I was right, I am not saying every young guy is like that but that was my experience. I got married 8 years ago when I was 26 and my husband is 14 years older than me and he is exactly what I always pictured as a husband. So I don’t see any problem with that go for him. At least you try to see how it works for you.
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