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Hey i am 20 years old father to be and a husband married to a great woman carring 2 babies...in active duty in the army...live in arkansas usa...skateboards,neeboards,wakesboards,paintball,bmx,dirtbike racing,playing insterments are how i spend my free time...

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Love will find you eventually!

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13 April 2009: I met my love just by college. I saved her life and ever since then we have been in love and now she is pregnant and i am starting to think about marriage. Not much of a story lol...just remember dont go find love love will find you...eventually...

Father of my baby wants nothing to do with me or her

Q.   my ex dumped me on news years eve just gone, but on that same day I found out I was pregnant, i told him and he just put the phone down on me. I was pretty devestated. I was 11 weeks pregnant at this point and I wanted to keep my baby, I graduate ...

A.   8 July 2009: i am sorry but that dude sounds like a jerk he helped make that kid and he should be there for it idc how old u are u got to take respoinciblity for ur actions...heck i am right now having my twins on the 18 of july few days from now but anyways ya ... (read in full...)

wondering how to masterbate?

Q.   i am a 11 year old boy wondering how to masterbate?...

A.   8 July 2009: ok like get nude make sure ur door is locked and like lay on ur bed and just stroke it then when u get hard u can grip it and just jerk off go up and down slow or fast diffrent ppl like it diffrent ways and while u are doing that u can close ur eyes ... (read in full...)

How do I initiate foreplay? Also how do I give a blowjob?

Q.   i dont kno how to start the fore play,, actually i do how do i start the giving a blow job since i never gave one before how do i mak ethe first move with that?...

A.   6 July 2009: foreplay: my wife useley startes that she useley just makes out with a little hugging going on touches my chest takes off my shirt stuff like that not how to begun giving the blow job there are many ways to do that but i think my fav that my wife ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm missing out because I'm a virgin and everyone else is having sex!

Q.   Why ? Am I missing something cool ? I mean I'm wasting my time of doing something fun because they're having sex around but me only doing nothing but crap, you can say i have plenty of time but i also don't want to waste my time right now too. we...

A.   26 June 2009: it is good that u are still hanging on to your v-card...the right girl will come along and take it some day...u dont want to waist that on just any girl dont u...u need to wait for the right girl...dont cave into the presser....k?... (read in full...)

Worried about going to the pool with my boyfriend because of my weight!

Q.   okay so i have been with my boo for like a week now, school is done and he called me and asked if i want to go with him to the pool. but i am 13 and 210 pounds. but i look 160 pounds since im 5"5. but i am highly highly emberassed to go in the wate...

A.   26 June 2009: if he says he wont think anything u should belive him not all boys lie and it is normal to be embarassed but i think u should go to the pool...but i cant tell u what to do...... (read in full...)

Sex is a funny thing...

Q.   I have recently started going out with a guy that I am CRAZY about. I really love him and our relationship has moved really quickly. We were close friends first and both rather secretive about feeling anything more for the other, afraid to ruin what ...

A.   18 May 2009: i wish i was like yall when i did it with my wife we were still datting and she was a virgain (cant spell) and i wasnt and i was just worried that we were moving to fast we datted 2weeks then she lost hers 4 weeks latter we found out she was ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he cum from oral?

Q.   I love to give my bf oral, and i understand that making him cum is not everything, but he never does cum. Although he claims to enjoy it! But it puts me off doin it when i feel like i cant even make him cum. The whole on-goin argument about spit or ...

A.   17 May 2009: at first me and my wife had this problem i just felt a little unsure and i lied to her and told her i wasnt holding back (i realy was) and like as soon as we would go to the sex part of it i would just let it out and she would be like well i guess i ... (read in full...)

She's pregnant and the sex is great? Is that normal?

Q.   ok well my wife is pregnent and lately the sex (when we do have it) well, it has been like great is this normal i mean......

A.   16 May 2009: thanks for the help ... (read in full...)

She's pregnant and the sex is great? Is that normal?

Q.   ok well my wife is pregnent and lately the sex (when we do have it) well, it has been like great is this normal i mean......

A.   16 May 2009: thanks guys i mean i was just wondering i mean she is still early in her pregncy only 9weeks pregnent so thx's hey u got any tips on how to try to make sex more enjoiable for her?...... (read in full...)

wondering how to masterbate?

Q.   i am a 11 year old boy wondering how to masterbate?...

A.   16 May 2009: well i sugest u lay or sit on your bed and strok it till u get a boner then take your hand and go up and down on it slowly at first then u can get faster ... (read in full...)

I desperately need help with answers to what I should do after the birth of my child?

Q.   ok well my wife got me looking for this anwser now idk i just want to know...well what do u do after your wife gives birth i mean like i know u are soupoce to like fill out a birth curitific or something but i mean i know after they get the baby out ...

A.   15 May 2009: thanks that dose help out i mean i know i dont need to worrie it is just i mean like it is one of thos things that crosses your mind lol... (read in full...)

Will I ever be able to swallow?

Q.   Hi, I am 19, and my boyfriend is 21. We have been dating for a long time (almost 4 years) and we have recently started experimenting orally. He says that the sexiest thing would be if he could watch me swallow afterwards. I do enjoy perform...

A.   15 May 2009: me and my wife had this problem when we were datting she tryed and just ended up spitting it out so she told me that she just cant to it i mean i dont blame her not everyone can she we tryed a few things out like keeping tissues by the bed for when ... (read in full...)

Does sex harm your baby ? And do men get stretchmarks ?

Q.   i have actually got 2 questions:: does it damage ababy if you have sex while you are pregnant?? because i am pregnant but my bf wants us t still have sex and.. do men get strechmarks?? might seem silly i jus wondering ...

A.   15 May 2009: you wont harm the baby i read somewhere (forgot where) but if u have sex while prgnent the motion of it all actly rocks the baby and calms it down and what ever u do dont blow air into the vjj (dont know why someone would) but it can produce a like ... (read in full...)

I feel our relationship is going down hill because he always has his daughter.

Q.   hey just need some advice. ive been with my boyfriend/fiancee for 2 yrs know. at the beginning of the relationship everything was perfect i loved being around him there as nothing i was to complain about,the only thing was his daughter he has a know ...

A.   30 April 2009: this is kinda like what happend to me with my ex but i chose diffrently i picked the baby my wife is carring...but still if u love him and he loves u yall can work threw this i mean i know how difficult it is to raise a child my mom had to raise 3 ... (read in full...)

Too young to buy sex toys!

Q.   Hi, i am 16 and in need of some help. My boyfriend and i have been talking about having sex together. We are both virgins and i am worried about the pain to come with losing my virginity. I decided that it would help if i was more ready when ...

A.   28 April 2009: ok well no toys can prepare u for sex like someone els has said yes u cant buy a sex toy till u are 18 and that is still not your problem u need to be 100% sure that u realy want it trust me i lost my viginity at a young age i was still un sure but ... (read in full...)

I want to give a "special treat" to my boyfriend.. Suggestions please??

Q.   My bf is amazing and I was wanting to do something a little extra special, something to wow him, whether it's with my body or a good position that feels amazing to guys. I thought about starting with a massage but once it gets to the sex I'm out of ...

A.   25 April 2009: ok 1 it is a good idea not to do a threesome that could ruin your relationship trust me!!! ok well u could try diffrent posions if u want or like oral u could do sex to oral to sex and then again u ccould see if he has any sex fantasies that yall ... (read in full...)

Caught my son masturbating, should I buy him some condoms, sextoys and an informative book?

Q.   just rececetly i caught my 13 year old son masturbating naked on top of his bed i saw his penis and pubes, this hasnt effected our relationship but i was wondering if i should buy him some condoms and other stuff like a masturbation and sex book or ...

A.   25 April 2009: do what u feel is needed when i was caught at age 13 my dad took me to the store and we bought some condoms and stuff we had a good talk to it wasnt all bad it was inforative i am now 19 and still rember the talk we had it has realy helped me to ... (read in full...)

Caught masturbating by my brother!!!

Q.   my brother caught me masturbating to porn...what should i do if he tells my parents and what should i do about him?...

A.   25 April 2009: just tell him it is natural for kids your age i got caught by my brother once and did nothing about it and he told my parents then like 2 mounts latter i caught him told him see it is natural and everyone has or will do it in there life time... (read in full...)

I got so turned on when I found my boyfriend pleasuring himself with my dildo. Am I weird?

Q.   Last week I caught my boyfriend pleasuring himself with my dildo... I'll leave it up to you to imagine where, but oddly, it really turned me on and we had the most amazing sex I'd ever had. Is it weird that I got turned on by this?...

A.   25 April 2009: just dont worry if it is weard if u had great sex then maby u should try that again... (read in full...)

I want to enjoy sex with my bf...But it hurts!

Q.   Hi - got a sex problem. Not a long one, kinda simple really, but it kinda prooving to be a bit of a big problem. Have been going out with a new guy and we've started having sex. I really like him. The foreplay is really good and I get really ...

A.   25 April 2009: This is similar to the problem me and my wife had. We just had a lot of foreplay and slowly worked it in. Sure it takes some pratice but after all the pain it should work out in the long run and like someone aready said, have u had a orgasm even if ... (read in full...)

I'm young, inexperienced and wish to be more gentle sexually

Q.   umm hi im 13 (young i think). i have a 3 1/2 penis and i think its short for my gf. my gf says she wants it to be pleasurable for the first time but i dont wanna hurt her. will there be anyway to be more gentle? im also afraid that i cant last...

A.   24 April 2009: your not sopoce to care about the size u cant help that like me i wish i had a smaller dice belive it or not but i would rather have a 6in then this 10in but oh well u can try talking to her she should be able to understand your condition and there ... (read in full...)

I love her but no sex!

Q.   my girlfriend does not want to have sex with me and i love her. what should i do? Is there anything I can do or say to make her change her mind?...

A.   23 April 2009: It is not a good idea to force someone into doing something they don't want to do. Trust me I was in the same boat with one of my ex's. You can't change their mind and if you do love her then you can wait for her to be ready for it. Don't you want ... (read in full...)

Is it stupid to think I'm pregnant?

Q.   Someone please help me is it stupid to think I'm pregnant? I was rubbing on my bf's penis with my vagina. It was stupid to do that cause I was jerking him off with my hand too this was 3 weeks ago. I know it was stupid so please don't lecture me. I ...

A.   21 April 2009: You probly are pregnent bc all that needs to realy happen is for cum/sperm to get on the vagina and it will find its way inside...... (read in full...)

How can I heat things up? Help

Q.   my guy and i have been together for 2 years and a half now . we love each other so much have sex almost 3 times a week sometimes more . but i feel that our sex life is starting to be boring , same old same old. we have a little foreplay in the begi...

A.   13 April 2009: try diffrent things like with my ex we did it 5 times a week and it got pretty borring then we started trying diffrent posions like doggie the chair we even tryed upside down (that one didnt work so well) a diffrent posion can some times help... (read in full...)

I need ideas for a sexy surprise for my boyfriend. :-)

Q.   Hi, I'm hoping for some advice from the guys (and the girls!) out there. My bf of 3 yrs has been away for 2 weeks with work. I want to show him how much I've missed him by giving him a sexy surprise, but am stuck for ideas...has anyone got any ...

A.   13 April 2009: 1. set the mood (if u want it do be sexual then u have to make that clear to see) 2. be prepared to make out with him 3. be prepared for sex that night 4. please him 5. if he dont want to be sexual that night don't push him to it he might ju... (read in full...)

He still has porn in his computer. I feel like I cant trust him anymore

Q.   i was looking through my husbands computer and i found some porn movies i was shocked because i thought he stopped watching long time ago what should i do ? i will talk to him about , but how can i make sure that he doesn't watch again ? i feel like ...

A.   13 April 2009: u know porn is like drugs u try it once and u are addicted it was hard for me to quit but once i did i felt really good about my self it has been about 3 mounts science i have seen my last porno...just last week my girlfriend gave me a choice porn ... (read in full...)

The test first showed negative, but then positve. Am I pregnant?

Q.   So i posted a question a couple days ago about being pregnant and i took two tests. The first one i took waited two minutes and nothing happened. When i looked at it about 2 hours later it was positive. Then the next morning i took another and with...

A.   13 April 2009: idk if u are but u should go to see your gone a collagest...(cant spell) they should be able to help u that is what we did with my gf 1 test said negative and one said positve and we went to her doctor and she is pregnant...might not be much help ... (read in full...)

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