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My girl friend gave me a picture of her in her bra but I think its illegal because were minors

Q.   i cant stress the fact that i didn't ask her to do this more. just randomly one day my girl friend send me via e-mail a picture of her from the waist up but no shirt and just a bra, i deleted it a day later because when i first got it i wasn't ...

A.   18 May 2011: ..... Technically it's not she wasn't naked. Like ohhh no not a bra.... that is just TERRIBLE.I mean it even covers more then a bikini. Obviously she trusts you not to spread it around so you did right by deleting it since it was only meant f... (read in full...)

I don't have confidence about sex!

Q.   I don't know how to voice my opinion well doing the deed. I also don't know how to take control. I can see that it is making my bf is a little bit disappointed that he has to do all the work. How can I, get more confidence and since he is my first ...

A.   9 May 2011: Thank-you I does help a bit :D ... (read in full...)

How can I fake being a virgin?

Q.   hi there, my name is nancy and i was wondering if anyone has any ideas on how i can fake being a virgin. because i'm gettin married soon and it's a crime in my culture to have sex before marrige....

A.   8 May 2011: Well. Just say your a virgin. Really there is no way of knowing unless you slept around a lot and are really loose. And the whole "popped cherry" thing well many girls break it when they are young I was 7 and hit a huge bump on my bike. Just lie. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend never makes the effort to see me!

Q.   Hi :) Ok so here's my problem. I have been with my boyfriend for about 18 months and love him very much. He's in his final year of Med School and will be a qualified doctor in July. Obviously he is very busy at the moment with studying and I do my ...

A.   6 March 2011: He isn't as into you as you are for him. Yes you have a reason to be upset. Word of advice stop chasing him. See if he cares enough to chase you. If not move on he's not worth it. ... (read in full...)

I've never gave a handjob before.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months. He is my first proper relationship and we really havn't done anything sexually. He has fingered me twice, but I want to return the favour and give him a handjob. Problem is I've never done anything...

A.   27 February 2011: Well.... there is nothing to be afriad of. And really i have no idea how to explain it that would be any help. Yes asking him to guide you (or say show me what you like) That may help you feel less nervous. If your comfortable with... (read in full...)

He has a fiance, 4 kids and wants to sleep with me. Is it wrong?

Q.   I met a guy online 3 months ago. I found out three weeks after we met, through FaceBook, that he has a "fiance," four kids and she's pregnant again. When I confronted him about it, he didn't deny it, however never speaks on it. And demands I don't ...

A.   26 February 2011: That would be sick of you. Tell him to grow up and go back to his kids and future wife. It is SO wrong for him to want to cheat. Even worse for you to willing be the one he cheats on with. If i was you I would go save his poor fiance from marrying a ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't like it that I masturbate but won't have sex with him

Q.   Hey everyone reading this. I'm 17 and I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. Per my request, we don't have sex - which my boyfriend is fine with (most of the time). Like any other teenager out there, I masturbate. I assumed that m...

A.   26 February 2011: Ok. So look at it from his perspective. You have been dating for 2 years, and not have sex and he is a hormonal teenage guy he must REALLY like you. It takes less time then that for some people to decide they want to get married. There is no conne... (read in full...)

Marry my best friend? Is he my soul mate?

Q.   I was wondering is it good to marry your best friend? I've know this guy since middle school, he is my best friend, and i love him to death. He knows everything about me an vise versa, we talk about everything, and we love spending time toge...

A.   26 February 2011: Ok ask your self this question. I DO believe that your husband should also be your best friend. But you love your friends, it can be just like loving your family. The question is do you see it as more. Could you not feel awkward kissing him and ... (read in full...)

First love stories...how did you meet?

Q.   How did you meet your first love and how? or if your married how did you find each other?...

A.   26 February 2011: Well. Idk if I consider it an actual "love" in the mature type way. But I grew up with this guy from kindergarden on, and he was just always there. Then one day me and my friend were just going around the school yard and we decided to ask him and a ... (read in full...)

She stopped texting me at noon. whats up with that?

Q.   Hi I've been texting a girl pretty much solidly (in conversation not just me bombarding her) for the past 2 days after meeting on a dating site and for some reason she stopped texting at lunchtime today. how long should i leave it before i text her...

A.   26 February 2011: Don't at all. It may make her mad. She might be busy and not be able to answer her phone. I make the mistake all the time I am a very paranoid person and SO happy I have an understanding bf. I'll start like HI. 1h later. Why aren't you talking to ... (read in full...)

Confused should I have sex? and is he serious?

Q.   Well me and my bf have been together for 9 months and he spoke to my dad about 3 weeks ago, before he spoke with him i said when you speak with him we can discuss having sex, i did this just to be sure that he wants to be with me and so thay my dad ...

A.   10 February 2011: First you should deff tell him that you find he is disrespecting you by just thinking he can have sex from you. Has he actually asked you are you ready? Also are you both still virgins? Cause if so that is why he might say these things to his ... (read in full...)

I hate condoms and she won't go on the pill!

Q.   I am in a bit of a predicament with my new girlfriend. We're both 22 and have been going out for 2 months. Last week we talked about having sex with each other for the first time, it's not that one of us doesn't feel ready it's just an issue with ...

A.   31 January 2011: Go look up these. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control/birth-control-implant-implanon-4243.htm http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control/birth-control-patch-ortho-evra-4240.htm http://www.plan... (read in full...)

16, in love, and ready to have a baby. Need advice, opinions, and feedback!

Q.   I'm 16 years old and want a baby. Ok so I'm 16, turn 17 in 10 months, I finish high school in just under 5 months and have already achieved good grades so far. My boyfriend is the exact same except he is 2 months older then me. We have been tog...

A.   31 January 2011: Ok. So i know you say you can handle everything. And I am going to tell you this I am 17 and feel the same way. I know that if I was able to have a baby mentally I'd be able to take care of it. I LOVE kids so much, I am making a career out of it. ... (read in full...)

We've been dating 10 months and she still doesn't know my number by heart?

Q.   So, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4+ months and I came to realize that she doesn't know my number by heart. No big deal is what I initially thought but then I found out that she still know's her ex's number by heart (they dated for 2 ...

A.   4 January 2011: Um no, there are some phone numbers I can remember like one I had 4 years ago as a house phone number and now the house I have been in for 4 years I can't remeber half the time but I still know the other one by heart. If it helps i've been dat... (read in full...)

Would you consider his magic number high for his age?

Q.   Is 22 sexual partners for a 27 year old male a lot?...

A.   3 December 2010: Depends when did he first get sexually active? I mean it would be a different answer weather he started having sex when he was 16 to if he was when he was 20. If he was 16 it might have been like 2 per year witch if before he never had a seriou... (read in full...)

My daughter told me she is bisexual and I don't know how to handle this?

Q.   My 17 year old daughter has been trying to tell me she is bisexual for the last six months.I have responded with kids today are bicurious and that is what she is doing. Each time she mentioned it I would cut off the conversation, and say I can't ...

A.   25 October 2010: Why don't you just do this. Stop and think, no matter who she likes she is still the same little girl you watched grow up. If it is a phase and she just discovering herself you still have to let her know that you support her. Stop thinking abou... (read in full...)

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