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writes: Recently i was talking to a male friend, who used to kind of be a FWB a while back. He has a girlfriend now. He asked if i wanted to meet up for a drink a few weeks before and i said i would if i was free. That was 2 weeks ago and i didn't hear anything so i assumed it was happening and went out with friends and kind of forgot about it. The next morning i checked my messages on my facebook account and he'd sent me a message asking him to call him as he'd gotten a new phone and didn't have my number. Now, back to the present, while we were talking he said i really hurt him for not seeing him when he was in town, i apologised and said i didn't get his message till the next day. He then, again said "it hurt me :("I again apologised, and he then asked if i was free at the weekend and if so would i like to come up to see him, he lives a couple of hours away. I said i might do, he said "well i think you should seeing as it's always me who comes down to you" My question is: why make such a big deal out of me not meeting up with him that night and why does he want me to come visit when he has a girlfriend and all we were before was FWB not even close friends or anything. He doesn't live with her, he lives with friends so wouldn't it look suspicious having a girl who isn't his girlfriend stay over? I don't understand how he can say he was hurt just because I didn't meet up that night, it wasn't on purpose and he's done worse to me in the past.
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reader, BigRuss  +, writes (13 October 2010):
Ignore him, he's playing emotional minds with you.
He wants you to do something for him and thats it. he will say anything to get you to do as he wants. and quite frankly I would be somewhat concerned as to his intentions after you got up there.
Stay at home and nicely tell him to F off.
your safety comes first :)
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reader, Ricemonster  +, writes (13 October 2010):
 He's an ultra sensitive man who didn't get what he wanted. Now, are you going to let something simple and highly insignificant get to you or let it go and let him simmer in his own 'misery'? Seriously, is this really worth your time and effort?
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