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Did I do the right thing by sending her a letter?

Q.   Recently I've developed serious suspicions that my ex-girlfriend is undiagnosed with a mental illness called "Hypomania" a mild Bi-Polar disorder. At times during our relationship she herself has expressed concerns about sudden feelings she can't ...

A.   17 December 2007: My Ex has been calling me a lot lately, even after she said that she didn't want us to txt or call anymore. she says she misses me and now she wants to hang out while she's here for Christmas. Which means she wants me to take her out and pay for her ... (read in full...)

I'm in public school. A boy flirts with me showing vulgarity and indecent language. What to do?

Q.   I really need help. I'm only 13 and I'm still in public school. This guy's been kind of bugging and flirting with me. one time he talked so dirty i was like '' help '' lol he was like '' i want your n*pples '' and he put out his two fingers and ...

A.   14 December 2007: Yeah, once you put him in his place one good time and make it clear that you're not amused by his actions I'm sure he'd chill out. Most dudes just need to be publicly humiliated just once by a girl to crush their ego and send them quietly cowering ... (read in full...)

Sick of masturbating. It makes me feel so pathetic! What can I do?

Q.   Hello. I'm new here and I feel a bit pathetic posting this, but I wonder if anyone can help me. I've been single for almost a year now after coming out of a serious relationship with a girl for 2 years. I can't believe I've been single for half ...

A.   10 December 2007: I've just come out of serious relationship myself and I understand what you're going through. You can't hurry love, the right chick will come along when you least expect her to. In the mean time, don't feel bad about rubbing one out every so often. ... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing by sending her a letter?

Q.   Recently I've developed serious suspicions that my ex-girlfriend is undiagnosed with a mental illness called "Hypomania" a mild Bi-Polar disorder. At times during our relationship she herself has expressed concerns about sudden feelings she can't ...

A.   7 December 2007: My ex just called me... She said that I was sociopathic that she didn't give a f**k about me and that what I did was kinda mean. She also, restated that doctors have run tests on her and that if something was wrong with her then they would have ... (read in full...)

Why is he like this towards me?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about two months now, but i already know that this is real love, none of my other relationships felt this way. But sometimes my boyfriend makes me feel a bit..odd i guess. He'll say hows much he loves me constantly ...

A.   5 December 2007: Sometimes when we love people unconditionally we feel the need to make excuses for them and overlook how they treat us in favor of all the good times. However, your b/f doesn't sound like too much fun. He stresses you emotionally and financially. 2 ... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing by sending her a letter?

Q.   Recently I've developed serious suspicions that my ex-girlfriend is undiagnosed with a mental illness called "Hypomania" a mild Bi-Polar disorder. At times during our relationship she herself has expressed concerns about sudden feelings she can't ...

A.   4 December 2007: You're right it's not going to work forcing her to deal with her issues. Me sending this letter is basically the only and last thing I will be able to do to help her. She habitually cuts people out of her life with disturbing ease and they let her ... (read in full...)

I think my ex-girlfriend has something called "Hypomania". Is there anyway I can address this?

Q.   I just recently broke up with my girlfriend who I love a whole bunch because she didn't call me for a week and didn't come to see me on thanksgiving. However, as I'm sitting here I'm thinking back over the course of our relationship and I'm ...

A.   1 December 2007: I'm 100% positive it isn't Methamphetamine. She's told me that sometimes she feels depressed and that sometimes she can't explain why she feels a certain way. Throughout the relationship I just thought she was being...I don't know eccentric? But now ... (read in full...)

It seems to be a very one sided relationship and I don't know what to do.

Q.   I need some advice on how to deal with my girl friend. I'm 22 and she is my first love. I'll try to paint a full picture for you by telling you a bit about her personality. A lot of the time she can be self centered, rude, spoiled, and ego...

A.   5 November 2007: I feel as though she doesn't put me first in the relationship and this has made me feel unappreciated because she's my #1. I spend all my money on her and I do everything she asks of me. I give her everything I have including my attention. I give ... (read in full...)

What you deserve

Q.   Listen up everyone!!! I need you all to know this...Every single one of you people out there...BOYS, GIRLS, STRAIGHT, GAY, LESBIANS, BISEXUALS, AND TRANSGENDERS...You all deserve the best of the best...you deserve someone that will love, respect, ...

A.   5 November 2007: Nice words. Right now I'm feeling very unappreciated by my g/f of 9 months, a year if you count all the months we spent talking as friends before officially getting together. I feel as though she doesn't put me first in the relationship and... (read in full...)

She says she loves me but can let an entire day without getting in contact with me? Am I hanging on too tight?

Q.   I've been seeing this girl for about 4 months now continuously, we are in an odd predicament, by virtue of where we are, and who we work for in the world, we are not allowed to see each other, strictly professional. Well that did not happen, we ...

A.   5 November 2007: I've been there. My current g/f of 9 months has gone 2 days without calling me. Plus she has this ANNOYING habit of hanging up on me. We'll be in the middle of a conversation then *click* she'll just be gone, just like that! It pisses me of soooooo ... (read in full...)

I thought we were compatible and that he cared. Why did he stop?

Q.   I don't know how to get over him and stop blaming myself, do you think a few months in Australia will help? I was dumped nearly two months ago now by my boyfriend of 8 months. I'm really finding it hard to cope and I am still crying my way th...

A.   5 November 2007: I know exactly what you're going through. I recently broke up with my first girlfriend ever I remember the date! It was Oct 2 she called and said she didn't like me anymore. I was crushed. I loved her unconditionally. She was my first everything and ... (read in full...)

Long distance relationships

Q.   Long distance relationships. There are so many views on them. Some people think they can't work, that the relationships aren't "real" because you don't see your boyfriend or girlfriend everyday, but that's their opinion. They haven't been...

A.   5 November 2007: I am currently in a long distance relationship myself. My girl friend is away at school and she is 3 hours away. I think that if you truly love someone all it really takes is constant communication and straight forward communication of feelings. ... (read in full...)

I don't want to break up, but see no other solution.

Q.   Hi, I'm 23, and I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months. I love her, but I don't know if I respect her. I didn't find out until a week into our relationship - 2 years before she met me she had a 1 night stand with 1 of my friends. She said ...

A.   5 November 2007: I agree with RCN, it isn't really fair to judge her on something she did before she met you. Especially if she makes you really happy the way you say. My current girlfriend whom I love has told me about a couple of dudes she's slept with before me. ... (read in full...)

My penis won't co-operate when it comes to the crunch and now she's getting annoyed!

Q.   Everytime (Three times now) I try to have sex with my G/f it goes soft. I'm a virgin, but I'm positive it isn't nerves. Last night, like everytime we're about to have sex, we were kissing for like 45-50 mins! Now during all that my penis was erect ...

A.   29 April 2007: Last Night was great, I took all of your advice and also that of a friend to have a little alcohol before hand to loosen me up and everything went off nicely. Having this one under my belt I feel that in the future our sexual relationship will be ... (read in full...)

He raped me and forced me to do things! Now he wants me back..should I or shouldn't I?

Q.   well it jus a question that i know i am the oe toanswer but i would like someone elses point of view. i am 15 in a fortnight. my ((bf/exbf)) is 17 i went out with him for 2 and a half months but i sed i didnt want to sleep with him and he sed ok ...

A.   28 April 2007: Any guy who would rape you doesn't care about you the way you want. You're only 15, you're SURE to find someone better out there who loves, honors, and respects you. I think its best if you just cut this dude off completely and better yet, report ... (read in full...)

My penis won't co-operate when it comes to the crunch and now she's getting annoyed!

Q.   Everytime (Three times now) I try to have sex with my G/f it goes soft. I'm a virgin, but I'm positive it isn't nerves. Last night, like everytime we're about to have sex, we were kissing for like 45-50 mins! Now during all that my penis was erect ...

A.   19 April 2007: No she didnt say why she refues she just says "I'm not going to touch it" something about that being too weird or something like that. I mean is it just me or should she be adding more stimulation besides kissing? Its like we kiss for 40-50 mi... (read in full...)

Everything started out great, it was dark, we were kissing, we took off our clothes, and right before game time...I lost my bat!!!!

Q.   I recently just tried to have sex for the first time ever with my girlfriend. Everything started out great, it was dark, we were kissing, we took off our clothes, and right before game time...I lost my bat! The whole time I was just asking "Why ...

A.   9 April 2007: Thank you all for answering me! You've made me feel a whole lot better about the whole situation. ... (read in full...)

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