Does he have feelings for me that go beyond friendship?
Q. My friend with benefits (that Ive been seeing for the past 9m) and I have become best friends and have told each other we love each other in the context of friends. From the start he said we could never be anything more than friends because ...
A. 6 October 2008: Guys never really show their feeling too much...but as you said you seen in his eyes that he had feelings for you. With the reaction that he gave you from the news you told him is a confirmation that he does have feelings. At the same time I don't ... (read in full...)
How do I accept that marriage will never happen for me?
Q. I am 36 years old and never married. I have been living with my boyfriend of 5 years for the last 3 years. I have a 13 year old daughter.(not his) Anyway, He convinced me to quit my job and help him build his buisness. Which I did, with no pay. ...
A. 3 October 2008: don't except that it will never happen to you. let him know how you feel. you dropped what you were doing to help him and now at the least he can do is credit you wants and marry you. i have a similar situation a friend of mine has been in a ... (read in full...)
I feel like my bf is bored with me!
Q. I am feeling quite down on things at the moment. Amongst other things, I feel like my boyfriend is bored with me. He has never said he is, and he wouldn't be as mean to, but he seems to not be that interested in me at the moment. Although I am ...
A. 3 October 2008: I experienced the same as far as job shortage. I had my BS in health admin before I finally landed a job worth keeping. just keep your head up things will get better. ... (read in full...)
Am I being insecure or are my fears right?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend does not tell anyone about me. No one knows about us. I work for him and when I have tried to quit once bcoz of my feelings for him (He was looking for girls for marriage at that time). Prior to this, we were dating but he sa...
A. 3 October 2008: I agree with you're mom he's not emotionally stable/commited. He says he's under pressure I would listen to him. If you want to keep this guy around don't even show him that you're pressed. Try to suppress you're insecurity and jealousy. Then he ... (read in full...)
How do I get over him? I was his mistress.
Q. I was wondering how to get over a guy that i was his mistress. Everything was going great, then something unexpected happens that we break it off, but now we're left with the questions and the feelings....... So what do i do?????...
A. 3 October 2008: Don't worry girl, if he feels any love for you or has any feelings at all he'll contact you. I'm in the same situation, but my guy isn't married but has a gf. Like I said if there is any feelings there at all he'll be back. If dont't mind me asking ... (read in full...)
God led me to his front door but now it's been closed! Why is he playing with my heart?
Q. The relationship started with divine circumstances. God, literally, led me to his front door. A simple question turned into an hour long conversation ending with him asking for my number and to see me again. He called immediately. That was June ...
A. 22 September 2008: i'm also a spiritual person and if God led you to him, he will come to you (if it's God sent).... (read in full...)
God led me to his front door but now it's been closed! Why is he playing with my heart?
Q. The relationship started with divine circumstances. God, literally, led me to his front door. A simple question turned into an hour long conversation ending with him asking for my number and to see me again. He called immediately. That was June ...
A. 22 September 2008: from what I hear you might just need to ignore him for a while, because he seems to feel that he has you where he wants you. dating is nothing but a game and it's really unfortunate, but it is. are you sure he doesn't have a woman, that he had ... (read in full...)
Is playing hard to get a good strategy to get the person you want?
Q. Hi all, This question has been around in my mind for quite some time. So I would like to know does doing that actually makes that person you want crave for you, like you more and wants to pursue you instead? 'Cos I am susceptible to becom...
A. 17 September 2008: Playing hard to get has always worked for me
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Did he cheat? Or is he mad at me for making the acusation?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 4 months had just broke up.He broke it off with me cause i questioned if he was cheating which he denied. I told him his friend told me and he said i was tring to get him mad at his friend.Of course he denied it and said a ...
A. 12 September 2008: If you can don't call. This will make him wonder the same thing that you're wondering. But I would say after a complete week 7days if he hasn't called call him. That is if you're still feeling that you miss him. But if he wasn't cheating when you ... (read in full...)
Women only, penis question! Would you be ok with 3 inches?
Q. this is a short and simple question, can a 3 inch penis give a girl a gspot orgasm? and has anyone had sex wit a penis so small? how does it feel?...
A. 12 September 2008: its possible, but the guy has to know what they are doing. I mean he has to have experience pleasing a girl. It's really not how big the penis is...what matters is if the guy knows how to work it. hope this helps
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Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. What should I do?
Q. I was talking to this guy and things got pretty hot and heavy for a while. Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. Said he'll call and take 4 days to call me back. I took it as a hint he wasn't interested so I moved on. Then he calls ...
A. 5 September 2008: i think you should be patient. i respect the guy for being honest and keeping distant for whatever reason. it's good for these types of characteristics to come out early in the game so you won't be suprised later. do you know if he is involved with ... (read in full...)
It's like I'm having some weird, platonic affair with the guy I work with but he has a girlfriend!
Q. I am in love with a guy I work with and it is driving me mad! We have been really good friends for a long time now and spend most lunchtimes together. A few months ago after a work night out he kissed me and said he liked me, since then i have ...
A. 5 September 2008: ok, it seems to me that there is alot of curiosity and feelings in the air here. well the lunches have went from public to at your houses. that's a clear sign right there that sex is on the way.
take if from me you don't want to get sexually invo... (read in full...)
Faced with the dilemma of abandoning my 30 year marriage or losing the lost (and found) love I yearned for so much!
Q. I love my lover so much but find it so difficult to leave my wife and daughter. Two years ago, over 30 years on, the love of my life contacted me. I always felt it only was a matter of time before we were in touch again. Since then we have formed a...
A. 5 September 2008: I think honesty means everything, and if you've been with your wife for 30 yrs she knows that your feeling are being shared. I would just sit her down and tell her the situation. This doesn't mean you have to go be with your lost love, but you might ... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty for "messing" with a guy who has a girlfriend?
Q. should I feel guilty about messing with a guy who has a girl??? but they are not married????...
A. 2 September 2008: I really don't have an crediable answer for that question. Other than the fact that my actions aren't intentional. I've never exprienced this before and I feel in my heart that we are going to be together. The fact that I feel bad about the whole ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend just keeping me sweet only to dump me when he comes back?
Q. hey there, my boyfriend is now workin away for a few months but unfortunately in his job contact is minimal cut a long story short i found out just before he was leavin via another source that my bf had told his mom that it felt like i had been...
A. 2 September 2008: First off you need to consider the co-worker and their life. Most of the time misery loves company. If you bf hasn't given you any reason to believe he's leaving you don't believe that. As far as what the mom said, she may be telling the truth so ... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty for "messing" with a guy who has a girlfriend?
Q. should I feel guilty about messing with a guy who has a girl??? but they are not married????...
A. 2 September 2008: Thanks again for all the replies. I think maybe I should have reworded my question or something. But it's common sense that I will feel bad. I don't know the age or experience that anyone of the people who replied, but I can tell that you would have ... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty for "messing" with a guy who has a girlfriend?
Q. should I feel guilty about messing with a guy who has a girl??? but they are not married????...
A. 2 September 2008: Thanks ladies for your answers. I appreciate it. For the record I do feel bad, but at the same time I don't. I've experienced both sides of the fence I've been cheated on and now I'm the one cheating. Neither feels good but I'd rather the one who's ... (read in full...)
What should I say about his lack of wood?
Q. my friend shared with me that when he attempts to have sex with his girlfriend of 15 years, he doesn't get an erection. What should I say???...
A. 2 September 2008: Thanks for you all's answers. For the record he's not married, and he doesn't have any children by his girlfriend. This doesn't justify why I'm sleeping with him, but the fact is I am. I have grown to have feelings for this individual and he already ... (read in full...)
What should I say about his lack of wood?
Q. my friend shared with me that when he attempts to have sex with his girlfriend of 15 years, he doesn't get an erection. What should I say???...
A. 2 September 2008: Thanks you all for your answers. Maybe I should have given you a little background. I'm actually dating this guy, but the thing is he has never not been able to get an erection when him and I prep to have sex. So I'm not sure why he shared this with ... (read in full...)
How do you mend a broken heart after marriage fails?
Q. My question is to all those going through divorce or separation. How do you mend a broken heart?? I love my husband bvery much. We have been together for six years. Just last year we got married, and now living separately which eventually will ...
A. 28 August 2008: First I just want to say that I'm sorry for your loss, but at the same time be happy that you didn't waste any more time of your life with him. I also have been heart broken by my husband of 4 years. He cheated on me I believe within the first year. ... (read in full...)
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