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Nothing qualifies me to help other people. Ultimately, people help themselves. Other people only offer an opinion.

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How can a real girl ever be enough for a man?

Q.   How can a real girl ever be enough for a man? I mean, I have talked with many guys my age, and they have all agreed when I asked them whether a porn star has a hotter or better body than a normal girl, they have all said yes! The typical porn star ...

A.   17 October 2010: I totally agree with CaringGuy. At this moment in time, you're just looking at all of this in black and white and cherry picking the generalizations. This is a self-esteem issue and you're trying to find something to blame that on and justify your ... (read in full...)

How can a real girl ever be enough for a man?

Q.   How can a real girl ever be enough for a man? I mean, I have talked with many guys my age, and they have all agreed when I asked them whether a porn star has a hotter or better body than a normal girl, they have all said yes! The typical porn star ...

A.   15 October 2010: No one is perfect. The important thing is how you're accepted and wanted. I would NOT believe my girlfriend if she said I was perfect, but I would believe her if she said I'm 'perfect' for her. The difference between the two is that there wi... (read in full...)

How can a real girl ever be enough for a man?

Q.   How can a real girl ever be enough for a man? I mean, I have talked with many guys my age, and they have all agreed when I asked them whether a porn star has a hotter or better body than a normal girl, they have all said yes! The typical porn star ...

A.   14 October 2010: "What I still don't get is what did women do to deserve this? That our beauty is not perfect and ideal?" What if your husband started watching porn of chubby women? What would you say about "the ideal" then? Would you then consider making y... (read in full...)

How can a real girl ever be enough for a man?

Q.   How can a real girl ever be enough for a man? I mean, I have talked with many guys my age, and they have all agreed when I asked them whether a porn star has a hotter or better body than a normal girl, they have all said yes! The typical porn star ...

A.   14 October 2010: You see, the problem lies in how you think and process those thoughts. People will always find beauty in other things, other people, but that does not mean you're not 'enough'. You are comparing yourself to the impossible and I am not even talking ... (read in full...)

What was your best first date? I need ideas!

Q.   what was the best first date you ever had? what made it so great and did you end up together? im just curious and looking for great date ideas!...

A.   14 October 2010: Would you believe me if I told you I never went out on a date before? With that said, the best time I had when I went out with someone was the one where we both had a lot of fun and/or that we totally and utterly enjoyed each others' company ... (read in full...)

Why would she stand me up after I flew 3,000 miles?

Q.   I have been talking to a girl long distance for over a year now. We talk on the phone everyday for over an hour a day. She's mentioned she likes me but she doesn't know what it means. She also says she kind of dating someone. So I flew to go me...

A.   14 October 2010: I am going to assume you've seen her in video/pictures. A few possibilities: 1) Someone stood me up after I flew from Vancouver to Hong Kong because she told me she was scared of seeing me, even though she really wanted to. After I left HK,... (read in full...)

Should I meet him one last time?

Q.   Ok...please answer this question without judging me. I had earlier posted a Q as to whether i should get back with my boy friend... as i had cheated on him. Well, things between us have been sorted out somehow... its not perfect but i...

A.   14 October 2010: You answered your own question actually. "I really don't want to make more mistakes." If you feel you are someone who is prone to make mistakes of the heart a lot, then follow your gut instinct: "I really don't want to make more mistakes... (read in full...)

How can I get things to go back to normal?

Q.   I'm seeing this guy, we've been talking for about four weeks after I met him through a friend. We have met up twice in those four weeks, but I havent seen him for the last two weeks, however, we talk every single day without fail. And we talk ...

A.   14 October 2010: Here's a question for you: do you expect that two lovers will have the same level of interest towards each other forever? As a relationship becomes more in-tuned with each person, the usual hobbies each person shares (eg: talking, going out ever... (read in full...)

Helpppp!!! Should I ask him out????

Q.   There is a guy that I like, and it seemed like he liked me back. We met each other last year, I have had a crush on him since then but never told him. We would flirt with each other all the time. I had told him that I like him back in Apirl and had ...

A.   14 October 2010: Let's look at it this way: 1) If you don't ask him out, it will bother you forever, until you see him with another girl, then you'll start regretting. This is a common issue as you no doubt have seen a zillion times here at DearCupid. 2) If y... (read in full...)

Age difference is an issue; how do I tell him I love him now no matter what the future is?

Q.   He's 34, I'm turning 19. Our relationship is becoming...more intense I think. He calls me before work, on lunch break, and after work. We're always texting each other silly things. Been together almost 8months. We're both difficult people...he's ...

A.   14 October 2010: "How can I make him understand?" You know the old saying right? Actions speaks louder than words. Don't take that completely literal though. There is absolutely zero reason to rush. Just continue with what you two are doing and in the proce... (read in full...)

Help! Is my penis small?

Q.   I'm barely 6" long and about 5 1/2" in girth. I feel small based on reactions I get from women. What is considered a small penis? Am I really small? Women seem pleased, and I make them orgasm most of the time, so I dont know why I get that "oh, ...

A.   13 October 2010: My friend's husband has a large penis. It has been almost 14 months since they started having sex. She complains that she has never once achieved an orgasm with him. The moral of this story: size only matters if it's too big or too small. ... (read in full...)

I don't understand how he can say he was hurt just because I didn't meet up that night...

Q.   Recently i was talking to a male friend, who used to kind of be a FWB a while back. He has a girlfriend now. He asked if i wanted to meet up for a drink a few weeks before and i said i would if i was free. That was 2 weeks ago and i didn't hear ...

A.   13 October 2010: He's an ultra sensitive man who didn't get what he wanted. Now, are you going to let something simple and highly insignificant get to you or let it go and let him simmer in his own 'misery'? Seriously, is this really worth your time and effort?... (read in full...)

How can I get over my first love?? I'm heart broken please help me

Q.   I went out with my ex boyfriend for like 1 year and 8 months and he recently broke my heart. He broke up with me without there really being a reason he even broke up with me over the phone cause he said we didn't have anything to talk about in ...

A.   13 October 2010: 1) Time, 2) Good friends, 3) a Healthy lifestyle, 4) Adopt a kitten (Ricemonster Approved!) Separate yourself from this so-called love you have/had for him. From the looks of your medium-sized post, it looks like you're trying to look for just... (read in full...)

I don't want them to be together... should I voice my feelings?

Q.   hi, My best friend has kissed my ex-boyfriend, whom she knew I had feelings for him still. I'm still friends with my ex, only because he wanted to stay friends with me. I don't want to hurt them both by saying I don't want them to be together...

A.   13 October 2010: The question is: why does it bother you? If you still believe you have a chance to be with your ex again and want him to reserve that chance only for you, then you have two choices: a) voice your opinion and tell the guy what you want or b) re... (read in full...)

Why do teenage boys go for the popular girls???

Q.   Why do teenage guys always go for the popular girls??? Does no one realize how bad it makes every other girls feel cause they always come in second place to the girls who make us feel unattractive. Why does this happen??? ...

A.   13 October 2010: Actually, how do you define "popular"? Also, who are these teenage guys? You're 'definitely' not talking about that kid who hides himself behind a stack of books at the 2nd floor of the library, reading up on Lochness Monsters and Aliens from ... (read in full...)

How can a real girl ever be enough for a man?

Q.   How can a real girl ever be enough for a man? I mean, I have talked with many guys my age, and they have all agreed when I asked them whether a porn star has a hotter or better body than a normal girl, they have all said yes! The typical porn star ...

A.   13 October 2010: To me, the ideal totally depends on the connection. Absolute ideas don't fit with me. What many women (and men) fail to realize is that beauty is subjective and only makes up one aspect of attraction. Cats like myself, prefer a broad undefined ... (read in full...)

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