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*ubblegumchewer101
writes:Help plz!!!!!!!!! My boyfriend said he had a suprise for me on my b-day and then for the suprize he dumped me. Guess what my b-day was 3 wks ago and I still cant get ovr him what shuld ii do Reply to this Question
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reader, medha  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 Oh hon!
My ex dumped me on Valentines' Day, over the phone, a week before my b'day. And on my b'day he told me that he was marrying someone else!
So, in case you need to look up to someone, going (at least, I am not that gal!) then that someone is me!
Oh hell.
Now, here's the good part! There are no break ups, only divine intervention. When god or life or destiny whatever... sees that we really wonderful women aren't leaving the duds who pretend to be such dudes, out of our lives, then it sort of gets ride of them.
Have you tried sending this guy a purely poisonous email? Circulate a false rumor against him, tell ppl that he liked wearing your undies and had gay fantasies... you know, revenge is sweet in these circumstances and it will help you get better!
(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))
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reader, The Great Mark Says +, writes (19 May 2010):
 thats defiantly one of those jaw dropping holy !#%& moments. please do a favor and get over him. thats a really rude move and you dont need him. thats like your boss firing you on Christmas, then finishing it with happy holidays. its just flat out messed up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): What a horrible guy. Thank your lucky stars you are rid of him! And don't let it spoil future real surprises.
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reader, Aussiemum  +, writes (19 May 2010):
This guy is a loser. He gave you the best present you could ever get....getting rid of him. I know it hurts, I know its hard...move on...as there are other guys out there that wont want to dump you on your birthday and treat you special, like the wonderful person you are! Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 May 2010):
What a crap guy! Ever time you think about him, keep reminding yourself that this was a guy who actually dumped you on your birthday. He's not worth your time at all. Make sure you go out with your friends and have fun, and keep busy. You'll get over him and you will certainly meet a better guy.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 May 2010):
 If he is a worthy guy ,he would not want you to shed tears for him. He is very cruel to do that to you .
Don't shed anymore tears for him or give him any more of your tears.
He was not meant to be yours ,for God has arranged for a better b/f for you .
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): Well, I would say you are better off without him. You will get over him trust me. Have your girl friends round, keep yourself busy and before you know where you are you won't be thinking about him all the time.
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reader, Neera  +, writes (19 May 2010):
What kind of a guy is this? I am disgusted. He obviously doesn't deserve you. He is a sick idiot and you are lucky he's out of your life.
Why should you waste your time and your life thinking about such a person? Please move on. I know it can be hard. But really, he's not worth all this fuss.
Make new friends, join a hobby class or something. Put your energy into studying hard and make your parents proud! Believe me you can and will do much better than him.
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reader, playgrl966 +, writes (19 May 2010):
He was probrably planning this for a while...
Judging from your age I'd say he's around 13-15 as well?
Move on. Thats the best thing to do. Your young
and trust me, theres gonna be plenty of other guys inthe future who be as immature.
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