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reader, SelfConsciousBabe +, writes (6 March 2011):
 My man and I met through a mate of mine who hooked us up. I met him across the road and we drove around, he took me to meet his parents and we visited his sister (the one who got us together). His mum asked me over for drinks on Xmas Eve 2010, and I brought him home to meet mine on Boxing Day, where he met most of my family. I've met his grandparents and they adore me. On the 15th, Lawrence and I (Steph), have been together for 4 months and loving every single minute of it. Everywhere we go we always find someone who says "So when are you 2 walking down the aisle" or "when’s the little one due", I guess only time will tell. For now we just enjoy being in each other’s company and totally in love. Someday, however, he and I dream about getting married, as we both like the same things and we are both stubborn. I couldn’t pick a more perfect man, he's 23 and I’m over here in (AUSTRALIA). It’s perfectly legal to get married at 18 and over.
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reader, Supple +, writes (27 February 2011):
Supple is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow you guys have the msot amazing love stories out there! I'm glad you all shared them with me! Thanks :)
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reader, Jackalus  +, writes (26 February 2011):
Hmm tough question. My first girlfriend was when I was in yr6 10 yrs old i know it's young but anyway, her and her best friend both liked me at the same time which was weird, still we were official for about 6 months then I dumped her for someone else but then I wanted her back. You guys all know the obvious answer but she said yes because even though I hurt her she needed someone for comfort. The first girl I liked was in yr9 or 13 yrs old, I liked this girl who was in my year but I never told her. My first real live was towards my current best girl friend. I had that feeling for 2 months or there abouts, I told her and she happened to like me at the same time, we were so close to a relationship bit it never happened for reasons I can't remember and highly regret. I'm still waiting for my first real loving relationship though
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): I met my current bf last semester in a chemistry class. I was with another guy at the time but I really wasn't into him. On the first day of class I kept a mental note of all the cute guys in my classes just in case we broke up. In October we decided to split and I began flirting with a very good looking, intelligent, and tall guy. We would sneak looks at each other in class and sit next to each other in lab. Finally we went on a date in November and sparks were flying! We've been together 4 months now and I'm very glad we met.
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reader, mystiquek  + ♥, writes (26 February 2011):
 I was 17, and was working at McDonald's to put myself through college. My best friend was working there too, and knew his brother. He walked in one day, and the sparks flew. We dated for a year, he cheated on me with my best friend (Yeah..go figure) and things ended. But we had alot of good times together, and I'm happy I knew him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): Well, I met my boyfriend on the internet.
A few people claim that meeting loves on the internet are 'bad', and a lot of my friends have warned me that it can be dangerous. Which I must agree, it is.
But, as long as you are sensible.. and if you are going to meet up, make sure it's a public place, and that you have friends with you, instead of you going on your own :)
And to be completely honest, he is the most amazing boy friend I have ever had in my life!
Yeah we don't live near each other, but we see each other as often as we can (at the weekends and at the holidays), we phone each other nearly everyday.. So it's not all that bad :)
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reader, Miss.Knowitall  +, writes (26 February 2011):
 Well. Idk if I consider it an actual "love" in the mature type way. But I grew up with this guy from kindergarden on, and he was just always there. Then one day me and my friend were just going around the school yard and we decided to ask him and a bunch of his friends if we could share the shade of their tree :P (we were 10) So we all became BESTFRIENDS. we started hanging out after school and going to the park. There was this one tree that we named, we started climbing up into it everyday and writing down all our secrets into it. Then when we where about 12 he told me to meet him at the tree cause he had something to show me and he had written into the tree I like Mel, as one of his secrets. Then when we were 14 we tried dating and it just did not work out AT ALL!. We started to pretend we hated each other. Then I found out that at the end of the school year I was moving 4 hours away. I realized to late that he was my bestfriends and I did love him. We started talking again when I finally got internet. Now I am 17 and know that to this day I could call him crying and I will ALWAYS have him. I know he is head over heels for me. And I for him. But I also know that no matter how much I do love him my sexual attraction for him is 0. But I do consider him my first Love.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (26 February 2011):
 It took a lot of coincidences for me and my fella (husband) to find each other. Here is the story, abridged. I was 19, living in my hometown in upstate NY. One day my friend (17) was like, "hey - want to move to Oregon with me for a few months? Help me transition?" - she just wanted a friend with her for a little while to help her get used to Oregon where she wanted to go to school. So I was like, okay, cool... I was feeling adventurous, I guess. Two weeks later, we were in Oregon (it was an extremely spontaneous decision).
So we get an apartment, I sign the year lease because she was too young and we went on Craigslist looking for friends to hang with. We specifically were not looking for love - just friends. We were very explicit. My fella happened to reply, and also stressed that he was just looking for new people to hang out with, not a mate.
Well, we all met up at a Starbucks and I was immediately taken... as was he (apparently) and we started dating right off the bat. Never mind the "no dating" rule we had all set. A while later my friend, who allegedly wanted me for only a couple months, suddenly ditched me. Literally came to me one day and said, "I'm moving back home". No discussion, no anything. Just packed up and left. And naturally, this left me to deal with the apartment and the lease... pretty much I couldn't afford to leave it, or else I would have had to pay the remaining rent for the rest of the year lease I had signed. So my friend SCREWED ME OVER and ditched me across the country.
Well, even though I was quietly pissed off at her, since I had another 10 months to kill I kept dating my guy and ended up falling in love, staying in Oregon another 4 years, we got married on the East Coast (that friend was a bridesmaid), and it's been almost 2 years of marriage since then.
So yeah. I had to move to Oregon on a whim, write a random ad on Craigslist, meet this guy at Starbucks (and neither of us drinks coffee) and have my girlfriend ditch me across the country to find my husband. But hey - it worked! Me and my fella are a little shamed that we kind of met on the Internet... not like there's anything wrong with that. It's just kinda weird for us both!
And there is that little love story. :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (26 February 2011):
 The term "first love" can be understood in so many ways. I take it to mean the first serious relationship I was in. He was the first man that I was in love with that returned my feelings.
We met at work actually, and I was hitting on his friend at first. So I was trying to be in the work area of his friend a lot. Him and his friend were working in the same area. Eventually it became clear that the first guy I was trying it on with wasn't interested, he already had a girlfriend, but then me and my soon-to-be-boyfriend had been getting closer in the process. I found myself in love, and he returned my feelings, so we got together. After one month together I moved in with him, and after four months he proposed to me. We were crazy in love, and never spent a day apart from each other.
We were together for about a year and a half.
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reader, anae88  +, writes (26 February 2011):
 Funny thing, we met at a party and we both were wasted, we exchange phone numbers and he kept texting and calling and i was wth i dont even remember your face, till he added me to fb and keep texting till he got me :) now im with him and he is the best bf ever im so glad i didnt ignore him
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