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Leading up to sex for the first time - I would like some ideas on how to make it special

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Question - (16 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *uds123 writes:

me and my bf have been dating for 10months we've been doing some stuff and now its leading to sex were both virgins and went our first time to be really really special any ideas on how to make it really romantic and special? and less painful for me cause i know its meant to really hurt girls

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A female reader, puds123 Ireland +, writes (18 July 2008):

puds123 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hey thanks so much you guys really helped fingers crossed it works out lol

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A female reader, oxxvickixxo United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2008):

Well to be honest, you cant really do that much more to make it special. As long as you both love each other very much you should find it special.

I know this doesn't go for everyone but my first time wasn't sore at all. I had done other things like get fingered, oral etc and I honestly believe that by doing those things it meant it didn't hurt as much.

Anyway, just go slow and relax!! Your first time is never going to be your best time but you'll get used to it and then you can enjoy it!!

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