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# What qualifies you to help people? I only reply to people based on my own life experience ... I'm a very level headed person, and never push people one way or another.

# Where do you live? UK

# What makes you tick? Fun, laughter, new experiences

What's your relationship status? Lonely and single at the moment!

I'm trying to pluck up the courage to leave my husband...

Q.   I am trying to pluck up the courage to leave my husband. Can someone help me boost my confidence? All we do is argue and it's all the cause of him this is sad to say but my heart no longer feels the love for him because he treats me badly he calls ...

A.   7 July 2010: You are very young, how long have you been marries? No, no one should say horrible things about they're partner in bed (a better way is to give them tips, and tell them what feels good, not what feels bad) Do you have family members or frien... (read in full...)

Do women actually cum too???

Q.   Just to let you know i am 16 but for some reason it hasnt changed my age on here:/ Do women actually cum? I know this sounds strange but my boyfreind asks me during sex if im about to cum but i dont know. if so what happens?? or do i just not re...

A.   7 July 2010: haha Yeah, some woman do ... some just orgasm .... some don't do either, but still have a good time. cum is obviously when some liquid cums out, a bit like a boy, but normally less - it can dribble out a bit, or rush out quickly. Ever... (read in full...)

He stopped trying because it was too difficult to take my virginity!

Q.   me and my boyfriend have almost been together for 2 months, we are so close and comeftable together it is so right i now belive in love ther is 2 years 9 months diffrence. when we first got together he wasn't too keen om my age and im a 15 year old ...

A.   7 July 2010: Just noticed you have only been together for 2 months! I think you should stop stressing yourselves out about trying to have sex too soon, and just enjoy kissing for a while! I personally think you should wait at least 6 months before pushing t... (read in full...)

He stopped trying because it was too difficult to take my virginity!

Q.   me and my boyfriend have almost been together for 2 months, we are so close and comeftable together it is so right i now belive in love ther is 2 years 9 months diffrence. when we first got together he wasn't too keen om my age and im a 15 year old ...

A.   7 July 2010:  Yes it is against the law - but what's more important is if you are ready. You said your bf said it was time to do it. Only do it if you feel you really want to. By the sounds of things, I don't think you are ready. In terms of sleeping wi... (read in full...)

How the heck do I last longer?

Q.   Hi, this is quite an embaressing question but I see no other way than to ask. When I have sex with my girlfriend... I tend to come really fast, every time, im talking about 30 seconds tops. When I masturbate I try to make it last longer since I h...

A.   7 July 2010: Practice, Practice!! (safley of course, lol) Yep, doing it on your own and having a pause before you cum, they going again and pausing before your cum - it might be a bit annoying to do this for a while, but it will help. (If you need to paus... (read in full...)

I've tried everything but nobody seems to want me...

Q.   I have been single for 10 months, after the person I was in love with finished it. It has taken me quite a long time to get over them, but along the way I have been doing what I can do find someone new. I'm loosing hope ..... I've tried da...

A.   7 July 2010: Thanks :) I just get so frustrated .... I can get good at most other things I try, but talking to guys is a nightmare. Maybe I don't care about doing things wrong in sport/ work, I laugh it off. But I really can't take it if I do something stu... (read in full...)

Should I go on holidays with a pedo uncle?

Q.   Hi, I wrote on here before about my uncle. This is the link to it. This tells you everything from the beginning. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/inappropriate-touching-from-an-uncle.html Well it hurts me so much that my pearents are on his side...

A.   4 July 2010: If you have the option not to go, then of course don't go!! Are there not any other family member you can talk to? An aunt on the other side? older cousins? grandparents? A school councilor? a friends mum who you like? You will find pretty ... (read in full...)

Should I go on holidays with a pedo uncle?

Q.   Hi, I wrote on here before about my uncle. This is the link to it. This tells you everything from the beginning. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/inappropriate-touching-from-an-uncle.html Well it hurts me so much that my pearents are on his side...

A.   4 July 2010: Are there not any other family member you can talk to? An aunt on the other side? older cousins? grandparents? A school councilor? a friends mum who you like? You will find pretty much everyone will be very understanding with you. Personal... (read in full...)

Do families play favorites?

Q.   Do families play favorites? Cause I really think there's something wrong with mine....

A.   4 July 2010: You might need to expand on this question. Families can have favorites, most people in general do. You can never let this hold you back .... you are in control of your life, and it's up to you to make great friends, where you can find support ...... (read in full...)

Are all men like this?!

Q.   Me and my bf are almost every time fighting over the same darn thing. SEX. If we didn't have sex in a while like for example in a week he starts telling me that this isn't normal, that we should have it more often, that no man can control it and ...

A.   4 July 2010: At the end of the day.... when I have slept with boyfriends when I wasn't in the mood I started to not want it even more. It's only not normal if you've completely gone off sex, and don't want to at all any more ... which generally means yo... (read in full...)

I'm 19 and want sex! Should I just get it over with?

Q.   I'm 19 and I kinda want to have sex but have not really found the person...Sometimes I just want to get it over with and have that amazing feeling that everyone talks about...Should I wait for the right person or just get it over with???...

A.   4 July 2010: The top person is right ... that 'amazing' thing didn't happen until about 7 years after being active for me ..... that was down to us both being experienced. You will only get the 'amazing' when you really like someone, or when you and someone ... (read in full...)

When I'm with a man and I reach orgasm, I suddenly lose interest momentarily

Q.   I consider myself bisexual, though I really don't care about the label. I'm attracted to both men and women and enjoy being with both. There is a difference and it's one I don't quite understand or know how to get over. When I'm with a man and I...

A.   4 July 2010: Hi, This is completely normal ... some people do lose interested when they have cum. If you want to carry on for longer, the best way is to slow things down when you feel like your reaching climax. Some people do feel like they don't w... (read in full...)

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