Boyfriend becoming so mean and bitter!
Q. Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We have a great relationship and i love him with all of my heart. I do NOT want to leave him ever. He is the man i am going to marry and i know it. Or at least i thought i knew it. He ...
A. 5 February 2012: Sunshine...."He's Not The one for You". I know you feel your in love & i'm sure you are...but you came to dear cupid because you had no one else to talk to. Now, it is up to you to take some of this really great "FREE" advice & use it. People pay ... (read in full...)
My husband supports everyone else but me. Why does he do this to me?
Q. My husband of three years will not take my feelings into consideration. Whenever there is a disagreement he will always take the others persons side against me. He will never defend me or stand up for me in any way. His sister and I do not get alon...
A. 5 February 2012: I know exactly how you feel...been there & done that! I don't know if you are a spiritual woman or not, but there is a biblical term which says "A man shall leave his mother & father & CLEAVE unto to his Wife". In a nut shell, your wife becomes ... (read in full...)
Should I move my daughter away from her dad to be with the new guy? Or stay single?
Q. So Im sort of in a dilemma. I recently moved out to live with my mom. I was living with my ex of 4 years. The problem is, I love to hang out with him. Even though we arent together he is like my true homie, my true friend. Anyways, when I'm alone I ...
A. 5 February 2012: DON'T DO IT! I can guarantee you...this will not pan out well for you or your daughter. You have a precious little girl that you must protect & moving in with some man you've only spent time with ....Twice....not a smart choice. Are you in a ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is going through chemo, and suddenly we're more like just friends!
Q. Ok .. complicated, but serious question. Just 5 months into a new relationship (which was going very, very well) my girlfriend was diagnosed with breast cancer. Through surgery .. then 4 months of chemo, she is now cancer free .. yet doing 6 weeks ...
A. 5 February 2012: CuriousDave...I appreciate you for standing by her side through such a life altering challenge. A family member of mine went through the same thing & it not only affects the person, but also, those close to them.
I hear you & your human and I wo... (read in full...)
Does persistence become annoying?
Q. Simply put.. when does persistence become annoying? i had class with this girl and on the last day gave her my number but nothing came of it. We talked the other day and I mentioned that she never texted me. She laughed and such but still no text. ...
A. 5 February 2012: I'm going to step out there & say..."Give It 1 More Try".
This time: Ask her if she's seeing anyone & if you can have her number to talk sometime or maybe hang out.
If she refuses or laughs it off...that's your answer & leave her alone.... (read in full...)
He says she's his soul mate. Do I go through with the divorce or wait?
Q. My husband left my and the kids for his mistress. he met her online. She is 1400 miles away. He's been 1 1/2months. He tells me he loves her and she makes him happy but he still loves me. That he's just not in love with me. Not to mention ...
A. 5 February 2012: This is a situation I know all to well. 2 years ago, my husband did the "EXACT SAME THING!
I was devastated, in shock and numb in disbelief, that my husband of 10 years would leave us.
The longer you "WAIT" for him, the longer you will "SUFER"... (read in full...)
Does no communication from a man...really mean no interest??
Q. I have dated this guy last week and he said he wanted to see me again.He works away alot and has sales meetings etc. I am finding it hard though when there is no communication and I am doing all the texting. he has now gone away to new york for a ...
A. 2 February 2012: I am a firm believer that " You Make Time For Who You Want To Make Time For"....when a person is "Into" you....they will find a moment to call or text you. I am a very busy person & I often leave my cell in the office or in my purse, but at some ... (read in full...)
My ex husband's fiancée posted a picture of our LEGAL divorce decree ON FACEBOOK
Q. Gang, I am MORTIFIED. I am not thrilled or happy about my divorce... it's a failure on my part and it is what it is. I don't need or WANT to shout from the rooftops I'm divorced (yet again). I just got a text from a friend of mine congratulat...
A. 1 February 2012: I am recently divorced, so I know exactly how you feel!!! DON'T GIVE IN & STOOP TO HER LEVEL!!!
Divorce does not determine your self worth or who you are as a total person. It happens to the best of us. It did not workout....I had my flaws & ... (read in full...)
Why am I always the friend... with benefits? I want marriage, kids, to start a new family!
Q. met him on vacation. a year and a half ago. he lives in the united states and i live in canada. immediately we had passion, fire and the relationship was heated. i didnt want to think so much about it, or even care to see him again. but we did. ...
A. 1 February 2012: Wow...even I felt a bit emotional reading this. My question to you is...Did the two of you agree to be in a committed relationship together???
It sounds like, it started off as a casual fling...with no strings attached and now, over time, yo... (read in full...)
Does this happen to anyone else but me?
Q. So whenever my boyfriend and I get really frisky and have the privacy and space to have sex, we do it and what not. But after constant changing of positions (missionary, to doggie, and other variations) and anything over 15-30min, I start to get dry ...
A. 1 February 2012: A little LUBE...goes a long way!
I keep lube, all kinds, smell good, taste good, tingling sensation...right next to the bed for easy access.
I personally am a fan of the " Marathon Man", so I understand that I need a little help staying wet... (read in full...)
I feel like such an idiot for being ignored!
Q. I'm really upset. I went on my first date with this guy on Saturday, and it seemed like it went well. We spent twelve hours together in total on Saturday !. I sent him a message on Sunday, saying that i enjoyed the date, and that i looked forward ...
A. 1 February 2012: Nope...Let him contact you! He sounds wishy washy...but if you pursue him...you'll be the one chasing all the time & that's just not attractive in a lady. Allow a man to be a man! If he wants to go out again...he knows your number, email & ... (read in full...)
Dating 3 months, no sex. Shall I leave?
Q. I need some imput. I have a new girlfriend and everything is good except for us not having sex yet. When we started to go out we both agreed that we were going to take things slow, and we have been to this point but Im a man that has needs and I ...
A. 31 January 2012: Sir...you get 2 point for being a "Gentleman" & not rushing into a sexual relationship, but actually getting to know her & fall in love first!
Now...let's keep on the same path...& plan a day to sit down ( not hotel casino night either) & have "Th... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year in march we were talking last night and he mentioned his ex which he does quite often so I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said yes he is now I'm so confused but my question is will he be ...
A. 31 January 2012: The bigger question is...Is He In Love With You? Does he treat you well? Are you happy in the relationship? These are questions that YOU must answer for yourself.
Everybody has a past & it does tend to "Come Up" during the course of a new rela... (read in full...)
He seemed interested and then did a complete 360! What happened here?
Q. I went to our employee christmas party,it was employees only so we were all sorta hanging and mingling with each other,well after a few drinks I was feeling rather comfortable with a coworker guy friend of mine. he and I actually flirted with each ...
A. 31 January 2012: All the other Aunties ( & uncles) hit the nail on the head! He is a "Flirt" and this is what he does. Flirting is fun, its exciting & daring & it also requires NO COMMITTEMENT!
I know it feels good for someone hot, attractive & young to find ... (read in full...)
Wife prefers for us to take care of our own needs rather than have sex
Q. Hi everybody. Wife and I are both around 50 with 4 kids. The youngest is 17. Our sex life is very hit and miss and has been all through our marriage. Her sex drive is low but she masturbates regularly, though she denies that she does it as much as ...
A. 30 January 2012: That would be a big issue for me....if my spouse preferred masturbation over me. A few things to look at:
1. Emotional Detachment- has there been any major issues between u?
Infidelity, loss of attraction, resentment & anger due to... (read in full...)
He is like a light switch
Q. I have been married to a guy who is like a light switch what I mean is one day he will say I love you but the next day he says he doesn't like or love me. When we fight he take the easy way out by taking off for days and then come back and tells me ...
A. 29 January 2012: Yes....you have every right to be uncomfortable, because some of this behavior is NOT OK!
Staying out for days at a time, because of a disagreement or your angry is UNACCEPTABLE! You are married...not boyfriend/girlfriend in high school. ... (read in full...)
I feel knackered and old!
Q. I'm in a very dark place. I feel immense loneliness, empty feelings no matter who I'm with. I'm threatened by evrything. Mainly people preferring other people to me cause my personality is shit even though pple reassure that its not I feel it deep ...
A. 29 January 2012: Don't give up...your worth fighting for! I know you can't see it now, but your life can be a whole lot better, but you have to muster up the courage to make the changes! I'm on your side, but I must give it to you straight: Most pot heads, don't ... (read in full...)
My husband has joined an online dating site
Q. My husband has joined a sex dating site. Should I be worried. Or is it harmless fun?? ...
A. 29 January 2012: RED FLAG!!! Not Good....this behavior will lead to infidelity. He may say its harmless....well let's see how harmless it would be if YOU joined a dating website! This should not be the behavior of any MARRIED man! Don't buy this...its garbage ... (read in full...)
Has my husband's love for me faded?
Q. hi guys. my husband has been leaving on his own outside the country. recently i joined him there. but he doesnt seem happy to be with me. apparently its an isolated place with mostly men there. he has become so harsh with me. always finding fault ...
A. 29 January 2012: It sounds like he is emotionally detached....and that's not a good sign. He is unhappy with your presence because his mind is somewhere else. I say this in love....but your husband may not be completely done with the affair (be it emotionally or ... (read in full...)
Not enough sex in this marriage
Q. I love my wife. We have a great relationship, but no were near enough sex. I personally am up for it anytime anyplace. She also complains about not enough sex, but never initiates it. How can I change these things? ...
A. 29 January 2012: I have the higher sex drive in my relationship & I to, don't feel its enough, however, I want him to initiate it. It makes me feel that he is still attracted to me. That he desires me as much as I desire him, but HE has to initiate it. I will ... (read in full...)
Is this my gut talking or my insecurities?
Q. I have been dating Mr. K for 7 months now and he is pretty great, however, I have some concerns. When I met him, he is was transitioning from California back to Chicago and he was being reinstated with his old job with the police department. ...
A. 29 January 2012: Dougbcol....from a man's perspective, do u buy the "I was embarrassed about my past & didn't want to scare u off so that's why I lied...story?... (read in full...)
Is he using me or...?
Q. I have been dating a younger man for approximately 6 months. He seems to be crazy about me and treats me like a queen around the house. His situation is as follows: he had a break-down approximately 1 year ago after he broke up with the mother ...
A. 28 January 2012: Girlfriend....It is...what it is! Yes, there is some freeloading going on! This is also a lack of knowing how to treat a women of your caliber. If you want to date younger men...be prepared to "Train" them to treat you the way you want to be ... (read in full...)
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