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My boyfriend wants to finger me, but I'm uncomfortable with my body.

Q.   well I've been dating this guy and we've been talking about the sexual things we wanna do, avoiding the actual sex. he wants to finger me but I'm overweight and uncomfortable with my body. and my guy is "normal," like skinny and attrac...

A.   21 July 2008: he wont be "grossed out"the fact that he has urges to get closer to you in that way says he fancies you like crazy.you seem too young to worry about these issues and maybe you should wait just a little longer until you feel 100% comfortable within ... (read in full...)

I have to find out if he slept with her, it's driving me mad!

Q.   I cannot get over him cheating on me. It was 1st January 2007 and he went out on New Years Eve after we had a fight. He switched his phone off and forgot bout me, sick in bed. So next day I asked if he'd cheated coz the relationship was rocky at the ...

A.   21 July 2008: i would say leave it.you mentioned it was a while back so your just making it worse for yourself.i would ask him out right on how to get in contact with this girl if you realy have to know for peace of mind,but i doubt you will get to the bottom of ... (read in full...)

If he is too scared to propose to me, should I propose to him? What do you think?

Q.   I've been with my partner for quite some time now and we're beginning to talk wedding and family wise. Thing is, I think he's too scared to propose to me. He's given himself so many opportunities, but then backs out and says something else. I wa...

A.   20 July 2008: you can propose,but wont there be that little voice in your head that says.."why didnt he! im all for girl power and all that jazz ..but realy where is the champagne ,the sparkler and the cheesey band at the restraunt with him on one knee! (you know ... (read in full...)

Help wanted: extra agony aunts/uncles required

Q.   I've been a member of this site for a while now, and from what I've seen here, I can conclude almost every agony aunt/uncle here is a good person: someone who likes to help out, to dish out wisdom by the barrel. I have thoroughly enjoyed adding to ...

A.   20 July 2008: well i do try x ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend fellated a guy! How do we have a healthy relationship again?

Q.   My boyfriend and I went on a weekend away with another couple that have been friends with us for years. In a drunken spell, my boyfriend and the other guy decided to experiment and gave each other blow jobs (without us girls knowing this). Later the ...

A.   20 July 2008: whats done is done! bi sexual is clear.you have to move on with life mistake or not if your feeling bad try seek advice.all will be forgot in time.ive heard of spin the bottle but spin the man ! take care x... (read in full...)

What should I do about this annoying, cheap, and obsessive kid?

Q.   This kid in my class is a total bitch lets call him "joe". He thinks this girl who dosen't like him belongs to him and he won't let anyone talk to her, lets call her "jane". So jane and one of her friends were walking around town and decided ...

A.   20 July 2008: hmm your realy angry,i think you should just let it blow over,say to yourself "i dont give a flying a "...." dont worry have BBQ and dont invite them ha ha sorted!... (read in full...)

How can I get my long distance boyfriend excited?

Q.   Hey, i was jut wondering how i would give my long distance boyfriend a boner, ive done it once be for but im not sure how and would love to do it again. Anyway he was so cute about it and didnt know how to tell me, at first he was silent couldnt ...

A.   20 July 2008: relax go with the flow (dont start giggling) explain what your wearing and tell him how you like to be touched the rest will follow..good luck x take care ... (read in full...)

Is it possible for a man to ejaculate from anal stimulation?

Q.   is it possible for a man to ejaculate from anal stimulation,if he is fingered anally?...

A.   20 July 2008: yes it is,some men find it arousing and have (g spot) tucked up behind the bladder or nearer the testicle.x take care ... (read in full...)

What can I do to see if this boy likes me?

Q.   I've liked a boy for quite a while and we've become quite good friends now. At first we didn't get on that well but now all of a sudden he's been really nice to me and asked me for hugs and stuff like that. I don't know if he likes me or not and ...

A.   20 July 2008: hi! ha ha its soo clear he likes you,go for it ask him out.there are so many things that will let you know,IE(TEASING,BANTER,REMARKS ON HOW YOU DRESS,AND MOST OF ALL SARCASM!ps they tend to say realy stupid things infront of their mates.take care x... (read in full...)

I had unprotected sex and bled heavily during and after my first time, please advise!

Q.   Today me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time, but unprotected my boyfriend kept taking out his penis to check he werent producing sperm , could i be pregnant even if he said no sperm came out? and i bled heavily alot during and after it is ...

A.   20 July 2008: i do not wish to alarm you but you realy do need to make an appointment with your doctor on birth control,and a pregnancy test,and if this was not your partners first time then i recomend you both seek sexual advice.sex is a wonderfull experience ... (read in full...)

Is getting seductive texts from an ex considered cheating?

Q.   Does it mean a current boyfriend is cheating if he gets seductive text messages from an ex.... He claims he's not cheating.....this was just something stupid that happened.... I need help with this one....I trust him!!!!...

A.   20 July 2008: sorry but there is no smoke without fire,i wouldnt say its cheating but it is very disrespectfull.you should be comfortable in your relationship,i hope the texts are being ignored or even better change the number!... (read in full...)

Who wants to marry someone when you can't trust what they say?

Q.   I have posted several times before about my relationship but just when I thought the mass confusion was over..... Basically we have been together for 7 years and have a 4 1/2 month old son together. He can't hold a job so we all live with my par...

A.   20 July 2008: im going to be blunt! he is clearly a very childish and selfish man ! tell him if he does not grow up and take his role on responsability you will tell him to get out,and yes doooormat is what you have written on your forehead,you must be very ... (read in full...)

Why do men need to watch porn and how should I handle my husband's preference to pornography?

Q.   Why do men need to watch porn? Every time i go away from home my husband masturbates and watch porn,even if we had sex 2-3 times during the week. It makes me feel uncertain about his love for me. I have told him that but now he does it when I am not ...

A.   19 July 2008: i would say join him on the experience,if after a while you still feel uncomfortable then express how you feel..... (read in full...)

Why do men need to watch porn and how should I handle my husband's preference to pornography?

Q.   Why do men need to watch porn? Every time i go away from home my husband masturbates and watch porn,even if we had sex 2-3 times during the week. It makes me feel uncertain about his love for me. I have told him that but now he does it when I am not ...

A.   19 July 2008: i would say join him on the experience,if after a while you still feel uncomfortable then express how you feel..... (read in full...)

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