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writes:Hi, this is quite an embaressing question but I see no other way than to ask.When I have sex with my girlfriend... I tend to come really fast, every time, im talking about 30 seconds tops.When I masturbate I try to make it last longer since I have heard it helps with lasting in bed, I do it in about 5-8 minutes.During the "act" I allways make her come with my fingers and during that time she usualy teases me a bit but nothing special. But when I stick it in her I have hardly time to enjoy it before it is over. How the heck do I last longer? Should I go first? Is there a trick to it? Please help, I want it to be as good for her as possible.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (7 July 2010):
 http://www.health.arizona.edu/health_topics/sexual_health/usingtwocondoms.htm
I forgot to add some supporting info, so there's the link. Try the extrastrength condoms. And as another aunt said, try having an orgasm first, then try again.
I think that you'll find as you have more experience, this will change. Give yourself some time, be patient and have fun practicing. Good for you for making sure she's happy first; the mark of a good lover.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (7 July 2010):
No! Don't wear two condoms! This causes bad friction and will tear both condoms. Find an extra thick one instead.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (7 July 2010):
 The band chick in american pie suggested wearing two condoms instead of just one, (less sensitive). Never tried it myself... but it worked for Jim ;)
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reader, Pinkpies  +, writes (7 July 2010):
Practice, Practice!! (safley of course, lol)
Yep, doing it on your own and having a pause before you cum, they going again and pausing before your cum - it might be a bit annoying to do this for a while, but it will help.
(If you need to pause for quite a while, then try to do so)
An ex of mine had the same problem - what worked well was a hand job before doing it, he would then last longer when we got down to it... as time went on, he lasted longer.
I also found me on top helped, as he couldn't make it go faster - I would keep it slow, and stop if he got too over exited, then carry on again after 5-10 seconds.
Also you are very young, you will last longer as you get older.
:)
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