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8 May 2008: We've all have in been relationships and dates, some of which have ended in good terms and some of which have ended badly. And honestly, a relationship takes more than saying the three words, 'I love you.' Mostly the reasons for relationships last ...
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I've left 10 texts to my boyfriend with no response, does he still care?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been dating for two months. now, we are on spring break and he hasn't text me back. i have left at least ten plus messages. do you think that hes doesn't care about me anymore or that our relationship is over? ...
A. 19 March 2008: Okay, now, let's not jump to the conclusion that the relationship is over. There may be reasons why he can't text. Some may be, depending on location, he cannot text, or his phone may be broken, he may be too busy having fun. I also would be ... (read in full...)
Husband is drinking more and ignoring us....what can I do?
Q. I have been married almost 3 years and been with my husband for a total of 7 1/2 years. we have two beautiful little girls and we have had our little fights but nothing major. Here in the past two months he has changed. he has started drinking more ...
A. 19 March 2008: I'm not even married, yet, but but it seems to me that your husband is becoming an alcoholic. Alcohol can do a lot of things to people, especially bring out the mean side. Your husband is definitely abusing alcohol and by that, he is ruining his ... (read in full...)
Should I get in touch???
Q. Hey all, My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and im still very much in love with him... Im one of these girls that 'love to much' so i find it hard to move on, but im trying very hard. He's moved on and is seeing other people. I work with him an...
A. 19 March 2008: I kinda know what you are going through, and I am going through it too again, so, from my experience, do not call. you can text him showing your concern about his dad and wish his father well. he may or may not respond, but at least knows that ... (read in full...)
It really turns my boyfriend on to think of me having sex with other men - he even wants me to tape it!!!
Q. Well I really need some advice I've been dating this guy for 2 years. I fell in love with him everything amazing he was my first the sex amazing the bond pretty much everything I ever wanted but all of a sudden we started opening up and it really ...
A. 19 March 2008: DO NOT DO IT!!! you are better than that. You definitely have morals, and you deserve a better guy. If he does date any of your girlfriends, warn them immediately so that they know what they are walking into. Also, be careful and watch yourself, and ... (read in full...)
Keep the baby for me or abortion to make him happy?
Q. I'm a 23 year old female and I am pregnant. Doesn't seem like a big deal but the guy that I'm pregnant by doesn't want me to have to baby because he says we should wait and because he's not ready. He has tried EVERYTHING to make me have a abortion: ...
A. 19 March 2008: I wouldn't let him force you to have an abortion when you want to have the baby. If he wasn't ready, he should have used a condom when he was having sex with you, but since he didn't, he should accept that he is going to have a child with you. ... (read in full...)
Is there a possibility I could be pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and i had sex abbout 4 times this months unprotected. Then about a week after the last time my peroid came a week early and it was heavy and before i started i was very depressed emotion tired. my brest hurt and i had mood swings like ...
A. 19 March 2008: I woud have to agree with the advice given to you by Tisha1. Definitely if you had unprotected sex, it is likely that you are pregnant, but if you have had your period since, it is unlikely that you are. I would go get a pregnancy test, preferrably ... (read in full...)
Any tips for my weekend away with my gf and her parents??
Q. Okay, first off, I'm really grateful for all the feedback I received for a previous question I had, So, basically, my question is, I'm seeing this girl and the next time I see her, she wants me to stay the weekend with her. I'm worried on how t...
A. 16 March 2008: I would read the two advices here, and I definitely agree with them. If you want my take, it is always good to have good manners because good manners make a good lasting impression on her parents. Also, find time to talk to her parents individually ... (read in full...)
Is a "blow job" considered sex? Do girls do this for fun?
Q. I am curious as to why so many teenage girls, and maybe even some older girls and women, don't think a blowjob is sex. Do any of you girls or women here think a blowjob isn't sex? If so, why do you think that? And if a blowjob isn't sex, would...
A. 16 March 2008: Intercourse is considered sex, whereas a blowjob is considered a form of play. It is not really sex because there is no sperm in the vagina. Girls just do it to get money, drugs, and alcohol, and if in a relationship, to pleasure their boyfriend.... (read in full...)
Does having sex for the first time hurt?
Q. Does Sex For The First Time Hurt? Me and my boyfriend Are both virgins and have been talking about sex for a while now. But im sooo afraid it will hurt! i am not good with pain! i've told him this and he says he doesnt want to rush me. But i...
A. 13 March 2008: Hello there,
If this is your first time, it will hurt. It might be painful, and if I were you, use protection, in other words, use a condom. You might be bleeding for a couple days then spot because of your hymen lining. I hope this helps you.... (read in full...)
Why do I keep bleeding? Is this normal?
Q. PLEASE HELP I lost my virginity last monday, with hardly any blood after more like a spot, anyway since last thursday I've been bleeding after sex and on saturday and last night (weds) I bled during sex, it's blood like from a period, but no pain ...
A. 13 March 2008: I definitely think going to a gynecologist sounds like a good idea. It may not be anything to worry about, and if this is your first time having sex, for some women, it is normal to bleed because your of your hymen lining. I am not so sure what else ... (read in full...)
Since my BF told me he was bi, we did not have sex as much as before. What is happening?
Q. My boyfriend told me that he was bi, which is okay with me. We have had fun exploring with it. But lately he doesn't always want to have sex with me or go down on me as much anymore. He does other things to please me. He says because he is angry. He ...
A. 13 March 2008: Hi there,
There are a couple good answers here, but if you want what I think, it may seem like he is leaning towards men, which may explain why he doesn't want to have sex with you or any other woman. He may be afraid to tell you that he is disco... (read in full...)
He broke up so he could party during his last semester of school without worrying about me, his exact words! Do I accept him back??
Q. I was with my bf for a year and a half and he wanted a break so he could go and party his last semester of law school without worrying about me (his exact words). Before he left we were having problems and we tried to fix them and three times he ...
A. 13 March 2008: It is your choice. I would choose with caution. He has given up before, and now that you are on a break, and in this case, a somewhat unhealthy way to take a break from a relationship, it will allow you to really think things over. I give him props ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: That is a negative. You can only get pregnant if you have had unprotected sex.... (read in full...)
Did she like me or was just being friendly, and why can't I get her off my mind when I hardly even knew her????
Q. There was this girl in the old 8th grade who i think i fell in love with her. She wasnt really pretty but something about her i liked. I was new last year in 7th grade and she was the friendliest one toward me. She'd always smiledand staredat me ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hello there,
Your story is quite cute. I think deep down you missed the opportunity to go talk to her. She definitely did have a hunch for you, in other words, she liked you. But, hey, do not worry! You can definitely learn from it or as said in ... (read in full...)
What to do to my body to make the first time special? Paint my toenails? Shave my pubic area?...
Q. Just a question. Planning on sleeping with a guy this weekend and am wondering if theres anything I can do ot my body to make it extra nice? Should I shave my pubic area? Paint my toenails? Wear perfume? Scented body mosturiser?...
A. 11 March 2008: shave or go for a brazilian wax for your vaginal hair, but i recommend notdoing the brazilian wax if you are sensitive to wax. also, definitely, shave the legs and paint the toenails. smelling good is a plus and definitely watch your breath. good ... (read in full...)
I broke up with him because his ex still calls him and he won't tell her not to, saying he has a "weak heart"!
Q. I dated my boyfriend for a year. I find out one night by checking his voice mail and found his ex girlfriend left him friendly messages. I ask him if his ex has ever contacted him or ever met her, he denied it, getting mad at me for accusing him. ...
A. 11 March 2008: you definitely did the right thing by breaking up with your boyfriend. he definitely lied to you about the fact that he was over his ex-girlfriend. a guy that hasn't been over his ex is a guy that a girl should not be with because even if he is and ... (read in full...)
How likely is it that I am pregnant, despite of the precautions?
Q. I was recently married. My husband and I are not financially ready for children just yet, so we have been using the following methods: condoms with spermicidal lubricant, birth control pills, and withdrawal before ejaculation. However, I have become ...
A. 8 March 2008: I think very unlikely because you are using precautions or some sort of protection while having sex. It also would not hurt to get yourself a home pregnancy test, preferrably one that is hcG sensitive such as First Response. Hope this helps you out.... (read in full...)
I missed a pill. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Hello, I've been on the Pill for almost 4 months. I take 21 pill packs. I started this months pack last friday. I took every Pill regularly, except on wednesday. That day I forgot it. Sadly, on Thursday I took my pill a few hours later than u...
A. 8 March 2008: If you miss a pill and have had unprotected sex, there is a chance of getting pregnant. I'm not on the pill and I know what you are going through, and I went through that last month, so if I were you, I would go to your local pharmacy and ask for ... (read in full...)
I noticed an itchy, sore and burning sensation around my vaginal area, should I be concerned?
Q. I was recently married, and after a few weeks of being sexually active for the first time, I've started noticing an itchy/sore/burning sensation around my vaginal area. Is this normal, or should I be concerned?...
A. 8 March 2008: hey there,
it sounds like you may have an infection around the vaginal area. i would be concerned because it is your body, and i would definitely recommend getting yourself checked by your doctor. it wouldn't hurt to know what it is. good luck!!!!... (read in full...)
I've got a problem being open about being gay. What do I do?
Q. Hi i have a problem. i'm a masculine guy and i have always known that i liked guys but would always aviod actually meeting any as i enjoyed the thought of being with a man but knew if it actually came to the real thing i would run for the hills, s...
A. 24 February 2008: Hello there,
Coming out and telling people that you are gay is tough. What you're going through is what many people who had problems opening up about gay went through, and I actually have friends that are gay and know what you went through,... (read in full...)
I am in a relationship and I am thinking about oral sex with him what should I do?
Q. I am in a relationship and I am thinking about oral sex with him what should I do?...
A. 23 February 2008: I don't know if you are nervous of giving him oral sex, but you really shouldn't be. You don't need permission. Just go for it. Don't think. Just do it. It wouldn't hurt would it?... (read in full...)
Both of us have trust issues...what can we do??
Q. Ok, i have this boyfriend whom I dated for about 7 months. And we have this big problem with trust. He's always skeptical about everything a but so am i. I always feels like he's cheating evrywhere he goes, even when he goes to work and I'm at s...
A. 20 February 2008: it seems to me that the both of you are insecure, but i don't know, who am i to judge. what i would do is sit down and talk with the boyfriend about it. the sooner you do so, the better so that you can work on getting each other to have trust in one ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is jealous of my ex and blew everything out of proportion, he even says he doesn't know if he wants to be with me! What do I do?
Q. I'm so sad... My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He's so jealous of my "ex"... this guy we both know, who used to be my friend with benefits years before I met my boyfriend. He's been jealous of him since he found out abou...
A. 20 February 2008: I definitely would like to know what exactly did your boyfriend ask about this guy that made him flip because that may be the reason he is acting like that. I also agree with someone here that there is something not right about this picture, the guy ... (read in full...)
I want an orgasm- please help!
Q. I haven't had many sexual partners (4) but I am not a sexually inexperienced or unadventurous person. But I have always faked orgasms with all my boyfriends and I am ashamed to say I have never, not even once, had an orgasm through sex. I can ...
A. 20 February 2008: The best thing to do is just tell him the truth and stop faking it! Not too many guys would like a girl to fake when they have sex. Secondly, you have to decide what is best for you to have an orgasm. If there is something that makes you masturbate, ... (read in full...)
He said we can advance by the time I reach 18 if I still like him. Why shouldn't we date now?
Q. I am 15 and i like someone who is 20. We both have feelings for each other but because of the age difference we have to wait until i am 18. he said that when i am 18 if i still have feelings for him than we should make the relationship serious. but ...
A. 20 February 2008: I know a friend whose brother had a situation like that, and it was prety embarrassing for her and her family and it wrecked a relationship and it does bring up concerns. Before I get into it, there is nothing wrong with liking somebody, however, ... (read in full...)
We used to treat each other with little respect and now I get butterflies whenever he comes near me! Why??
Q. A bit of a shallow question I know and I feel really bad asking about it. Theres this guy I work with. Never been attracted to him. In fact we have a bit of history or "not getting on." As I've said, never found him attractive, but lately we ...
A. 19 February 2008: Maybe he has something that you may be looking for in a potential boyfriend, and the fact that you are attracted to him in some way shows it. He does not have to be a stud to get you to go out with. The fact that he as grown out of the ways that he ... (read in full...)
Is it time for me to suggest we walk away??
Q. Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. Things started brilliantly then an unusual work situation had us more focused on how I would deal with it from day-to-day. I had a really malicious boss whose main objective was to e...
A. 19 February 2008: Giving yourself a temporary separation may do you some good. That way he can really think things over as well as you. It is time that you may need a small break. It may help the two of you out. Hope this helps you... (read in full...)
Is it forgiveable?
Q. I went out with my boyfriend and his good friend for drinks last night. We had all consummed a lot of alcohol and my boyfriend went to play poker on the other side of the room with a group and I stayed at the bar with his friend. Next thing I ...
A. 19 February 2008: Hey,
I have put myself in a situation like that only it was a bit more complicated than that. But the thing is this: You would have to give your boyfriend some space and accept what you did was wrong. Your boyfriend has every right to be mad at y... (read in full...)
I'm confused...
Q. Hey, whats up everyone???? Anyways, I've been going out with this girl for the longest, cut a long story short I love her and she loves me... we broke up cause I cheated on her we didn't talk for 5 months she came back to me and well yeh I don't kn...
A. 18 February 2008: It is hard for a girl to forgive a guy that has cheated on her, number one. Number 2, girls get scared to get back into a relationship with someone who has loved them and cheated on them. I would not be surprised if she doesn't want to get back with ... (read in full...)
I still don't trust him- should I leave?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. It's been rocky the whole time. I've had numerous problems with him and the internet.My first inkling something was wrong was when i found he had been searching for BBW's on my computer. I am hardly A BBW ...
A. 18 February 2008: Hi, i would leave because he is not trustworthy and not worth of your time. And the fact that he is looking for someone else is a bad sign. I would not stay in the relationship, and a relationship like that is unhealthy for you. You need a man t... (read in full...)
I'm confused...
Q. Hey, whats up everyone???? Anyways, I've been going out with this girl for the longest, cut a long story short I love her and she loves me... we broke up cause I cheated on her we didn't talk for 5 months she came back to me and well yeh I don't kn...
A. 18 February 2008: OH WOW!!!! Okay, first of all, it is very difficult for a girl to forgive and trust a guy she loved who cheated on her. For a girl, a man who cheats is mostly not worth it for a relationship, and it also may be scary for a girl to get back into a ... (read in full...)
Why am I the only person left thats not met, and stayed with someone special???
Q. I've just been rejected, and I'm trying to move on again. I've been rejected before -- in fact, my success rate is abysmal. It used to be because I was too shy to persue girls. I'm still shy now, of course, but I at least try. I've covered all the ...
A. 18 February 2008: I will say this....Girls can be also be dumb.They fall for the wrong guy or play games with a guy that can potentially be the right one. I am not saying all girls, but some girls do, and I think that has been happening to you. It has happened to me ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and he's quite big, will it hurt?
Q. Hi. I am a virgin. My boyfriend is a big guy. Will his penis be big too? What will sex for the first time feel like? I am scared I will do something wrong. Any advice? ...
A. 18 February 2008: hey there... i am assuming that you are a virgin. from having sex last thursday for the first time in awhile, i would say, your feelings are normal. it will be painful after. your hymen may bleed overnight then spot for a few days or so. it is you... (read in full...)
I've never asked a girl out before, I really like her but how do I ask her out?
Q. I real like this girl. I went to a talent show with her and she gave me her number. So I called her and we talked for hours. Then that night we talked for 2 and a half hours. Then the next day we told each other that we liked each other. What do I ...
A. 18 February 2008: I would go for it. It wouldn't hurt to ask her out, and by asking someone out is pretty like asking them to go on a date with you. You seem nervous, and I really wouldn't be. Just be yourself with the person and you will do just fine.... (read in full...)
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