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She didnt tell me she loves me before she went to sleep and now I'm really hurt, am I overreacting?

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Question - (21 November 2011) 8 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi. My girlfriend and I were texting each other late at night like we usually do, and joking around and everything. She told me she was tired and night. She always tell me 'night babe I love you'. I asked her if she was mad at me and she said no, she was tired and just forgot. Which I guess I kinda understand, but how does someone just forget to tell another person i love you? I'll admit it hurt my feelings, how badly am I overreacting?

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2011):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntThis is an over reaction, im sorry but its true,

But it is only because you clearly love your gf and want to know she feels the same, you need to work on being more secure in the fact she clearly does love you and if she ever forgets to say it again you wont feel like you did this time.

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A female reader, mammaboo United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2011):

mammaboo agony auntok you were over reacting so do you need her to tell you this all the time?Or can you live with every now and then.

Think about this because if you really need to hear it often you need to understand why that is.Understanding why you are the way you are goes along way when you are in a relationship. You can sort out problems much easier alot of them even befor you say anything!!

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A female reader, sweetcheeks95 United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2011):

sweetcheeks95 agony auntoverreacting abit but it is bound to hurt your feelings :\ x

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A female reader, *problems* United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2011):

*problems* agony auntYour defo over reacting! - maybe she fell asleep! And she also told you she wasnt mad at you! So no need to look into it any more than you are, especially if she has told you she loves you since then :) xx

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (21 November 2011):

Honeypie agony auntI agree - major overreaction.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada + , writes (21 November 2011):

Ciar agony auntOver reacting by quite a bit.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (21 November 2011):

person12345 agony auntYou're overreacting a lot. Sometimes people just forget, especially if it's over text. If it happened frequently and you were actually talking on the phone, it would be one thing, but over text, I think it's bound to happen sometimes.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (21 November 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou are over-reacting very badly to be honest...

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