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My names is Matthew I am 25 living in Bournemouth

Why would a girl date me when she isnt over her ex?

Q.   I have met a girl online and we are going on a date tomorrow i know I shouldn't but I have been looking at her online activity and I saw her boyfriend had broken up with her 1 month ago. I was looking more into it and she put online just hours ago ...

A.   12 May 2014: I appreciate all the replies with help and advise I did attend but she stood me up, I was waiting for 1 hour and she didn't show ... (read in full...)

Why would a girl date me when she isnt over her ex?

Q.   I have met a girl online and we are going on a date tomorrow i know I shouldn't but I have been looking at her online activity and I saw her boyfriend had broken up with her 1 month ago. I was looking more into it and she put online just hours ago ...

A.   10 May 2014: I didn't get that information from her profile I got them from other sources Social media etc, she has not once mentioned her ex to me or on her profile... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants a blowjob but I can't do it due to past experiences

Q.   My current boyfriend of almost a year really wants me to give him a blowjob. He's asked a number of times and at first I thought nothing of it and said I would at some point, but more recently he's become more naggy on the topic. This has made me ...

A.   10 May 2014: Just tell him you are not doing it and that's final, if he leaves you because of that then he isn't worth it ... (read in full...)

At 41 I'm still a virgin. What do ladies think of that?

Q.   being a virgin at 41 Hi am a male am 41 and yes still a virgin I have never had a girlfriend never been in love is it cool to be a virgin at that age am shy with girls have no confidence ...

A.   10 May 2014: I'm in the same boat but I'm 25 never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and still a Virgin I thought about trying online dating I got 3 "dates" from that 2 of the canceled one is in 8 hours, maybe you should try online if you are having ... (read in full...)

Don't want to misrepresent myself but ...

Q.   I am a 25 male and trying online dating I am short most of the woman are taller than me I have no problem dating taller women but I have heard that most women won't date a shorter men I don't know how true this is. I know complete honesty is ...

A.   13 February 2014: Just to give you an update I arranged a date with Somone who was sorter than me but she changed her mind hours before, now I am currently talking to a girl who is the same hight as me ... (read in full...)

Should I ask her on a date? and how?

Q.   There is woman about my age working in my local cafè I really like her and I think she is giving me signs smiles and waves when i come in and asks how I am and when in the Q she is not like that to the other customers the thing is though there is ...

A.   18 May 2012: Just to let you know I asked her out on a date she smiled and said she has a boyfriend she then took a few steps look back smiled again and went into the back (whitch she was going to that direction anyway)... (read in full...)

Should I ask her on a date? and how?

Q.   There is woman about my age working in my local cafè I really like her and I think she is giving me signs smiles and waves when i come in and asks how I am and when in the Q she is not like that to the other customers the thing is though there is ...

A.   26 January 2012: Hi i asked her out on a date today when she asked me how i was for the second time during my visit i asked her not sure if she heard me or if she chose not to hear me as she didn't react at all as i left she smiled and said see you next time ... (read in full...)

I'm beginning to feel like an outsider because I haven't had sex or dated anyone!

Q.   I really don't know where else to turn. I am a 19 year old guy, who has never had sex, had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. I despise this about me. Every one of my friends have had this experience before and I just feel like an outcast. Like, ...

A.   19 January 2012: I am the same but I am 23 you are not alone I get very frustrated quite often but I believe it will happen one day most of my friends are married With children, l get jealous of them sometimes Just what ever you do don't give up... (read in full...)

Should I ask her on a date? and how?

Q.   There is woman about my age working in my local cafè I really like her and I think she is giving me signs smiles and waves when i come in and asks how I am and when in the Q she is not like that to the other customers the thing is though there is ...

A.   12 January 2012: I went the café today but she wasnt there i will have to go again next time i have a day off work The only problem about taking her number is that she might not know her mobile number from the top of her head and as she is working she might not have ... (read in full...)

She's married and unaware I love her! What can do about this?

Q.   I am in love with a woman who is married I have known her for about 7 years she was single when I met her but had no feelings for her she has been married for only 4 months and about 5 days ago I had a dream about her (I won't say what happend in ...

A.   9 January 2012: I know it's a late reply but I am now over her and have been for ages I don't usually believe in god but I thought it won't hurt to pray so I said in my pray about thou shall not commit adaltety please give me the Gidence to get over her and when a ... (read in full...)

What age were you when you lost YOUR virginity? (I was 23)

Q.   This is kind of an idle question I suppose. I've noticed and been kind of alarmed by a large number of sex questions being asked by kids in the 13-15 year old age range. (It seems awfully young to me.) I'd like to have kids of my own some day ...

A.   14 July 2011: I am 23 and still a vrigin ... (read in full...)

She's married and unaware I love her! What can do about this?

Q.   I am in love with a woman who is married I have known her for about 7 years she was single when I met her but had no feelings for her she has been married for only 4 months and about 5 days ago I had a dream about her (I won't say what happend in ...

A.   5 October 2010: I know You are both right but I can't move on and still be in contact with her if I lose contact (block her on windows live remove her on facebook ect) she is going to wonder why I have known and spoke to her for 7 years and suddenly "fallen out ... (read in full...)

I know what NOT to say, but don't know WHAT to say

Q.   hi i am 21 in june and a am a virgen a have never had a girlfriend i am not shy a ask girls out after getting to know them but i always get declined i have signed up to a online dating site but don't know what to say in the messages i have looked on ...

A.   20 January 2009: hi when you say about im may just be looking for the for the supermodel type all they girls i like all my mates say that there are ugly and i have a horrible taste in girls... (read in full...)

I know what NOT to say, but don't know WHAT to say

Q.   hi i am 21 in june and a am a virgen a have never had a girlfriend i am not shy a ask girls out after getting to know them but i always get declined i have signed up to a online dating site but don't know what to say in the messages i have looked on ...

A.   19 January 2009: I just ask them on a date they say no, I don't say who is paying (I would pay if they said yes) I don't have physcial handicaps except epilepsy.... (read in full...)

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