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I feel like I'm missing out because I'm a virgin and everyone else is having sex!

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Article - (25 June 2009) 23 Comments - (Newest, 27 July 2009)
A male Cambodia age 30-35, x_Joe_x writes:

Why ?

Am I missing something cool ? I mean I'm wasting my time of doing something fun because they're having sex around but me only doing nothing but crap, you can say i have plenty of time but i also don't want to waste my time right now too.

well i'm very jealous. because i dont know how long i will wait to find a right girl forme, i just can't wait !

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A male reader, x_Joe_x Cambodia +, writes (27 July 2009):

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Am I missing out ?

I'm just so jealous and yes I will be too.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009):

im 14 its not everything, i was with a boy for 4 months and he fingered and tried to have sex with me (i refused the second part coz it realy scared me coz i was raped when i was 6 and 8 by 2 seperate people ) my god i regret it soo much now it hurt then he finished me a month afta and is tellin everyone in our school i really really really (cant stress this enough) wish that id waited for the right guy and until i was older before getting pass making out. a lot of people around our age lie about stuff like this especially to try and impress people and first time it really really hurts but a lot of people have commented on this we're not going to be able to change your mind if you deicded you want to have sex so instead ill say this make sure you use protection the double dutch method is the most effective but ill say this to you now if you just have sex with any random girl that you dont love you WILL regret it

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A male reader, x_Joe_x Cambodia +, writes (13 July 2009):

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Hey, jc156 thanks

But I'm jealous and happy for you

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A male reader, jc156 United States +, writes (13 July 2009):

Hey joe i just wanted to let you know that its ok to be 15 and a virgin. I lost mine on my 16th B-Day but my friends would call that late 1 of my friends lost it at 12 1 at 13 3 at 14 and 2 at 15. But i also know ppl in there early 20's who r still virgins. Anyway alot of people r gonna give you bad advice on this especially girls although i do agree that sex is not what you think it is. Yes its fun and feels great...once you get the hang of it. And the girl you do it with most likly wont enjoy it her first few times either asouming you want the girl with to be a virgin as well. There are many complications when it comes to your first time. Just remeber its like puberty every one goes through it. Oh yeah and remeber your not a pornstar don't hurt the poor girl too much. And i say too much because regardless of what you do it is gonna hurt her the first few times. Every time a girl has sex it gradually hurts less and less and feels better and better. And no its not true that everyone that has sex when there young gets pregnant me and my gf have been having sex for about 2 years now no condoms and she just started taking birth control last month and guess what no babies. But im not suggesting you do the same!

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A male reader, x_Joe_x Cambodia +, writes (4 July 2009):

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Well thanks !

I hope she will understand how i feel and be like what i am !

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A female reader, Beau_Gallante United States +, writes (2 July 2009):

Beau_Gallante agony auntDo not feel bad, I am 22 yo and I have not gone through with it yet. I have been in situations when I could have, I KNOW that its not going to feel good until you are with someone your are married to or in love with :)

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A male reader, x_Joe_x Cambodia +, writes (1 July 2009):

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Well... I don't expect to be a dad when I'm teenager, just want to have sex.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009):

i am 15.

I was 13 when i lost my virginaity.

i spose it depends were you live coz i usted to live in suffolk and i now live in london and i am expecting and 2 of my friends are aswell 1 of them is expecting twins.

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A male reader, x_Joe_x Cambodia +, writes (30 June 2009):

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Hey, Thanks

no offence but i really wanna know.

Does it really happen to everyone who has sex at this age ?

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A female reader, chelseaaaa x  United Kingdom +, writes (29 June 2009):

chelseaaaa x  agony auntyu should be proud yur a virgin everyone thinks loosin yur virginity is a good fun experience its not trust me i lost mine at 15 :O it was awfull like all the others sed yuu will find the right girll ok lol x xxxxx x

seriously life aint all bwt sex trust mee cos thn wiv sex comes problems and whilst yur a virgin yu dnt have any of themm x x

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A male reader, x_Joe_x Cambodia +, writes (29 June 2009):

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How many women started having sex before 17 nowadays ?

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A male reader, Tbonex United States +, writes (28 June 2009):

Tbonex agony auntOk, I guess around that same age, you're right. I don't think you're gay, just saying please don't go that way. Too many women in the world:) When the time comes, you'll be fine.

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A male reader, x_Joe_x Cambodia +, writes (27 June 2009):

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Thanks, but i never see a 15 guy/girl who have sex thrown into jail before.

they're not gay too.

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A male reader, Tbonex United States +, writes (27 June 2009):

Tbonex agony auntYou are not missing out, trust me. Keep your virginity at least wait till you are of legal age. And whatever you do, don't go gay. It is not a cool thing to do:(

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A male reader, x_Joe_x Cambodia +, writes (27 June 2009):

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But I don't wanna wait, I'm just jealous that some people can have sex but i can't, i mean i'm missing out. Why is it unfair ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

first of all are you out there? if your not open to possibilities you find it hard to find one and when you do find her keep her.sex was made because we love someone so much we feel the need to be so close to them we are one. so by having sex we complete a puzzle if you like.they are both pleasurable but the whole point of it is for love and from doing it comes the proof of your love: a child. so be patient wait . have fun while you can and don't be so pessimist you won't pass away at 24 your just making excuses so you can be right. been there done that. take it easy.

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A female reader, Sambuca Queen United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2009):

Sambuca Queen agony auntSex isnt everything and mostly the first time is terrible! Seriously, some people would rather forget their firsts as it can be pretty bad.

You ahve your whole life ahead of you, theres no need to rush into something you may not be preapred for. You want it to mean something dont you? Not some drunk one night stand or something you regret.

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A female reader, josephy France +, writes (26 June 2009):

josephy agony aunt you want our opinions we gave it to you but you seem like when you asked for the first time there was something in your head which is having sex. you don't want to listen you are waiting for someone to say do it what were you waiting for as this is what you might say for yourself. this is just a view and its up to you take it or leave it.

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A male reader, x_Joe_x Cambodia +, writes (26 June 2009):

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I'm just so so jealous of people that are having sex even they are younger than me. So i want to do so

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A female reader, josephy France +, writes (26 June 2009):

josephy agony auntYou really disappointed me. having sex is this what life for? There are many things in this world worth living for. please don't think like this way. people shouldn't think in sex like everything as it not .

It wouldn't and we mustn't let it be. we are human with brain.

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A male reader, x_Joe_x Cambodia +, writes (26 June 2009):

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nobody knows when i will find the right girl, maybe when i'm 23 i will truly love someone but i later die when i'm 24. but if i start having sex now at least if i'm dieing when i'm 24, i would have 8 years to enjoy having sex !

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A male reader, pure shade 5 United States +, writes (26 June 2009):

pure shade 5 agony auntit is good that u are still hanging on to your v-card...the right girl will come along and take it some day...u dont want to waist that on just any girl dont u...u need to wait for the right girl...dont cave into the presser....k?

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A female reader, josephy France +, writes (25 June 2009):

josephy agony auntThank god there is one man at least in this earth is still virgin lol.

be proud of yourself and don't do something because others are doing it. the right time will come.

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