Who here is against recreational sex? Any antisexuals?
Q. I know several asexuals but only a handful of antisexuals. It's disheartening that I often feel I am alone on this. While asexuality is gaining acceptance, people ridicule those who are against sex. The only sex I am not against is proc...
A. 24 June 2008: Yes, but sex is also alot of fun, when done with plenty of regard for proper procedure and safty!
However, I fully respect a-sexuals, and to an extent, anti-sexuals.
There are many, many reasons (STDs and pregnancy) not to have sex.
Personal... (read in full...)
Is erectile disfunction a growing problem?
Q. Until fairly recently, you did not hear as much about men with erectile dysfunction. Can it be that it was just kept quiet? Today it is a common complaint. You often did hear men complaining that they did not have satisfactory sexual relationships, ...
A. 22 June 2008: Technically, ED is a "growing problem" by definition :-D
But seriously, it's just an excuse. Everybody has always had problems, this is just a fad to call it ED and blame porn and the intarwebs.... (read in full...)
Please help me with my body-image issues!!
Q. Him I'm 19 y/o. I have a stupid problem, and feel so down about it :( The problem is that I'm very sensitive to the images in the media. So I feel very down about my body. I'm average I guess. I'm not really thin, but I'm not overweight. It...
A. 8 June 2008: To tell you the truth- Most guys will SAY they want a girl as "hot" as in porn or the movies or mass media; in reality, guys are more turned on by the interaction and chemistry you have (Assuming they arent shallow!), as long as you're able-bodied ... (read in full...)
Will I ever find that special girl, who's never had sex with anyone before me??
Q. Why does it seem like the whole world is having sex, when I've lived for 19 years and am still a virgin? My friends that I've known for many years are all in these serious relationships with girls that they liked for so long, and are now constantly ...
A. 6 June 2008: Nice girls can have fun just like guys can nowadays- The "no sex before marriage" was meant to tell you that STDs and unwed parents are the result of sexual promescuity- Dont worry if a girl has had her share of safe fun before she fell in love with ... (read in full...)
Can exes be best friends? I'm a bit bothered by this...
Q. Hey all, quick question for anyone listening, Do you think that its ok for ex's to be best friends? my new gf is bestfriends with her ex and it just makes me uneasy, she assures me that its all over between then but i still cant help but be bothered ...
A. 28 May 2008: Oh man, I feel this one.
If he acts in any way possesive, touchy-feely, or does anything thats anything but platonic, you have a cause for concern. Address it with both of them, individually, as you see fit. Make sure it is your place; dont com... (read in full...)
Should I pay for this holiday if I don't end up going?
Q. I am considering splitting up with my boyfriend. I don’t want to go into why, but there is a slight problem if we can’t sort out our problems and do split up - we are due to go on holiday in 6 weeks and I don’t know what to do. He paid for the ...
A. 28 May 2008: Well do you want to really stick him for the trip as well as breaking it off with him?
If you decide not to go, be nice and pay the guy.... (read in full...)
Are oral sex and anal sex classed as "real" sex?
Q. is oral sex and anal sex classed as sex? some of my friends think that a blowjob or anal is no different than kissing someone,but i dissagree i think that they are different types of sex but when i tell my friends they laugh at me and call me an ...
A. 26 May 2008: Best way to think of it:
If there is a possible of a communicable disease (or pregnancy), consider it sex. If you consider it sex, you should do it safe. That way, it's always done right.... (read in full...)
Personal question on labia
Q. Dear, cupid I feel really ashamed asking this! My labia is too small and my urethra sticks out. I found that a beautiful vaginal or {porno graphical} considered{ healthy } is when the outer vulva covers the inner section ofthe bladder. Please ...
A. 18 May 2008: I hope you dont mind, but I'm a man and I found this article for you:
http://www.aboutkidshealth.ca/HealthAZ/Urethral-Prolapse.aspx?articleID=9806&categoryID=... (read in full...)
My mum get's angry when I stutter!
Q. When I talk to my mom she rolls her eyes, and she looks angry. I could tell sometimes she doesn't want me to talk to her. Sometimes when I talk I stutter or cannot get the words out of my mouth. Maybe my mom doesn't like the way I talk.I can't help ...
A. 18 May 2008: My mom was the same way- I have a condition called a tremor, which makes my hands shake. Often, she would brign it up, telling me to 'relax', 'calm down', remind me of my shaking, knowing full well it's neiter attributed to my current level of ... (read in full...)
My bf and his brother donated their sperm so their lesbian friends could have a baby. Can this happen without sex?
Q. My bf has 2 lesbian friends that are friend of the family well they wanted to have a baby so my bf and his brother donated there sperm to her but they put it in a cup and they waited a min or so and then she went and poured it into her can she still ...
A. 15 May 2008: Generally, artificial insemination can be done surgically, or with even things like a turkey baster :-P Needs to be deposited, not poured...
But depending on how "hot" those friends are, I would vote it cannot be done a-physically.... (read in full...)
I'm no stunner but I'm not the elephant man either - So how can I attract some female attention?
Q. How can I attract some female attention? I'm kind of shy and not good at flirting but I'm a nice guy and I'm not hideous but i'm 28 years old and I've only had sex twice, and that was 2 or 3 years ago. I was going out with a girl for two year...
A. 9 May 2008: Try some dating sites, or places where people like you might hang out.
Smart nerdy only mostly-attractive guys like myself (Thins, pastey, messy hair) are wanted expressly by few, but indirectly by many. Make use of your good features, and sell... (read in full...)
Boys and Men...what do you think about teenage lesbians?
Q. Older men..do you think 'Oh she's just a teenager, it's just a phase..she doesn't really know what she wants'? We had to talk about it in class today and it seemed that most boys thought it 'hot'. I know some guys think that, but what do the othe...
A. 1 May 2008: I'd say they are underage. But assuming it's legal:
First, hot. Two girls!! And likely touching each other!
Second, not so much... I'll soon realize I'm excluded.
Third, Disdain. Stereotypical, they are likely rather macho.... (read in full...)
Why don't guys seem phased at all about breaking up?
Q. why do guys when they break up with someone who they supposedly loved act like they arent even bothered. My bf broke up with me after 4 months together and i was truly hurt, we are both 14. Like he acted like nothing bothered him but yet I heard ...
A. 22 April 2008: If it makes you feel any better, I have been extremely distraught by all my breakups. Who cares what he thinks? You broke up with im, didnt you? Theres a reason it wasnt working out. Maybe he's a careless jerk.
Guys have been trained since da... (read in full...)
One for the guys..What's your favourite sexual position?
Q. For the guys here...I am just curious what is your favorite sex position? I think that a lot of guys like the woman on top but I'd like to hear guy's opinions. Thanks!...
A. 13 April 2008: Mine would have to be the "Lazy Dog", might have another term for it: Think doggie style, but the female lies flat on her stomach, with the man draped over her, arched upwards from his hands which are planted to the sides of her shoulders.
Very ... (read in full...)
Why do I still get sweat marks, even though I use deoderant?
Q. I wear loads of deodrant and sometimes don't even feel that hot, but I seem to always get sweat marks!! I hate it, no one else gets it! What can I do? x...
A. 5 April 2008: I agree with previous posters, but want to add:
Deoderant is just that, for deoderizing.
You want antipersperant.
Wear looser clothes, keep cooler. Shorts are always in season for the permanently warm!... (read in full...)
What would you do if you wanted an abortion, but your partner didn't?
Q. If you are pregnant and dont want to have the baby for a lot of reasons and know in your heart the best thing would be to not have the baby, but your boyfriend really does want to have the baby, how should you decide if you keep the baby or not? ...
A. 5 April 2008: Currently, it's a part of your body. Nobody's decision but your own.
If it comes between you and your partner, so be it. Tell your partner you simply cannot handle a child; if your partner is truely yours, they will understand.
... (read in full...)
Be honest please, I'm trippin', can she be pregnant?????
Q. Okay, say I came on my hands the night before and washed them, went to bed then at around 4 o'clock the next day started playing with a girl out side her pants! So without comtact can she get pregnant? Note that there was a small hole around the ...
A. 31 March 2008: Practically 100% no.
1. Any residual man-jelly would have long expired outside the body for so long.
2. Female are loaded with spermacide, and all input needs to be synchronized for potential output :-D... (read in full...)
I have genital warts! Does this mean my boyfriend has been unfaithful?!!
Q. Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend for six months and I have genital warts on my vagina does that mean he has been unfaithful or do you think I may have caught it from the past boyfriends? Because I read that it can lay dormant in your body ...
A. 26 March 2008: Best forum for peers with HPV (papilloma virus- genetal warts):
http://yoshi2me.com/phpbb/viewforum.php?f=14... (read in full...)
I would like a man's opinion about whether or not you would dump someone because of braces? Do you think I should have backed down and said I wouldn't get them?
Q. I'm 20 years old and in university right now... I had been seeing this guy for 2.5 years and it was very serious, talking about the possibility of engagement at some point in the next 3-4 years... very serious. I loved him with all my heart and we ...
A. 10 March 2008: Braces are sexy- Guys always like dating younger women :-D (with expection).
He sounds very, very shallow. Skip him, get the braces, and attract a new guy with them, or worse comes to worse, with a brand new perfect smile!... (read in full...)
What to do to my body to make the first time special? Paint my toenails? Shave my pubic area?...
Q. Just a question. Planning on sleeping with a guy this weekend and am wondering if theres anything I can do ot my body to make it extra nice? Should I shave my pubic area? Paint my toenails? Wear perfume? Scented body mosturiser?...
A. 10 March 2008: From my 23y/o perspective, I mostly agree with DoubleM, clean and short pubic area, not bushy... Shaved is nice but not always fun...
Go with red nails... Red is just one of those colors :-D
Scents- Something light. I think most guys dont l... (read in full...)
Is 'camel toe' looked down on?
Q. Is having 'camel toe' looked down on, or worse than being completely tight? Is it an insult?...
A. 6 March 2008: Its worse that showing too much cleavage, or displaying thong out the back of one's pants. Wear clothes that fit!... (read in full...)
Is this a long time to have gone without having sex? I feel... distinct.
Q. I'm uncertain about something. I've gone without sex for 10 months and I'm starting to feel a LOT of withdrawal. Feels like I'm the only person on the planet that isn't having it. It got me thinking... is 10 months a long time to go without...
A. 6 March 2008: I'm at about the same mark, I rely on ___-jobs and myself mostly :-P I broke up with my last girlfriend last spring, and my current girlfriend is under lock and key :-P... (read in full...)
Should I end it with the girl I'm dating now for her friend?
Q. I am having a hard time with a girl i like. We were good friends before, and ever since i asked her out, she and i have barely been able to talk to one another. On top of this, this girl i like's friend also likes me, and im starting to become ...
A. 4 March 2008: Not to disagree, but its proven... The grass is always greener on the other side :-D... (read in full...)
How should I react to my sister spitting in my face??
Q. What do you do when your sister spits in your face, during a heated argument? She's also done it to her 80 year old dad....
A. 4 March 2008: Show best form- Wipe it off your face, look her in the eye, and (grab your tazer and give her what for... Kidding!) tell her that it was absolutely disgusting, and walk away.
When calm, remind her it is subhuman behavior, and utterly disgrace... (read in full...)
My ex found out she is HIV positive. If I am infected, how do I tell my girlfriend?
Q. A few days ago, I got a series of rather disturbing test messages on my cell phone from a number I didn't recognize. After a little searching around, I found out that it was an ex-girlfriend whom I was on bad terms with. Long story short, the ...
A. 4 March 2008: Best of luck. You're in a tough position, and serious news like this is VERY irresponsabily spread via TXT when it really should be face to face or phone conversation, preferably with a doctor.
I wouldnt tell anybody untill you know for sure. In... (read in full...)
Why has sex just become so casual nowadays?
Q. Why has sex just become so casual nowadays. I mean before people did not even think about losing their virginity before marriage. What I don't understand is how people just do 'it' with people they hardly know properly. Sex before marriage does ...
A. 4 March 2008: I think today the media has made is as visible a problem as it was unrecorded in the past.
You never think your grandparents/parents had as much fun regarding sex, drugs and 'rock and roll' untill you hear it from them- I have.
Its just as b... (read in full...)
I wasn't invited to the party and I'm offended!
Q. Ever have that HORRIBLE feeling of not being invited to a party?? Well, happened to me this week. AS we speak, there's a sweet16 party going on and my friends are all there. Of course, everyone but me. Uhm, I'm really good friends with these gi...
A. 29 February 2008: If you're not friends with her, you should have had YOUR friends ask her if you could come.
Not your party, not your friend throwing it!
Also, relax a bit :D You can always throw a party, and ask your friends to invite Anna... Make great frien... (read in full...)
He's big, but he cums too quickly, how can we deal with this?
Q. My boyfriend and I have only been together for alittle over a month and just recently started having sex. My boyfriend has quite a big penis. We have had sex about five times now and each time he ejaculates quite quickly which doesn't give me enough ...
A. 25 February 2008: Heres my strategy, without getting into too much detail:
1. Let the guy warm you up a bit
2. Work him over with a ___-job, IE oral, manual
3. During the man's "recovery time" have him perform some favor on you, perhaps oral.
4. Have sex!... (read in full...)
How does someone get to a size zero????
Q. heyx i was just wondering how u can get to size zero, and dont tell me that its bad for you, i already know. And looking so skinny isnt even attractive. I just want to know for my bestmate, she is really skinny now and she tells me that she is a ...
A. 24 February 2008: Didnt you also ask a question about how long you can go without eating?
If I were you, my next question would be to a perofessional, regarding psycological eating disorders.
Size zero is as disgusting as size 50: Both are rarely attainabl... (read in full...)
Is it true that men prefer women of lower IQ than them?
Q. I read an article in Metro which said (although it was at Valentine's event for geeky Massachusetts Institute of Technology students) that men often prefer to have sex with a woman of lower IQ. Do you think that's really true, because I know som...
A. 17 February 2008: I dont think I saw that in the Merto ( I commute daily!) and I would differ- One of my last girlfriends, although exceedingly nice and pleasent, was a complete airhead... at first it was okay.. but it got on my nerves very quickly! I have an abov... (read in full...)
Can I expect my man to do 50% of the household work?
Q. Can I expect my man to do 50% of the household work? or should I just be happy with the fact that "he is trying". He has been "trying" for 2 years now and he still needs help to keep clean....
A. 12 February 2008: If you are both working, yes, he should be doing his share of the housework.
If you're working 20 hours to his 40-hours, you are accountable for 2 chores out of 3.
If your high-pay high-stress 40-hours a week job is a breeze compared to his ... (read in full...)
How do you give a hand job to an uncircumsized penis?
Q. this is quite a personal question but i am really desperate to have it answered so i hope someone will be able to. when you give a guy who is uncircumsized a hand job, do you just do it over their foreskin or do you roll the foreskin back or...
A. 4 February 2008: Yep, same as usual. Possibly more emphasis around the tip, as it becomes slightly less sensative when 'sheathed'... and it might be my personal preference, but touching the head 'unsheathed' is very overstimulating, and thus ill-advised.... (read in full...)
Worried my penis is too large...what can I do??
Q. Hi, this may sound peculiar to most men, but I'm in fact afraid that my penis is too large. When erect it reaches eight and a half inches, and though this may not be gigantic, it still doesn't bode well. My girlfriend reassures me that it is nothi...
A. 2 February 2008: I havea simlar predicament, but in the other dimension. A word of advice: BUY CORRECTLY SIZED CONDOMS! They make a HUGE difference, and are less likely to break.
I highly recommend Trojan Supras... Slightly larger, and synthetic.. Think thinner ... (read in full...)
I'm having white pimples around my penis and scroteum, what is this??
Q. hi I need help, Im 15. i started growing pubic hair around late twelves and its neva been a problem. but recently i have noticed samml white pimples at the base of the pubic hair and around the base of the penis and scroteum. i havent had sex so it ...
A. 6 January 2008: I agree with a previous poster from experience: Popping yeilds scars. Washing with watered down facial acne wash worked for me. Be careful with your choice of wash, however... Those with even a slight bit of menthol/camphor can give quite the u... (read in full...)
I want a relationship with my friend with benefits. Please advise!
Q. Okay, so i'm a highschooler. I've very recently started to have a "friends with benefits" relationship with this guy at my highschool...i pretty much met him to hook up with him (bad me =[ ) but anyways, before it gets too deep into it...i'm...
A. 2 January 2008: Friends with benefits makes a relatioship worthless... Why go through the hassle of getting to know a girl when she gives out all her love for free?? If you want him, just ask him out. If he says no, start fresh and meet guys without the FWB ... (read in full...)
My period is starting just before I'm suppose to meet my boyfriend for a romantic trip away. How can I tell him I can't sleep with him?
Q. Hi! I was just wondering if anyone had any advice. I'm meeting my boyfriend for a romantic night away in 2 days but my period is just about to start. I have a really irregular cycle at the moment so there was no way i thought it would come this ...
A. 1 January 2008: Yeah, dont let it get in the way. You've got a mouth, and hands!! :-D Also, I have heard standing while in the shower is enough to stop the flow, but it will only help if it's a lite day.... (read in full...)
We have many things in common, but there are silent moments while on the phone. Is it common for new relationships and how to overcome this?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly a month now and all is going well. Apart from one niggly thing. we have plenty of interests in common, yet when it comes to talking on the phone, we will eventually run out of things to say (after 20-30 mins). i ...
A. 1 January 2008: Personally, 30 min is long enough. Short and sweet is better than long and dragged out- And as a guy, I personally dont enjoy phone conversation as much as my girlfriend does (but I do like it occasionally).... (read in full...)
Do condoms really work?
Q. Okay so im really in love with my boyfriend and we want to have sex. Im scared the condom may break and so is he. He has everything going for him amaazing soccer player, super hot, and smart. He feels like it would be one of those " he had ...
A. 1 January 2008: I had 2 condoms break (of about 50-60) and I switched to a non-latex artifical trojan Supra, which are supposed to be stronger, and had 1 of those break as well.
In short, condoms are not perfect. Best way to not get pregnant is not to have sex... (read in full...)
I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched me there and may have felt my pubic hair. Should I feel embarassed?
Q. I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched my down there and I think he felt my pubes. I'm so humiliated and I think he is going to tell kids at school. What should I do?...
A. 29 December 2007: Dont feel so embarassed- Some guys (Like myself) dont really care, even for some friction with good old in-the-middle stubble! My last girlfriend was immensly pre-occupied with keeping me away from her legs when she didnt feel like shaving them, ... (read in full...)
Erotic humiliation...
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a dominant female and my boyfriend is very submissive and because of this our relationship works well. I like to dress him up in my underwear and tease him and he quite clearly enjoys this. In fact he enjoys cross dressing co...
A. 26 December 2007: You could always just say you did it, and then threaten to send it to more people if he doesnt submit 100% ... (read in full...)
GF suffers from mild depression and it is now affecting me
Q. My girlfriend suffers from mild depression. She can hold down a good job, but she has trouble sleeping, cries a lot and rarely wants to see anybody. I have done my best to cope with her depression for the last 6 months and I have now reached ...
A. 19 December 2007: I dont mean to be the bearer of bad news, but this is the story of my last girlfriend:
We had been dating from high-school until well into college (almost 4 years).She was bipolar, manic, clinically depressed and also was unable to sleep.
I wa... (read in full...)
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