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Do women like watching porn? Can they get addicted?

Q.   Do women be addicted to porn and how do they fill when watching all the dirty action?please I prefer answers from female readers only....

A.   17 July 2008: Some porns okay.. Some is just weird!! Yea I do get aroused by quite alot of it lol mainly lesbian or group sex :O but then there is the other freaky ass shit that is just plain scary!! I remember watching the "Davinci Load" with an ex bf lo... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has driven me to depression. What do I do now?

Q.   Do you think that I should stay with my boyfriend even though I have found out how insensitive he is towards my feelings? 3 Years ago I had an abortion, which he knew about to my ex. We are now trying for a child and since we are going on ...

A.   17 July 2008: to be 100% honest I think he is too afraid to split up with me because of how it will make me feel, I think he still might care for me but not on the same way and he has kinda admitted that when we were arguing but he then said it just came out in ... (read in full...)

I'm a late starter, but now I'm going to start! So my question is what's the etiquette for just AFTER sex?

Q.   Hello, I have quite an embarrassing question! I'm a bit of a late-starter, no particular reason, just never really met the right person at the right time. Anyway, I'm now seeing this great girl and I think we will soon start having sex. I just have ...

A.   16 July 2008: Dont throw it in the toilet!! My ex done that and it wouldn't flush!! do you really want to be like him?? having to scoop a used condom out a toilet lol.. nope didnt think so!! Just wrap it up in something and bin it, thats the best option!!... (read in full...)

I am having serious problems pleasing my girlfriend, when we have sex, I don't like it anymore, and I am getting depressed over it, please help??

Q.   Alright Im a 19 year old guy that used to be in this huge relationship with my ex. Her and I used to have sex ALL the time and she used to love it. It was so much love and then we broke up, i never thought i could be with someone else till another ...

A.   16 July 2008: OH MY GOD... How bad is that!!?? I cant believe your Gf would say shit like that to you!! She is just being so mean!! I've had a few experiences where I've not enjoyed the sex but I've always tried to adjust to get myself to enjoy by rubbing... (read in full...)

Leading up to sex for the first time - I would like some ideas on how to make it special

Q.   me and my bf have been dating for 10months we've been doing some stuff and now its leading to sex were both virgins and went our first time to be really really special any ideas on how to make it really romantic and special? and less painful for me ...

A.   16 July 2008: Well to be honest, you cant really do that much more to make it special. As long as you both love each other very much you should find it special. I know this doesn't go for everyone but my first time wasn't sore at all. I had done other things l... (read in full...)

Any advice on going to festivals??

Q.   Hiya.. I have got my first ever festival on Friday :D T IN THE PARK lol and I was just wondering if any of you had any advice on festivals? And also do you have any tips on how to deal woth the rain and mud because apparently it is meant 2 be rather ...

A.   16 July 2008: just to let you all know it was awesome!! Got my tickets for next year :D... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has driven me to depression. What do I do now?

Q.   Do you think that I should stay with my boyfriend even though I have found out how insensitive he is towards my feelings? 3 Years ago I had an abortion, which he knew about to my ex. We are now trying for a child and since we are going on ...

A.   15 July 2008: Thanks for all your advice, I really dont know what I would do without him, I think this is why I keep putting things off or staying with him. Tisha, Everytime I ask a question, we seem to get better or atleast not argue as much and he says he ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has driven me to depression. What do I do now?

Q.   Do you think that I should stay with my boyfriend even though I have found out how insensitive he is towards my feelings? 3 Years ago I had an abortion, which he knew about to my ex. We are now trying for a child and since we are going on ...

A.   15 July 2008: Thanks for all your advice, I'm just more afraid of what he'll do if I say I dont want to be with him any more. It hurts like mad to know that the one person you care about the most in the world can just turn around and treat you like apice of... (read in full...)

I have a real problem with trying to talk to him about things...

Q.   My boyfriend and i always argue and the other night we had a blazing row, i said i didnt want to argue again and we've agreed to take some steps to try and prevent arguments.. anyway its made me think he doesnt love me like he used to (or he loves ...

A.   9 July 2008: Hey.. I was just looking at some of my old questions, AND I have discovered I was completely right!! My boyfriend told me the other week that he doesn't feel the same anymore and he loves me like his sister!! I really dunno what to do with this,... (read in full...)

Any advice on going to festivals??

Q.   Hiya.. I have got my first ever festival on Friday :D T IN THE PARK lol and I was just wondering if any of you had any advice on festivals? And also do you have any tips on how to deal woth the rain and mud because apparently it is meant 2 be rather ...

A.   8 July 2008: Yep I do mean a music festival.. we are camping from the Fri - arrive Fri morning and are heading home on the monday morning :O... (read in full...)

My boyfriend said he doesn't feel the same any more. Should I break up with him?

Q.   My boyfriend who I totally love told me he doesn't feel the same anymore. We were both staying at my house on Friday and we had a small argument because he said it was weird that I had pictures of him beside my bed(there not all him - mostly friends ...

A.   8 July 2008: LIERIN, me and Bryan are like a married couple aswell, I see him everyday after work from about 6pm til 11pm and at the weekend I stay with him from the Friday night till the Sunday night. We have seen eachother every single day since the first da... (read in full...)

Am I a slut like everyone says or is this just a phase?

Q.   During the outcome of this year, my life has brought me many different things, new experiences and alot of surprises. Alot of people are labeling me as a "slut", I am wondering, do you think the same? or is something else in my life effectin...

A.   4 July 2008: Hey Hey Chick.. I was exactly like that at your age. I thought I was in love with this guy and he broke my heart so basically I slept about met a new bf about a year later and fell pregnant but I had to have an abortion & people went around c... (read in full...)

My boyfriend said he doesn't feel the same any more. Should I break up with him?

Q.   My boyfriend who I totally love told me he doesn't feel the same anymore. We were both staying at my house on Friday and we had a small argument because he said it was weird that I had pictures of him beside my bed(there not all him - mostly friends ...

A.   4 July 2008: Heya.. Thanks for your advice.. I'm just going to check google just now to see if there is any of the signs!! If there is that's it.. If there's not, I dunno... I was thinking it might be that we spend too much time together but I don't really k... (read in full...)

How do I get over an "emotional abuser"?

Q.   How do I get over an emotional abuser? I love him deeply, but he always found flaws in me... He was very loving and respectful most of the time. But when he''d get mad and make me cry, he'd get even angrier. It's true I made mistakes, but st...

A.   3 July 2008: Hey hun. I don't really have any advice for you but I'm going through the same kind of thing at the moment so if you want to have a chat just to let you know I'm here for you as I'm sure we all are. xxx... (read in full...)

My boyfriend said he doesn't feel the same any more. Should I break up with him?

Q.   My boyfriend who I totally love told me he doesn't feel the same anymore. We were both staying at my house on Friday and we had a small argument because he said it was weird that I had pictures of him beside my bed(there not all him - mostly friends ...

A.   3 July 2008: Yeah I understand what you mean and thanks for the advice honestly but the more I think about it the more I cant leave him!!! My best friend deserted me about 6 months back because a friend of ours had been talking to me on bebo and I said tha... (read in full...)

My boyfriend said he doesn't feel the same any more. Should I break up with him?

Q.   My boyfriend who I totally love told me he doesn't feel the same anymore. We were both staying at my house on Friday and we had a small argument because he said it was weird that I had pictures of him beside my bed(there not all him - mostly friends ...

A.   3 July 2008: Hiya, Thanks for your answer. I was just wondering though, What do you mean by "depression?" Like do you think he is depressed because of me or what? He has always came across as a happy person to me and his friends but recently when we have bee... (read in full...)

Should females tell their male partners the truth about their sexual past?

Q.   I read loads of questions about this and seen it myself with a freind, Should females not tell their male partners the truth about their sexual past? if they're going to freak out what's the point? My workmate once boasted to me about how many b/f ...

A.   18 June 2008: When I first met my boyfriend his friends already new me and my past sexual partners.. When he asked me I thought I should tell him straight - 16 including him but none had meant anything to me apart from him. He is 2 years older than me an... (read in full...)

Known him for 2 weeks - is it too soon for a visit to his town??

Q.   Hello everyone.. i have a question, and my friends are giving different answers, would be good to get some objective views! On a previous post, i mentioned my failing relationship. Well, it failed. To be honest, when it ended, i was devastated, but ...

A.   13 June 2008: Heya, I think you should go and meet this man. I met my boyfriend on the internet( he stayed in the next village although we had never met) and when I met him after 2 weeks chatting aswell I knew he was truly who he said he was and 2 weeks af... (read in full...)

Can anyone advise on how to talk to my mother without her moans or attacks?

Q.   My mum and dad are really controlling, well mostly my mum. I'm 19 years old and I have to be home at half past 10 every night apart from weekends. She says I cant be trusted and she thought I was going "off the rails" when I started seeing m...

A.   12 June 2008: Hey, Well I was thinking about moving out AND I have looked at a few places but they are just too expensive in this area and I'm not sure about staying on my own!! My boyfriends sister is moving out next month and my boyfriend is moving into h... (read in full...)

She has changed so much since she became pregnant. How do I get it to go back to how it was?

Q.   I met my girlfriend about six months ago. I am a very successful professional and she is a single mother with two small children. We come from very different backgrounds, but still, after the first date we were hooked on each other. She would call ...

A.   11 June 2008: The first thing that came to my mind whilst reading this is are you sure she wasn't just with you because she knew that you were successful and if she had a child with you she would have to get money etc from you. I cant be 100% on this but its ... (read in full...)

I feel as I am running out of solutions and am considering prostitution...

Q.   i want to be a prostitute i am struggling with money at the moment and i need some to help me life and enjoy myself i live in england does anyone no of how i can do it or of any agencies to call ? ...

A.   6 June 2008: Hey hun.. Why dont you get a job with ann summers? I done that when I was needing extra cash and i love it!! im a party organiser and it is honestly the most fun iv had while working and you can choose when to work or when not too.. Have a think ab... (read in full...)

My 15 year old daughter is pregnant, any advice on how I proceed?

Q.   well at the mo i should be called sad mommie..my daughter has come home tonite and told me she is pregnant..she is only 15..said she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy..im so confused..i cant think straight..told her we will talk tomorrow as she ...

A.   6 June 2008: I got pregnant at 15, I know it wasn't what I wanted but I had an abortion, I'm not proud of it but I am glad in a way as i know i wouldn't have been able to cope.. On the other hand, my freind got pregnant at 16. she found out just after she h... (read in full...)

How do I spice up giving head?

Q.   What can I do to spice up giving head? I try to switch it up with a hand job, sucks, licks, anything. But i find i get bored after awile. What can I do that will get me to enjoy pleasuring my guy? An then make it not so long. Once I'm bored i just d...

A.   5 June 2008: [Moderator comment: sorry but I think that site link isn't appropriate to display here. The summary of your answer is that there are sites on the Internet giving all sorts of ideas for "spicing up" things! Try a Google search with the "adult ... (read in full...)

I have a real problem with trying to talk to him about things...

Q.   My boyfriend and i always argue and the other night we had a blazing row, i said i didnt want to argue again and we've agreed to take some steps to try and prevent arguments.. anyway its made me think he doesnt love me like he used to (or he loves ...

A.   3 June 2008: thanks for your answers but i dunno its more like i cant get the words to come out. i dunno if yous will understand me but i can run through them in my head then when i start i have to change it to someting else?... (read in full...)

All I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this?

Q.   Ok, I am going to summarize everything and all I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this. My GF before she met me: Slept with 18 people, involved in group sex, cheated, had an abortion, stripped for coke, lots of one nigh...

A.   3 June 2008: Hey hun, well.. personally i think i was kinda like that before i met my boyfriend.. i had slept with 13guys and could only think of going out and getting wasted and was always pulling my girlfriends and ending up in bed with one and there bo... (read in full...)

I just can't shake the feeling that she cheated on me!

Q.   Hi, I recently posted about my girlfriend cheating on me, full details here - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/did-she-sleep-with-him.html I still have this feeling that she did have sex with him the two times that he told me about and i feel...

A.   3 June 2008: I got feelings for my ex a couple of months ago, i went and met up with him then i remembered why i split up with him( although he was a better bf than my current 1)if you dont feel you can go on with your current girlfriend there really isn't much ... (read in full...)

I just can't shake the feeling that she cheated on me!

Q.   Hi, I recently posted about my girlfriend cheating on me, full details here - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/did-she-sleep-with-him.html I still have this feeling that she did have sex with him the two times that he told me about and i feel...

A.   3 June 2008: Hey this is more me giving you advice that someone gave me cos I read your question and realised i'm in almost the exact same boat. Anyway.. one of my old friends just told me to go on a break with my boyfriend and get out more, like you i had al... (read in full...)

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