Should I tell a girl I like her even though she has a boyfriend now?
Q. I have liked this girl for over a year almost 2. I am 25 she's in her 30's. We have got along well, she has always given me those "looks" she always laughs when she's talking to me and can be touchy. Thing is I wasn't sure as she's kinda flirty with ...
A. 9 April 2014: Hi,
No, she has a boyfriend and it is not for you to get involved. Let it go now and be free from this. ... (read in full...)
First love, reunited 30 years later, he's married!!!
Q. Where do I start? Guess at the beginning ... 30+ years ago, I fell in love with a boy that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. He was my first love, physically and emotionally. His family moved away and our relationship, due to ...
A. 9 April 2014: Hi,
I'm afraid you are being used. He only seeks your comfort due to cheating. If the marriage was that bad, he would have been long divorced. I'm afraid you have kept that 30 year image of someone and something and are trying to rework it.
If yo... (read in full...)
Men: is this a real belief?
Q. Question for the gentlemen only please :) This doesn't actually relate to me as such, but it's something that I heard and thought was ridiculous. I was talking to my male friend and we were discussing girlfriends and things and I ask...
A. 7 April 2014: Hi,
I've never heard of that. He just didn't want her. ... (read in full...)
We broke up but she says she still loves me and I want her back!
Q. There is this girl and I made the wrong choice an dumped her. I really want her back. I sent her texts saying I want my "ex" back implying her. She got mad an now will not talk to me. She said she loved me though. How do I get her back?...
A. 7 April 2014: Hi,
Try talk to her. Either face to face (best) or by telephone. This will be the best way. A text or email sounds a bit quick and easy non-serious way of doing things. You need communication and talk. I believe you can turn this around. Good luck... (read in full...)
Why is she so distant after I told her we could only be platonic friends?
Q. Hi there I had a female friend whom I shared alot of things with! We were only platonic and we knew it since day one! Then,one day I felt she's pushing for it to be more than platonic and I told her she's a great girl but I only think of h...
A. 7 April 2014: Hi,
Perhaps she wanted more. If someone wants a date and they get told 'friends only' then the best action is to distance themselves. No one likes to be rejected by a potential date that they like. She probably wanted more and you made it clea... (read in full...)
Job interview included working for a full day, for no pay!
Q. This isnt a relationship question but im hoping someone can help. My niece who is 19 and currently an office temp wants to get in to hairdressing. She saw that a well known salon in our town was looking to hire trainees so she applied - sent h...
A. 5 April 2014: Hi,
I think you need to put this down to experience and forget about them and move on. Personally, I think it is a disgrace and a scam, but your niece is better off not working for them. Awful procedure.
When I started with my job, they had an i... (read in full...)
As I haven't heard from my boyfriend in over a month, does that mean I'm single?
Q. It's been about 4 or 5 weeks since I've spoken or even remotely heard from my boyfriend. About this time last month he asked me to pay his phone bill. I politely declined because I thought it was too early in the relationship to be asking to pay one ...
A. 2 April 2014: Hi,
Yes, you are single. One week was not a relationship/dating. He wanted to get you to pay the phone bill and when you declined, he left. He probably would have left anyway after you had paid the bill. Don't worry, he was not a 'nice' person and ... (read in full...)
He disappeared from my life and now he is back, should I hear him out?
Q. Hi everyone, I had posted a question a while back (My boyfriend has disappeared and I'm very worried.) After a about almost two months now I have moved forward but was still wondering what had happened I heard from him. I was looking at my em...
A. 27 March 2014: Hi,
I totally agree with Aunty BimBim.
Please do not waste your time. For all you know, he could have been dating these past two months and then when that all finished, he has suddenly got interested in you again.
Do not waste any time. Delete... (read in full...)
Does anyone know the meaning behind this song?
Q. Help song meaning??? 3 days grace sign of the times?? My boyfriend is listening to a few songs falls asleep to them. So if i know the meaning i can help cause i think he is sad if i done something wrong i can fix it. So that song and 3 days grace ...
A. 21 March 2014: Hi,
In religious speak 'grace' is defined as undeserved favour or undeserved merit. But, I listened to a Meatloaf song the other day, 'Two out of three aint bad' and the only reason I listened to it was I like his vocals and the rythmn. That's all,... (read in full...)
It's early days, but after just two dates - were his actions charming or creepy?
Q. Hi Agony Aunt folks I have a question , So I met this guy online we had 2 dates so far he is a cop and seems very nice a lot different form the last guy I dated I have had bad luck lately in the men department and seem to end up with abusive men so ...
A. 20 March 2014: Hi,
Maybe a bit odd but not a deal breaker! I would just carry on as normal, and see what develops. Early on in dating, sometimes in a situation like this he may have felt a bit undecided whether to just bin the spoon in front of you for fear of h... (read in full...)
I masturbate to photos of girls I know. What do I say if they find out?
Q. I am a 16 year old guy. I am constantly on social networking. I've many a time found myself looking at my friend's who are girls pictures. I have a tendency to masturbate to people I know and I never feel guilty about it. Is this wrong? Does this ...
A. 20 March 2014: Hi,
There is nothing wrong with this and it is your own private pleasure. Keep it private to yourself.
I'm older, I didn't have internet usage as a teenager so I used to use my imagination for a girl I liked or use a newspaper picture of a favour... (read in full...)
I'm struggling with what he calls his dry sense of humour
Q. I love my boyfriend who is 40 of 7 months but don't like aspects of his personality. He can be very sarcastic and make derogatory comments about my weight. I'm a size 12 Uk and run and ramble, bike on the Downs etc. He makes comments about women ...
A. 14 March 2014: Hi,
This is not nice behaviour. Sarcasm is linked to anger. It hits the target with nasty words that can upset people for years and lifetimes. I don't believe in the 'dry' humour excuse. You see, dry can be 'irony' and irony is different from the ... (read in full...)
His texts are becoming less frequent and he always leaves the conversations hanging. Lost cause?
Q. I began seeing a guy at the start of this year after meeting him on an online dating site. Now we immediately hit it off and in the back and forth of our conversation we figured out that he worked in the company I was just starting in. Things de...
A. 13 March 2014: Hi,
Just adding to the good advice already given. If I were you, I wouldn't wait around for the 'talk.' Don't elevate him, giving him special status. Don't contact now, and if he contacts again, just say you are 'washing your hair.'
If he wante... (read in full...)
Broken up for 1.5 years yet still cry almost every day
Q. Has anyone else ever thought about something an ex did even though you've been broken up for a year and a half? The thing he did was two years ago. I don't want to say what it was. I cry nearly every day. My parents think I'm mentally ill as I ...
A. 23 February 2014: Hi,
This is just an idea. As this site is possible for you to post anonymously, would it help you to write it down what happened between you both? Writing it down may help you at least begin to start talking about it. It may help you. Thanks. ... (read in full...)
Husband says he can't make love, but I caught him pleasuring himself! What should I do?
Q. My husband I have been married for 28 years. Second marriage for us both. He is 71 now and I an 10 years younger. The problem is that I still have a healthy sex drive and since my husband turned 65 he has claimed he doesn't get excited anymore....
A. 23 February 2014: Hi,
I'll just answer from the male performance angle.
When masturbating, men can climax either erect or flaccid. There is no pressure, and if it's not erect it doesn't matter because it will still achieve same result flaccid.
But for sex, the... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend talked terribly to me and now I think he's broken up with me
Q. Hello I am a 36 year old female in a long distance relationship with a 48 year olf man. I love him very much but, in the pass he has been very verbally abusive, calling me bitches and saying fuck you! I forgave him when he asked for forgiveness and ...
A. 23 February 2014: Hi,
Time to let him go and run in the opposite direction. This is terrible abuse. Stop all contact now and let him go. But, I believe once you go quiet on him, he will be back in touch. This is because he will feel ignored and need his fix to cont... (read in full...)
3 month anniversary post on girlfriend's wall. What do I say?
Q. My three month anniversary with my girlfriend is today. She has asked me to post a long post on her wall. We have been through alot together and really are thinking about the future together. What do I say. Please help.. I need help fast I am ...
A. 23 February 2014: Hi,
I'm not a great fan of these 'anniversaries.'
People need to be natural in dating and relationships and give and take because it is a pleasure for them.
You feel pressured by this, you feel obligated to write something. Therefore, t... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend I've fallen for her?
Q. I have recently fallen in love with this girl who is 3 years older than me. We have known each other for 9+ years. Her brother is my best friend. When we were younger, we were like brother and sister, now we have switched to being close friends, ...
A. 20 February 2014: Hi, WiseOwlE sums is up perfectly. I will just add a few of my own thoughts. You ask whether to 'go for it' or not? Well, I say do not! This is all or nothing for you. Don't think because of the college that you have to ask her before she goes awa... (read in full...)
Am I missing out on something here? She has a strange pattern to her behaviour!
Q. hello I'm dating a girl for three months now and I feel a strange pattern now in her behaviour ! After every two weeks or so, she'll start ignoring in a sense that she'll take extra time to reply than usual and she'll seem less excited to see ...
A. 17 February 2014: Hello,
You know something, reading your letter about this girl's behaviour drained me. I'm agreeing totally with Roboaxe here.
This type of 'relationship' just drains you and works and works on your emotions. I would let this go. I think it is al... (read in full...)
Should I make one last attempt to apologize to her and get her flowers?
Q. Hi, bit of a long complicated situation. So a while back I told one of my friends that I liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but told me that she didn't feel the same way. We still remained friends but I always felt I ...
A. 5 February 2014: Hello,
No, the flowers are a bad idea. You now need to let go of her from your life. You tried, you got your answer and now you know. This girl will never be for you. But now you know and you don't have to look back in life wondering.
The f... (read in full...)
Why did he start playing games? How should I respond?
Q. I met this guy on tinder and we started talking and hit it off right away... turns out we have tons of mutual friends. He was nothing but reliable and up for texting for hours. I found it nice that he even called me as most guys just text these ...
A. 31 January 2014: Hello,
Based on his last response about 'exclusive,' I would now go silent on him and wait for him to make the next move. He seems to have cooled things a bit. Therefore, stop trying to 'lead' the communication. See if he responds to you.
If he... (read in full...)
Why do guys ask for underwear?
Q. I slept with this guy like more than 5 times. He asked for my underwear twice and on his third ask, I decided, why not? So I gave them to him. I just want to understand this phenomena... why do guys ask for underwear? I'm curious. I just hope I ...
A. 10 December 2013: Hi,
It could simply be a trophy to masturbate with. Or, just a trophy. ... (read in full...)
2 months later and I can't get over him. I feel alone!
Q. Hi all So I registered for a dating site and met this one guy after a really long time. Finally found someone I thought I liked. We met and hit it off immediately. We got along really well and he would be really eager to meet me and texted me al...
A. 24 November 2013: Hi, Well, from what I can see, he is probably registered on the site to meet a number of girls and have 'fun' with no long term commitments. In all fairness, he did tell you this. For you,you are looking for something long term. (that's good) Th... (read in full...)
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