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writes:is oral sex and anal sex classed as sex? some of my friends think that a blowjob or anal is no different than kissing someone,but i dissagree i think that they are different types of sex but when i tell my friends they laugh at me and call me an idiot,am i idiot to believe oral and anal is sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your answers,my mates are idiots but that's british education for you,apparently THEY got taught that oral isnt sex,and they still go on about it,by the way these are men in there 20s not kids so thats why i find it more disturbing,one of my mates said the other day to me " a lot of people say they've had sex with girls but they havn't they've just licked them out or been given blowjobs"
it does piss me off when people come out with rubbish like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): As many aunts have pointed out, anal SEX and oral SEX. So go you, you're right :]
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reader, Passthrough  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Best way to think of it:
If there is a possible of a communicable disease (or pregnancy), consider it sex. If you consider it sex, you should do it safe. That way, it's always done right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks because i knew i was right. but everyone i know thinks that if you've got a blowjob from a girl it doesnt class as having sex with them so for instance say i got blowjobs from 10 girls and penetrated one of them vaginally theyd say ive had sex with one girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): Your friends are the idiots. Oral SEX and anal SEX are sex!
I could give a more detailed answer but to me it's like if some people clamed that cars ran on jello or rubber is made of bird's feet. That the obvious needs defending depresses me.
If I didn't know how difficult it is to make friends I would suggest laeving them to their stupidity.
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reader, Smiffy  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Good on you marion...the truth at last...as if we didnt realise this in the first place...just takes someone with the brains to spell it out...well done
anonymous...picture this..one of your friends is forced unwillingly to perform oral on a bloke....will they then tell the police it wasnt sex.....????
purplecloud...you lost me on this statement you made....
(it's more of a casual thing then sex itself..... well for beginners)????????
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reader, purplecloud03  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 anal sex the same as kissing!!! i think not...far from it...from what i know, anal sex comes after normal sex.oral sex, although classified as sex, generally comes before vaginal sex....it's more of a casual thing then sex itself well for beginners
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): Hey!
My bf is a law student and this came up in his seminar.
Legally, sex is the penetration of the mouth, anus or vagina with a penis.
So yes, anal sex and blow jobs are sex... (thats why its called SEX, otherwise youd call kissing tongue sex!!! :-D)
Uhm, your friends are being the silly ones and are clearly a very uninhibited bunch, if they think a blowjob or anal is no different to kissing someone!!
You can ignore them calling you silly, cuz youre right, anal and blowjobs ARE forms of sex. :-D
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