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writes:HiI've been texting a girl pretty much solidly (in conversation not just me bombarding her) for the past 2 days after meeting on a dating site and for some reason she stopped texting at lunchtime today. how long should i leave it before i text her again or is it best for me to back off her a bit?Genuine help would be much appreciated.thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): Did she run out of credit? She may need some time out? Any amount of things might have happened. If she wants to text you she has your number. Give her some space.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (26 February 2011):
 Yeah I agree with ampersand. I wouldn't text her until she texts you first now so you don't come off as needy.
Give it days if necessary becuase you two just started talking and still have lives to live outside of texting each other. Have patience and she'll come around.
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reader, Miss.Knowitall +, writes (26 February 2011):
 Don't at all. It may make her mad. She might be busy and not be able to answer her phone. I make the mistake all the time I am a very paranoid person and SO happy I have an understanding bf. I'll start like HI. 1h later. Why aren't you talking to me? And yea I sometimes even go to Are you mad? ...then at 12 am he will inform me he was playing poker against his mom and aunt. Or he was sleeping. Or he was out 4 wheeling and partying with his cousins and his phone died. So take the advice I can't seem to follow myself :P Wait awhile then maybe later to night. Send a Heyy what did you do with your day? Kind of thing.
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