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writes:There is this girl and I made the wrong choice an dumped her. I really want her back. I sent her texts saying I want my "ex" back implying her. She got mad an now will not talk to me. She said she loved me though. How do I get her back?
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reader, Sensible Alice  +, writes (7 April 2014):
 I'm wondering what brought you to the decision to dump her in the first place. Was it thought out? Did you have your eye on someone else and they've since shown disinterest in you? Or have you really truly come to the conclusion that that you have made a terrible can't-sleep-at-night because of it - mistake? Make sure that you do want her back and not just because some other guy is showing interest in her, because it would be unfair to get back with her and then in a month say, "Nope, now I know why I dumped her in the first place."
If you decide you can't live without her and are truly sorry you broke up then go to see her face to face and win her back. Show her that you're worth a second chance. Good luck.
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reader, methuselah  +, writes (7 April 2014):
Hi,
Try talk to her. Either face to face (best) or by telephone. This will be the best way. A text or email sounds a bit quick and easy non-serious way of doing things. You need communication and talk. I believe you can turn this around. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2014): For a start, don't call her 'ex' because that's rude and also could refer to several different people depending on who you've dated.
Secondly, apologise to her but not over text, ring her or do it face to face. Explain that you made a mistake and that you want her to be your girlfriend again.
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