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*atthew-matt
writes:hi i am 21 in june and a am a virgen a have never had a girlfriend i am not shy a ask girls out after getting to know them but i always get declined i have signed up to a online dating site but don't know what to say in the messages i have looked on the net but all thats coming up is what not to say can someone please help me
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reader, megan1111  +, writes (21 January 2009):
Trying with a variety of girls and don't limit yourself. There are more girls than guys so you should have some luck. Also, try older women, they are less threatened.
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reader, matthew-matt +, writes (20 January 2009):
matthew-matt is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi when you say about im may just be looking for the for the supermodel type all they girls i like all my mates say that there are ugly and i have a horrible taste in girls
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reader, megan1111 +, writes (19 January 2009):
I didn't mean to offend you. i was just trying to help. Perhaps you're trying for the supermodel type and need to start off a little lower. don't overlook the "ugly betty" type as most are the most adorable women around. Try the afternood dates for lunch rather than the evening dates because girls like to feel safe.
Have a date meet you somewhere rather than offering to pick her up.
Some sure fire winners are desserts, just about all of us skimp on food but we love sweets. while I might not "date" you, if you disgusted it as meeting you at the chocolate factory or joining you at the cookie company in the mall, you'd probably get that a lot quickier. Then don't talk about you, just let us talk.
let me know how you do.
Good luck.
When you a group of girls and one is protective of the bunch, ask her out, she's the one who is usually without a date.
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reader, matthew-matt +, writes (19 January 2009):
matthew-matt is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just ask them on a date they say no, I don't say who is paying (I would pay if they said yes) I don't have physcial handicaps except epilepsy.
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reader, megan1111 +, writes (18 January 2009):
Poor thing. Honestly it always best however I don't trust online dating because so many people lie.
I really need information why girls always turn you down. Are you asking them to pay for the evening, do you not have transportation, do you have physcial handicaps?
I really need more information.
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