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When I'm with a man and I reach orgasm, I suddenly lose interest momentarily

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Question - (4 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 July 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I consider myself bisexual, though I really don't care about the label. I'm attracted to both men and women and enjoy being with both. There is a difference and it's one I don't quite understand or know how to get over.

When I'm with a man and I reach orgasm, I suddenly lose interest momentarily. I don't have that problem with women, so I don't completely understand it. The same sex relationship doesn't revolve around sex either, so I find it hard to label it a fetish. I enjoy cuddling, hanging out, and so forth. Typical relationship goodies.

So why is different and most importantly, how do I overcome it? Am I the only one?

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A female reader, Pinkpies United Kingdom +, writes (4 July 2010):

Hi,

This is completely normal ... some people do lose interested when they have cum.

If you want to carry on for longer, the best way is to slow things down when you feel like your reaching climax.

Some people do feel like they don't want to be touched any more after they have climaxed ... so you can either avoid climax, or just finish them off once you have finished.

:)

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (4 July 2010):

chigirl agony auntFor how long is "momentarily"?

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