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Confused about my boyfriend and some insight would be really helpful

Q.   I lived with my boyfriend for few months and he told everyone and his family about me infact to get married though he's much older. I'm 19, he's 36 and everyone is aware and I must say this is true love. The problem began when i moved out you kn...

A.   27 June 2008: I dont know why my other questions aren't coming up.... (read in full...)

Confused about my boyfriend and some insight would be really helpful

Q.   I lived with my boyfriend for few months and he told everyone and his family about me infact to get married though he's much older. I'm 19, he's 36 and everyone is aware and I must say this is true love. The problem began when i moved out you kn...

A.   27 June 2008: You are right but I have tried and still left haging so do I call him now or wait much longer like 2 weeks or a month or just forget and wait for him to call. The only thing holding me too is I still have some of my things at his place which I told ... (read in full...)

Confused about my boyfriend and some insight would be really helpful

Q.   I lived with my boyfriend for few months and he told everyone and his family about me infact to get married though he's much older. I'm 19, he's 36 and everyone is aware and I must say this is true love. The problem began when i moved out you kn...

A.   27 June 2008: You are right, Thanks. So should I call him now or wait much longer? and what do I say?... (read in full...)

Confused about my boyfriend and some insight would be really helpful

Q.   I lived with my boyfriend for few months and he told everyone and his family about me infact to get married though he's much older. I'm 19, he's 36 and everyone is aware and I must say this is true love. The problem began when i moved out you kn...

A.   27 June 2008: So do I text him that I would like to come pick up my remaining things or wait longer before I do it? I'm hurt at the same time, this is the only time he is going through a lot and as much as I want to be there for him, he isn't letting me.... (read in full...)

He's acting different, what is going on?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...

A.   27 May 2008: Now I called him and asked him what he had to say. He asked me if I had travelled though I already told him when I was travelling. He asked me where I was, I said my friend's place and he asked where, I said friend's place that what was it he wanted ... (read in full...)

He's acting different, what is going on?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...

A.   27 May 2008: Do I call him now or wait a little longer? like some more days or it's of no use. ... (read in full...)

I'm trying so hard to get over him and move on but I need my things back!-Help

Q.   My boyfriend and I recently broke up. He said he needed to take care of some things and I should keep in mind that he has to do what he has to do. Don't really know what that means cos' if he was to break up, he should have said so and that he ...

A.   26 May 2008: I texted him how hurt I was but time would heal and he called me back twice but I didn't pick up. He then texted me that he is doing the right thing and needs to talk to me, that I should call him when I have time. But I haven't called and plan not. ... (read in full...)

He's acting different, what is going on?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...

A.   26 May 2008: I texted him how hurt I was but time would heal and he called me back twice but I didn't pick up. He then texted me that he is doing the right thing and needs to talk to me, that I should call him when I have time. But I haven't called and plan not. ... (read in full...)

I'm trying so hard to get over him and move on but I need my things back!-Help

Q.   My boyfriend and I recently broke up. He said he needed to take care of some things and I should keep in mind that he has to do what he has to do. Don't really know what that means cos' if he was to break up, he should have said so and that he ...

A.   26 May 2008: He has replied me that it's ok. I am really hurt and sad but I didnt let him know. I just told him I wish him the best. He didnt tell me though break up but I should "keep in mind that he has to take care of some other things and he really misses ... (read in full...)

He's acting different, what is going on?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...

A.   23 May 2008: You are right, Thanks a lot for your help. I really appreciate it.... (read in full...)

He's acting different, what is going on?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...

A.   23 May 2008: The whole story is that since I left the house back to my own house, he has changed. I mean if there is nothing wrong and we are not fighting, he should call me like we used to, say sweet things but now it's more like hi and that's it or we wouldn't ... (read in full...)

He's acting different, what is going on?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...

A.   23 May 2008: please what do I do? He's now sending me texts asking how I'm doing and now I'm on my own I could see and be with other guys that have been disturbing me that I should be careful. What does this mean? What should I do?... (read in full...)

He's acting different, what is going on?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...

A.   21 May 2008: That's what I was thinking, that I would just chill and give him space since I didn't do anything and i forgot to add, while we were still living together, he kept on saying that it's when I leave that the real proff of love would be shown.... (read in full...)

He's acting different, what is going on?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been living together for 5 months and we both decided that we make things right,though I still have few of my things in his house, I move out since we aren't married then he would be coming to my house, meet my brother as he ...

A.   21 May 2008: Maybe but the argument wasn't anything serious, we talked in the car before he dropped me. If there was nothing wrong he would at least call me and we talk for a long period or text nice things not as ordinary friends do and I texted him if I did ... (read in full...)

I am heartbroken after the break up and my exams are imminent! What do I do?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we really love eachother. We've been living together and cause fight most of the time over silly things. Infact the phone is the cause of everything. Each time a guy calls me whether just a friend to ...

A.   1 May 2008: Please people I need more answers.... (read in full...)

We keep arguing and it's depressing, but if we break up will I ever find anyone else that will love me as much?

Q.   hi everyone i have a question that makes me think about my relationship with my boyfriend and how long its going to last if this keeps happening. ok me and my boyfriend have been datin for almost 11months and i love him to bits but i believe that...

A.   29 April 2008: I am in your shoes, The same thing happening to me, the only difference is that I think the relationship has ended... (read in full...)

I am heartbroken after the break up and my exams are imminent! What do I do?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we really love eachother. We've been living together and cause fight most of the time over silly things. Infact the phone is the cause of everything. Each time a guy calls me whether just a friend to ...

A.   29 April 2008: Thanks a lot I forgot to add that we still being friends is only sarcastic not the real friendship like mutual aggreement to break up, false accusation and so on. For example we were watching maury show and he started acting like maury, that did u ... (read in full...)

I'm 19 and in love with a 35 year old man...is this wrong?

Q.   I am seriously in love with a 35 year old man, would be 36 this month and I'll be 19. We've been going out for 5 months now, we really love each other. We know each other's pasts, flaws and everything and this isn't just a sexual relationship, ...

A.   13 March 2008: Thanks girl, you made my day.... (read in full...)

I'm 19 and in love with a 35 year old man...is this wrong?

Q.   I am seriously in love with a 35 year old man, would be 36 this month and I'll be 19. We've been going out for 5 months now, we really love each other. We know each other's pasts, flaws and everything and this isn't just a sexual relationship, ...

A.   12 March 2008: Yeah I would definitely tell them but the truth is I love him and that is what matters. What is life if You cant be happy. Is there any law that says you cannot love an older person. I'll just wait and see what happens. Thanks guys for your help and ... (read in full...)

I'm 19 and in love with a 35 year old man...is this wrong?

Q.   I am seriously in love with a 35 year old man, would be 36 this month and I'll be 19. We've been going out for 5 months now, we really love each other. We know each other's pasts, flaws and everything and this isn't just a sexual relationship, ...

A.   2 March 2008: Thanks a lot guys, That's what I'm thinking but it's still very hard. I mean amongst all the guys I've met, young, my age and so on, It's just this guy I love. Love is really crazy... (read in full...)

Do you think he's hiding something from me?

Q.   Give me some feedback, my boyfriend always hides his phone, keeps in his pants and hardly lists any phone numbers, they are unlisted, just by digits, to top it off he turns his cell phone off when he charges it, the ringer is always silent, to me ...

A.   16 February 2008: This is exactly what is going on in my own relationship though the only difference is that he tells me about the other girls and he shows me the texts sometimes but he has this habit of taking the phone too anywhere he goes and sometimes would hide ... (read in full...)

He forced himself on me but it didn't hurt. Does that mean I am still a Virgin?

Q.   I don't know what happened here. My boyfriend and I were making out when he removed my clothes and told put his penis down there, he said he wouldn't penetrate that we are just playing. Before I knew it he was using force though I didn't feel any ...

A.   28 December 2007: Thanks a lot guys for your help, I love it,Things are still very good... (read in full...)

He forced himself on me but it didn't hurt. Does that mean I am still a Virgin?

Q.   I don't know what happened here. My boyfriend and I were making out when he removed my clothes and told put his penis down there, he said he wouldn't penetrate that we are just playing. Before I knew it he was using force though I didn't feel any ...

A.   27 December 2007: I already took the pill the next day as I wasnt sure, Thanks a lot guys so does that mean I'm not a virgin and what explains the fact I cant penetrate... (read in full...)

He forced himself on me but it didn't hurt. Does that mean I am still a Virgin?

Q.   I don't know what happened here. My boyfriend and I were making out when he removed my clothes and told put his penis down there, he said he wouldn't penetrate that we are just playing. Before I knew it he was using force though I didn't feel any ...

A.   21 December 2007: His penis is large, I felt it at the surface, he didn't penetrate but I don't know where the blood was from... (read in full...)

He forced himself on me but it didn't hurt. Does that mean I am still a Virgin?

Q.   I don't know what happened here. My boyfriend and I were making out when he removed my clothes and told put his penis down there, he said he wouldn't penetrate that we are just playing. Before I knew it he was using force though I didn't feel any ...

A.   17 December 2007: Thanks guys and It wasnt rape cos I agreed though I didnt want penetration and still can't penetrate through so I still think Im a virgin cos whenever we are playing down there, he cum, but I dont feel it inside me, it's only touching the surface.... (read in full...)

He forced himself on me but it didn't hurt. Does that mean I am still a Virgin?

Q.   I don't know what happened here. My boyfriend and I were making out when he removed my clothes and told put his penis down there, he said he wouldn't penetrate that we are just playing. Before I knew it he was using force though I didn't feel any ...

A.   15 December 2007: Thanks guys but it's not like he forced himself on me like that, we were making out and his penis was close to mine, sometimes I'll tell him to stop and he will stop butlike I said I didnt feel any pain or anything entering me but where did the ... (read in full...)

What do I tell him about why I didnt reply??

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out over a month now and I know he loves me but I'm always the one punishing him, I mean playing hard to get still which I know I shouldn't be doing. But I want to know how far or what he would do, He hasn't heard ...

A.   5 December 2007: Thanks guys for your help, I think I'll just call him and apologise or any other suggestions and seriously it's not like I want to play hard to get, I just don't know why I'm doing this.... (read in full...)

What do I tell him about why I didnt reply??

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out over a month now and I know he loves me but I'm always the one punishing him, I mean playing hard to get still which I know I shouldn't be doing. But I want to know how far or what he would do, He hasn't heard ...

A.   5 December 2007: Honestly guys, I feel I am playing hard to get too much and would end up losing him, I promise to stop but what do I actually tell now him the reason was for not answering his calls cos seriously there was no reason at all, I just wanted him to miss ... (read in full...)

Which guy do I choose?

Q.   I'm in love with a 35 year old man and I'm 19, I look and act more matured than my age and he looks much younger and acts younger than his age. I don't know why I feel this way about him, we've had our ups and downs yet we still love each other and ...

A.   3 December 2007: Thank you all for your help, the problem now is who I choose between this two guys, I am so confused. I have strong feelings for the 35 year old guy which I dont know why and the 21 going to 22 year old guy, is doing everything for me genuinely not ... (read in full...)

Which guy do I choose?

Q.   I'm in love with a 35 year old man and I'm 19, I look and act more matured than my age and he looks much younger and acts younger than his age. I don't know why I feel this way about him, we've had our ups and downs yet we still love each other and ...

A.   2 December 2007: I am not ashamed of him but where do I start from because of the age, I mean people would think otherwise, though he looks much younger except I tell them the age. I'm only scared on how to tell my family about this. It's just that I dont know why I ... (read in full...)

Which guy do I choose?

Q.   I'm in love with a 35 year old man and I'm 19, I look and act more matured than my age and he looks much younger and acts younger than his age. I don't know why I feel this way about him, we've had our ups and downs yet we still love each other and ...

A.   29 November 2007: Please guys I need answers and your help... (read in full...)

Which guy do I choose?

Q.   I'm in love with a 35 year old man and I'm 19, I look and act more matured than my age and he looks much younger and acts younger than his age. I don't know why I feel this way about him, we've had our ups and downs yet we still love each other and ...

A.   29 November 2007: No he hasn't been married before and no kids.... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he come to see me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I we have been dating for over 6 years, he lives in the UK and he is married, I am living in France and I am single. We do care about each other and we do trust each other. We get on well even though we are far from each other. ...

A.   26 November 2007: MARRIED?? Please stay away from him and find someone single to build your life with.... (read in full...)

I am very worried, why hasn't he called me back?

Q.   I went for a party and met this cute guy. We exchanged numbers. It was after 3 weeks that we actually spoke .We went out one weekend and it was then he told me his age, 35 and I am 18 turning 19, I look more matured than my age, he looks much ...

A.   17 November 2007: Everything is fine now, as a matter of fact, we have a date tonite. bThanks y'all for these and I love you guys very much.... (read in full...)

I am very worried, why hasn't he called me back?

Q.   I went for a party and met this cute guy. We exchanged numbers. It was after 3 weeks that we actually spoke .We went out one weekend and it was then he told me his age, 35 and I am 18 turning 19, I look more matured than my age, he looks much ...

A.   17 November 2007: Thanks guys for your advice but guess what??? I'm so happy, I just called him and he wasn't happy with me. He said he intentionally didnt call me to see If I was going to call him and I failed but he still cares for me. I can't believe I was feeling ... (read in full...)

I am very worried, why hasn't he called me back?

Q.   I went for a party and met this cute guy. We exchanged numbers. It was after 3 weeks that we actually spoke .We went out one weekend and it was then he told me his age, 35 and I am 18 turning 19, I look more matured than my age, he looks much ...

A.   17 November 2007: Thanks,but the thing was I didn't know that not calling him that week was playing games, I didnt wanna play games intentionally or anything,. What do I do? Do I call him or wait, I wanted to wait so it woouldn't be like I'm pursuing him too much or ... (read in full...)

I've fallen for him finally but now he doesn't make time for me at all.

Q.   Well this guy friend I've had for a few years has always liked me, and has always treated me so nice....He's always told me how much he likes me and how much he cares about me....I've never really given him that chance because I knew that he was ...

A.   17 November 2007: Girl, I understand what you are going through cos I am also going through the same thing now. This guy I recently met after all this while trying to get at me and suddenly after we started going out, he's changed and doesnt call me often, I havent ... (read in full...)

I am very worried, why hasn't he called me back?

Q.   I went for a party and met this cute guy. We exchanged numbers. It was after 3 weeks that we actually spoke .We went out one weekend and it was then he told me his age, 35 and I am 18 turning 19, I look more matured than my age, he looks much ...

A.   17 November 2007: Thanks guys for your advices but the only problem is I still have him on my mind, I've prayed to God and tried to forget him, just this week I met a couple of guys, we went out for dinner and so on but yet he is still the one on my mind, I am going ... (read in full...)

I am very worried, why hasn't he called me back?

Q.   I went for a party and met this cute guy. We exchanged numbers. It was after 3 weeks that we actually spoke .We went out one weekend and it was then he told me his age, 35 and I am 18 turning 19, I look more matured than my age, he looks much ...

A.   17 November 2007: Thanks a lot, I think that's what I should do... (read in full...)

I love him very much but he's twice my age; I don't want to end up alone when I'm in my 50s

Q.   hi. i'm with the loveliest bloke i've ever met, but he's just turned 40 and i'm 22... i wish this wasn't a problem but in reality it is. i have no intention of splitting wiv him coz we love each other so much, but how do i overcome the problems yet ...

A.   10 November 2007: I agree with what everyone else has said to take life just as it comes everyday. I am 18 turning 19 and in love with a 35 yr old guy. He looks much younger and acts younger but sometimes I think if we eventually get married how would life be for us ... (read in full...)

Why do I seem attracted to older guys?

Q.   i have a problem...i'm only attracted to older guys! i'm 17 and it seems like people that are 23 and older grab my attention...the oldest crush i had was 38. i have no idea what to do because im in high school and i want to have a relationship ...

A.   10 November 2007: I totally agree with you, I am also 18 yrs dating a 35 yr old man even though he doesn't look it, he looks like in his 20's. I've always been attracted to older guys cos they are matured and guys my age seem like small immature guys to me, thats the ... (read in full...)

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