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Why does he have issues with our 7 month relationship being the open?

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Question - (21 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2011)
A female India age 30-35, *mnisha writes:

hi

im in a relationship since last 7 months. the man im in a relationship with is known to have a very colourful past. though, he denies it all and says that he has had only 2 girlfriends in his past. i have nothing to do with his past. i dont even care as to how many relationships he has been in as long as he is loyal to me. his ex girlfriend still tries to contact him but he doent respond. atleast that is what he says. sometimes i feel that he truly loves and cares for me. im so much in love with him that i did not even think once before getting physical with hin, which is a major step in our country. what bothers me the most is that he always has issues with making our relationship public. he always gets pissed off. i dont understand why. i meant whats wrong in owning up the relationship. its not a crime. his denial causes suspicions in my mind. could he be cheating on me? im so confused. there is no way i can find out. please help me.

impatiently waiting for your reply.

thank u

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (21 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntAsk him what his problem is about telling people, he is keeping you a secret which is very worrying. To me it sounds like he is hiding something, if he truly loved you he would want the world to know. There is a reason that he is hiding it, and if he already has a reputation as a bit of a player then if I where you I would run a mile. Talk to him, tell him how it makes you feel. If he refuses to go public well then if it was me I would walk away.

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A female reader, mammaboo United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2011):

mammaboo agony auntHe certainly is acting very strange isn,t he. This must be very hard for you and frustrating but if he will not acknowledge you to anyone then i would leave him.I am sorry to say that he has issues that you cannot solve and you are better not even trying.

Don,t waste anymore time on him!

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