New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244976 questions, 1084356 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
*edha agony aunt

*edha

Morocco  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *edha to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *edha a private message

*edha's Ratings
Excellent75%
Average8%
Poor17%

If my ex boyfriend has really moved on why does he always dodge me?

Q.   If my ex boyfriend has really moved on why does he always dodge me...? I was driving yesterday. and noticed a car sort of behind me and then noticed it was my ex with his new gf in the car. He was about to pass me until and get in the turning lane...

A.   5 June 2010: Agree with Chigirl. If you have moved on, why do you care what your ex thinks and wants and the way he acts? Not healthy for you, also the only way to move on is by cutting all contacts. I tried to go the 'friends' route with my ex, but realized ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend woke up one morning and told me she didn't love me any more...

Q.   My gf of nearly 1 year, one day woke up an said i dont love you any more, i dont feel anything . i loss feelings for you. its hard letting her go i love her so much its very devastating and shocking to hear those words. were not the prefect couple ...

A.   3 June 2010: Hi I sense that she has been outsourcing the love and is now sure of that guy and that is why wants to get away from you. OF course I could be wrong! ((((((((((hugs))))))))))) ... (read in full...)

He's still in my heart. It seemed so right but now it's so wrong

Q.   I'm so confused about what has happened, how he has behaved, how I have behaved, and how I feel about it. 18months ago I was married. I was relatively happy, sortof. I was very into my work and I think my husband and I had both grown in differe...

A.   30 May 2010: Hi Honey, while we all have that little hope inside us that the man was a little more decent and that his words and deeds meant a bit more than "humping and dumping" the cold harsh reality of things is that it is nothing more than humping and dump... (read in full...)

My girlfriend only calls when she wants something! What should I do?

Q.   dear sirs, my girlfriend only calls me when she wants something ! wht shall i do?...

A.   27 May 2010: Find another girlfriend who needs you for you! :D... (read in full...)

I need to hear those three words

Q.   Hi everyone, I am 23 yrs old and I have a new bf, he's 30 yrs old. We've been going out for 4 months now and bf/gf for 2months. A month ago I told him that I love him and he just nod and agree, I told him its ok if he doesnt feel the same way...

A.   27 May 2010: HI Ok, well, I come from the east. (as in the Orient). So, well, yeah, ideally I would love a man to be totally completely and madly crazily in love with me. But, then I would sort of hang on and keep my lips zipped until he said it to me first. C... (read in full...)

My current bf called his ex "My Whore" Is this something to be alarmed about?

Q.   Okay, so maybe I'm over reacting and being stupid idk. Perhaps even worrying too much but... I decided to ask for other people's opinion. I've been in a 5 to 6 months relationship with my bf/fiance whom when i met had broke up with his ex gf/ex ...

A.   26 May 2010: Q.... you never told us... your real name is Leslie? ... (read in full...)

He dropped me like a bad habit, what should I do?

Q.   We were together for 4 months. The time we spent together was fun and very passionate. He would tell me he cared about me and was scared of being in a relationship because he still had things in his life to figure out. I fell for him. We took a week ...

A.   26 May 2010: Hi Yeah. action speaks louder than words, and men being who they are... will jump through fire without any pants on, for the girl they truly loved. Rest all doesn't matter! So, basically, move on. Move on= move on! To a better life, better t... (read in full...)

hate the fact that I hurt him.. did I cheat?

Q.   hey all. im feeling alot of mixed emotions here so i might jump all over the place, but ill try and keep it simple and to the point. my boyfriend and i decided to go on a break due to the fact that he was always questioning me about everything...

A.   24 May 2010: Hi He is emotionally raping you! Get out of this situation, or you will end up a basket case! I so hate men who take their little insecurities out on the women in their lives... especially the one who loves them! Damn! You run girl and make you... (read in full...)

He says it's over -- is it?

Q.   Ok, this is going to be a long one but I really need as much advise as I can get. So, I was with this guy for over a year. In this year we got very serious. We lived together, had a boat, a dog, a quad. Our friends are even the same people. We moved ...

A.   23 May 2010: OMG!!!!!!! You have put up with his grossly insensitive and possibly deranged act for so damn long that you are now rationalizing it, and thinking that he is all good, the fault must be in you! Apart from messing up your head, self-esteem and ... (read in full...)

Back home, clueless and confused after meeting my online love. I'm 20, she's 40+ married with kids!

Q.   Hey everyone. So I met a woman online 2 years ago when I was 17 and we started typing to each other really often. It wasn't on a site like facebook or myspace so it was basically anonymous to a degree, with no real orientation around dating or ...

A.   22 May 2010: Hi Hate to say it sweetie, but when a person you are in a relationship with (in real or virtual life) isn't doing anything at all to further the relationship or take it to the next level, isn't all that invested in it at all. I think that the lady... (read in full...)

Why do I always pull stupid pranks on my boyfriend? I think I just crave attention or want a reaction from him!

Q.   Hi Guys I've been dating my bf for almost a year and everything is/was going well. I have a problem of pulling stupid pranks on him. They seem to be compulsive and I realise the implications after playing with him for a while. I started by sayin...

A.   21 May 2010: Hi I also did the same thing back when I was in a relationship. It is part craving for attention, and part wanting the relationship to end! The man wasn't showing me much love and I would hurt him just to see if he was enough invested in the rela... (read in full...)

He dumped me on my birthday! Help!

Q.   Help plz!!!!!!!!! My boyfriend said he had a suprise for me on my b-day and then for the suprize he dumped me. Guess what my b-day was 3 wks ago and I still cant get ovr him what shuld ii do...

A.   19 May 2010: Oh hon! My ex dumped me on Valentines' Day, over the phone, a week before my b'day. And on my b'day he told me that he was marrying someone else! So, in case you need to look up to someone, going (at least, I am not that gal!) then that someone ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says he doesn't want marriage

Q.   i was married for 4 years to a jerk and we got divorced an year back. My friend was there for me the whole time and we got really close that time. he works with me in the same office and said he loves me. i fell for him totally and he is younger to ...

A.   7 May 2010: Good Luck! And the sooner you get him out of your mind the better. If a man loves you, he is surely going to marry you and nothing can stop or change that. If he is choosing his parents over you, he wasn't all that into you in the first place. N... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says he doesn't want marriage

Q.   i was married for 4 years to a jerk and we got divorced an year back. My friend was there for me the whole time and we got really close that time. he works with me in the same office and said he loves me. i fell for him totally and he is younger to ...

A.   6 May 2010: End it. Run while you can. The longer you stay in this situation, the more you will torture yourself. Life is like that. Best of Luck. Love. ... (read in full...)

Would I be naive to believe my husband will change?

Q.   My husband of 9 years (together for 16) had an almost 4 year long affair with his office manager who had a live-in boyfriend. Although I've decided to give him a second chance he has not stopped all contact with her as she still comes into the ...

A.   23 April 2010: Hi. I never used to agree to the 'a cheater is a cheater is a cheater' but I believed that it isn't so, and gave a man a chance to prove this. (of course that man is my now long gone ex).... Only to be proved wrong again...and again... and yet agai... (read in full...)

Does who you lose your virginity to really matter?

Q.   Well,now I have another dilema.I want to get over my teacher and feel that another guy would help.He's 18 and can drive iv known him for 5 years and he proposed that we have some 'fun',I'm up for it or at least would be if my sister hadn't given him ...

A.   13 April 2010: Hi Yes, who you lose your virginity to is really important. First, there should be enough trust and chemistry between the two. (Not merely for emotional reasons but also biological). Also, who you give yourself to for the first time, will be wi... (read in full...)

Should I tell my bus driver that I like him?

Q.   Okay so my problem is that I really like this guy who just so happens to be my bus driver. Theres not much of an age difference just four years. He goes pretty red when he talks to me but im sure he has no clue whatsoever that i like him. Should I ...

A.   13 April 2010: Two words for you... Winona Ryder in Mermaids. Good Luck! ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend won't fly to go on vacation yet he did this with his ex!

Q.   Hello, I hope you can help. I really want to go on holiday but my bf won't come with me as he is too scared to fly. I understand that but the thing is he has flown before twice with his ex and twice with his mates. He keeps saying that he does wan...

A.   3 April 2010: Q.. I kinda thought that if life hands you lemons you throw them at people you didn't like! Finding someone with vodka is a good option too!!!!! ... (read in full...)

*edha's friends

These are mutual friends, so *edha has added them and they have added *edha!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0937606000006781!