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I have never met anyone like her and she is the one that I want to spend my life with.
Q. I started work about september time and around christmas i started to like this girl who works there. I knew she was goin out with someone else but i talked 2 her friends and they said she doesnt know what she wants and she cant see what an idiot ...
A. 19 February 2008: I dont know...her boyfriend beams with insecurity, jealousy and possessive qualities. In a nutshell...dangerous. Obviously, she would need to make a stand and make a difficult choice. He is probably manipulating her mind with fear. It is ... (read in full...)
Should I fight to be with him or should I listen to my family and find someone else??
Q. Hi, The man that Im with is 20 years older than me and of the opposite race. He is the best thing Ive ever found. He sees that I have a shell around me because Ive been through a lot in my past. He wants me to talk to him, open up to him and let him ...
A. 18 February 2008: I think true love is very hard to come by. If you think you have found that special person than you need to fight to keep it going. Race should never be an issue...in ANYTHING. It is the content of a person's character that really matters. It is ... (read in full...)
I still don't trust him- should I leave?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. It's been rocky the whole time. I've had numerous problems with him and the internet.My first inkling something was wrong was when i found he had been searching for BBW's on my computer. I am hardly A BBW ...
A. 18 February 2008: I believe that trust is the most valuable commodity you can have in a long-term relationship. It is like a warm blanket on a cold night. Security is one thing, but what's the use if you are miserable. I'd rather live in a decrepit house with ... (read in full...)
How can you tell it was rape?
Q. I was 14 when it happened, most people don't believe me, not even my friends. I snuck out of the house to go meet 2 of my girlfriends and two of their guy friends. I had 7 shots, not that many but I passed out in the next 5 mintues. I keep waking u...
A. 18 February 2008: Through my experience in the field of law enforcement, a gynecologist or sex abuse treatment center should be able to determine if penetration was made especially if you are a virgin. Your body is the best indicator of evidence. Aches, pains, and ... (read in full...)
How can I increase confidence in myself and tell her how I feel??
Q. Hi everyone, There is this girl. we've been close, went to a school dance together. That was Saturday. I'm pretty sure she likes me and I know I like her. I want to tell her how I feel but whenever i try there is always something in my way or I...
A. 13 February 2008: Person to Person contact is only one of many ways in which you can express your feelings to another person. There are so many other ways in which you can reach out to her. It could be a love letter, a note with a flower, or a poem. Be creative in ... (read in full...)
She gives me mixed signals, I'm confused
Q. Looking for any advise here, I'm really confused. And sorry this is long, I like to ramble, and there is a long ish back story. I met a girl about 3 weeks ago when I was out with friends. There was an amazing attraction between us both straight aw...
A. 13 February 2008: I dont know how far its gone...but I think there is still away to get her back. It will depend on your tenacity. Have you ever heard the saying..."Girls say they want a "nice guy", but in reality they want an "Ape". I conferred this with many ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to try and make this work again??
Q. I've recently started seeing someone for two weeks. It felt like we relly clicked and had alot in common. We spent alot of time together and opened up about our past to each other, including our past relationships. I found out he is a very insecure...
A. 13 February 2008: I can't understand why you would want to be with him. Let him go...you are obviously better without him. He does not respect you. Respect is 1/3 of what a loving relationship needs. I am sure one day you will come across someone who will adore ... (read in full...)
Does he miss ME or having girl company?
Q. hey aunts Just wondering, how do you know if you're over your ex boyfriend? I mean, we were dating for 2 years and after 2 days of crying I stopped.. it was only when I really really thought about him which made me sad.. Then even though he ...
A. 13 February 2008: My question would be...Aren't you glad you left him? The way he talks to you is...I don't know...RUDE! Don't you think? Do you really want to be with someone who treats you like that? I mean we may all differ about opinions, but intimidating, ... (read in full...)
I finally got free.
Q. I finally broke up with my emotionally abusive ex. But why didn't I break up with him at the times where it was really ugly between us-like when he was being unreasonable and getting mad at me because I wouldn't smoke or get drunk (which I don't do ...
A. 13 February 2008: Good job! I think some people stay in an abusive relationship because they think he or she will eventually change. But, the majority of the times it is the factor of control. He probably had such a emotional and psychological grip on you that it ... (read in full...)
What do people think of this age gap??
Q. ... Hi. I am a forty (40) year old male and I am seeing a 52 year old woman for companionship. I am a partially sighted male and she has cp. "Cerabal Palsy".... We met for a meeting on Friday. What I would like to know is, what do you thin...
A. 13 February 2008: When it comes to adulthood, I don't think it matters much. In fact (12) years is nothing. I know couples who have an age gap of 23 years and they are the most happiest couples around. Good Luck!!!... (read in full...)
I feel like I have made a fool of myself...and there is an age gap too...what should I do??
Q. Im 16 i have been talkin to this guy online; i added him on facebook. Anyway, his profile said 20 but i thought i'd add him anyway. Somehow theres been an error in my account and its been displaying me as 19. We got talking and really clicked....
A. 13 February 2008: Okay, in your case I would say that your parents would probably flip out. Normally when you reach adulthood it is a little more tolerated. Besides, age is just a number under those circumstances. I know couples who have an age gap of 10, 15, and ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of men!
Q. Why do they always have to lead you on then break your heart? Please answer me that. I totally changed who I am for this guy. The way we met was weird but we've been seeing each other since August. Now he's been seeing some lassie(who is a total ...
A. 13 February 2008: I know your frustration...I hate men too...and I'm a Man. They are inconsiderate, no good, arrogant, smelly, self-centered sluts. But, you gotta admit...you love them...don't you? Isn't there a saying...Women say they want a "nice" guy, but in ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel really sad???
Q. Can somebody help me? I really don't know what's up with me. I feel so low and empty. I find myself wishing I could make everybody around me happy, to see them content - I know this is an impossible wish. Over the last 3 years my strong and bubb...
A. 13 February 2008: I'm not sure if it the same thing, but I once had an experience similar to yours. Does it feel like a black cloud just hovers over your head and nothing excites you anymore? Is your heart so heavy that the only comfort at times is to lie down in a ... (read in full...)
Did I miss my chance with him?
Q. Over a year ago, I split with my ex. It tore me up pretty bad, and left me really out of focus. Not long after I met Mike, he was fantastic, atractive and it seemed like well, too good to be true to be honest. I pushed him away I suppose and over ...
A. 13 February 2008: This story reminds me of that movie "My Best Friends Wedding" Don't you think? I believe that everything happens for a reason. Sometimes we just need to let our "fate" slowly take its course. It is when we force things that all hell breaks loose. ... (read in full...)
Can depression make him cold towards his family?
Q. My husband has suffered from depression off and on for some years but over the last year it has got worse to the point where he wants to be alone all the time and says he is not sure he loves me any more and wants to get a flat on his own. Can ...
A. 13 February 2008: Depression can be very traumatic situation. It is like a black cloud just follows you where ever you go. Your heart is so heavy that nothing excites you anymore whether it be family, friends, or special hobbies. It isolates them from the world ... (read in full...)
I want to send him a card for his Birthday, should I?
Q. Okay, so I like this boy that I do theater with in my town. We're friends and don't go to the same school, but I really fancy him. I want to send him a card for his birthday, but I'm not sure if this is strange. Also, I want to instant message him ...
A. 13 February 2008: I vote...send him the card. I think guys nowadays appreciate girls being a little assertive. That is, if he is decent. How many girls do you think will be sending him a birthday card. I can tell you now...probably no one. You would definitely ... (read in full...)
Why is my old school friend chasing me on the net, he's married
Q. Okay, so this guy I've known since high school and fell in love with, but we only went on one date and slept in the same bed one night spooning, started AIMing me the other night. I haven't really talked to him in two years, and since then, he has ...
A. 13 February 2008: I'm glad you stuck to your morals. What a loser. Sorry, but I think he's demented. Considering that you are pondering this question, you are a better person than he is. He doesn't deserve your time.... (read in full...)
I feel out of place to ask him if he's still with her, but I really need to know. Please help
Q. Me and my ex have been broken up for about 7 months now, but are still good friends. He invited me over his house a week ago we had a little drink, and he admitted he was close to kissing me, I don't know if he's still with his current girlfriend so ...
A. 12 February 2008: Okay, he wants to be physical with you; he doesn't call you unless it is out of his convenience; he mentions her name to you; and he is still going out with that other girl. For me, the extent of any physical interaction between a man and a woman ... (read in full...)
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