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im 17. im median hight and have long light brown hair. i have green eyes and im skinny.

How can I stop thinking of her as more than a friend?.

Q.   well, to start all of this, Im a lesbian [if you dunt like it, too bad]. Theres this girl who I really really really like.I mean I love her! Right now Im 20 and shes 19. When we were like 14 years old, we dated. We broke up over a simple question ...

A.   6 June 2009: if you really like her you should tell her. that way she can tell you if she likes u more than a friend..or not. if she says she doesnt like you it may be ackword being around her at first but it will turn out ok. hope she says yes ... (read in full...)

I am 15, really like a 23 year old man, is he too old for me to date?

Q.   hi there, i have a question for you all, well i really like this guy and he is 23 and im 15 some of my friends say he is too old and some say that aslong as he is respectful in my decisions and he doesnt push me into things then its okayy, but i...

A.   6 June 2009: well he is older so you have to be careful. if you want you should start dating. take it slow to see if he really wants YOU not ur BODY... best of luck with him xxxsantashelper... (read in full...)

Says she loves me but isn't ready

Q.   She told me she loved me, but she isnt ready, what do i do? This girl i love very much we had gone out for almost 2 months but she realized shes not ready for a boyfriend, mainly because shes still going over the getting overproxess of her ex ( the...

A.   8 March 2009: well she might just be scard. you should still do what you 're doing and dont bring up it up. she will tell you when she is ready... (read in full...)

I'm finding my male friend attractive. Am I gay?

Q.   i am male, thing is i like girls and have had some relationships, but recently my best friend (male), has been looking very attractive to me, but i fear he wont open up, cos i think he is homophobic, i am confused am i gay or what?...

A.   7 March 2009: its ok to like girls or guys or both. if you do really like him like that tell him. the worst thing that will happend ishe doesnt like you back. i think you should tell him fyi ... (read in full...)

Desperate to have a baby and willing to have sex with anyone to get one

Q.   I have a problem, and would love to get some advice/help with it. Thanks!! Okay! I'm single and want a baby so badly that I'm willing to have sex with anyone and then be a single parent. The only problem is, I don't want'a deal with the pa...

A.   7 March 2009: Adoption honny!!! If you want a baby but dont want to have sex, adoption!... (read in full...)

I am 16, going to have sex for the first time, how can we make it special?

Q.   I'm 16. My boyfriend is 18. We've been dating for almost a year now and we had a long talk and I decided that I was ready to give up my virginity to him. He's done it before and I want it to be special for the both of us. Does anyone have any ...

A.   7 March 2009: Well you can do it in a hotel room. light some candels. Take hot steamy showers together. stuff like that... (read in full...)

I keep dreaming I'm sleeping with Present Bush!

Q.   This isn't exactly a relationship question, but I'm in desperate need of help here! This is going to sound really weird and borderline gross, but please bear with me. I am a young, female, Liberal Democrat of nineteen (voted for Obama and suppor...

A.   7 March 2009: I dream is a wish your heart makes. Well in your case it's not. You can't really stop dreams. Try thinking about something else when you're falling asleep. Keep me updated!... (read in full...)

"A roll in the hay!!!"

Q.   We sometime use the term “a roll in the hay” when referring to sex. Has anyone every had sex in a barn? Was it a good location? In what parts of the barn did you do it in? Did you actually have sex in the hay? What positions did you use? ...

A.   5 March 2009: yes yes and yes. ive had sex in a barn, ive did it in hay but it was really ichy, and we did doggy.... (read in full...)

He wants me to smoke weed with him before we have sex... what should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but he also wants me to smoke WEED with him before we do it so I can get high. I don't know if I should because I'm worried that if he gets high he'll forget to put a condom on and I might get pregnent. What ...

A.   5 March 2009: dont do it if you dont want to. if he wont do it with you cause you wont smoke pot dump him... (read in full...)

How can I stop getting turned on by naked men?

Q.   im in high school and im not bisexual but i get turned on when i see a naked men. i have swimming classes and most of the guys get naked in the locker room and i wanted to know if any one knows a way that can stop me from getting turned on? ...

A.   5 March 2009: well you might just like men. or not. im a girl and i get turned on when i see naked girls but i have a bf and prefectly happy. so just calm down... (read in full...)

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