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... Send *oftlyCaress a private message | | | *oftlyCaress's profile:I am a 53 yr old woman who has 3 grown daughters and 7 grand kids . I work full time and very distant from my family seems like no matter what i try i cant please any of my girls which are all grown . I try to not let this bother me and not sure if it is just me or letting anyone get close to me or vise versa but I can tell you I feel alone I like going camping and kayaking and there are times I wish i had someone who enjoyed the same things I do but no luck . I am Married but it has fallen apart because we are so very different filing for a divorce asap . I have lost both my parents and on 1/1/2019 a still born grand daughter not sure how to deal with that or anything else right now I guess Im just grasping at straws I feel as though the past 2 yrs my whole world has been a nightmare and keep wanting to wake up. I know I am not the most beautiful or perfect person but at this time I am so very very lost mentally and emotionally .. Just grasping for my happiness back again ! I WANT TO LIVE LAUGH And LOVE AGAIN !!! |
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Husband's deployed now I'm addicted to porno!
Q. I am not sure how to say this or ask .. Ever since my husband deployed I have been pretty much addicted to porno.what does this mean?...
A. 14 December 2008: I agree better the porn then another man Im sure your husband would be much happier knowing it was porn pleasing you and not some other man putting his hands on you....... (read in full...)
My ex wants no strings sex but I have feelings for her, help?
Q. im so confused my girlfriend and i broke up 3 months ago then she just wanted to be friends i found this hard still love her she now wants to have sex with me but with no strings she said she still has feelings for me but doesnt want to get back ...
A. 14 December 2008: My husband of 26 yrs told me he wanted a divorce so he moved out then he later wanted to have sex but didnt want to be together pretty much like your g/f you cant do it you will end up confused and hurt and it will break you I know Im still ... (read in full...)
I'm heavy and worried it will affect my chances of asking out a girl
Q. Help! I think I might be interested in a girl and I want to know what to do. The problem is I am very overweight and I get a feeling that being overweight and asking someone out may get a really negative reaction...you know sort of people being ...
A. 14 December 2008: Well While you might be over weight and afraid to ask her out you wont know until you do also it might help you by building your self esteem and being more active their fore you will loose some your weight so go for it I myself look at the ... (read in full...)
Do others find oral sex gross?
Q. I find oral sex totally disgusting! Yes, call me weird. My Bf tries to make me give him a blow job, but i refuse. Am i alone on this? Am i like the only girl who thinks that's totaly gross? I just dont like the fact that stuff gets into my mouth, ...
A. 13 December 2008: Well I Find it awesome... And really you have the choice to spit or swallow or even have him pull it out when he is just about to cum. I mean if you dont have foreplay sex can grow very boring as for me i like to give and receive.. I know ... (read in full...)
Porn is his life!
Q. My husband also did Masturbating when I busy at work. He likes to watch porn every day and like them feel them than me, if one day cannot see them he will go in a mood and make the reason to fight with me, I am very sad because I think he loves ...
A. 13 December 2008: Well I would tell him he needs to get help it has become a illness .And it does make you feel as if you are not worthy.I wouldnt take it for one minute.I would tell him hey dude you want them have them I will find me a man that likes me and ... (read in full...)
Husband is a liar and a cheater, I do believe he loves me but I doubt his ability to do the right thing, any advice?
Q. I met my husband 6 years ago. We had the most wonderful 2/3 years together and we both felt we had found a love that was very special and rare. He had an affair 1.5 years ago and I threw him out, the pain was almost unbearable, he had become in...
A. 13 December 2008: As a woman that has been through pretty much the same thing but in a 26 yr marriage ...It is hard to learn to trust again.As for me I couldnt because it was a cousin with whom he cheated with , but it can be done if you really want to save your ... (read in full...)
I think she only wants me on the weekends!
Q. I have being in a relationship for the past 4 years with a separated woman that has 2 kids with her. We started as friends and hide our interests from her kids until about a year but I have also noticed that she prefer to spend time with her ...
A. 13 December 2008: Hello there ! Im thinking you probably need to let her know how you feel about this and see where you 2 stand.Tell her that you would like it if she was a little more considerate about your feelings and ask her if she really loves you or is ... (read in full...)
Do I stay with partner of 6 years or go with old friend for FWB relationship?
Q. I have been with my partner for 6 years and have 2 children with him, but dont love him and dont have any sexual relationship, i know i should leave him but its hard? Ive recently met a friend i havent seen for 5 years, he wants to have sex but ...
A. 13 December 2008: Well I wouldnt just give my body away to someone that just wants sex he can get that any wheres besides you would probably feel like crap after wards or used ..And as far as staying with your mate of 6 yrs Its not fair to either of you to ... (read in full...)
Why are my boyfriend's friends so harsh on women needing to fit a certain prototype? I don't understand.
Q. I think I may have a problem with self-image. The thing is, of late, I've more been around more people who really take into account appearences before they get to know people. They are my boyfriend's friends and they are often discussing and deba...
A. 30 April 2008: I think this comes from one being shallow minded thin isnt always good nor is looks you can have both or either and not be a good match or have a personality like a box of rocks .. I truly think there is alot of this going around and ... (read in full...)
Threesome or no threesome ???
Q. Hi all...just after a little advice....well my GF of a year has hinted that she wants a threesome, FFM, we have discussed quite a lot, whilst I am happyish to go along I have a couple of quesions you guys n gals may be able to answer for me. 1. I...
A. 15 April 2008: Dont do it trust me it will be a disaster and I have been there they wanted it and it went well for awhile then he started paying more attention to me then her and then it was all down hill from there it will ruin ones relationship.... ... (read in full...)
How can I believe him when he says I'm beautiful?
Q. My husband gets up really early in the morning for work. This is also when all the porn is on. I understand men wake up excited and need a release. My problem is I feel like I'm being compared later when we have sex or I am naked in front of him. He ...
A. 26 January 2008: I dont blame you i have felt the same way .... And have found that since my husband ask for a divorce that he has been looking at girls thinner then myself and not even close to my build ... I know why you feel the way you do...And it is ... (read in full...)
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