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writes:Hi, The man that Im with is 20 years older than me and of the opposite race. He is the best thing Ive ever found. He sees that I have a shell around me because Ive been through a lot in my past. He wants me to talk to him, open up to him and let him inside and get to know me. He loves listening to me and he wants to take care of me. He is what every women wants. He's amazing! Im white and he is P.Rican! My family doesnt want us together manily becaue of his race..the age is a big step but somethig they can get over. So theres one problem. Should I fight to be with him or should I listen to my family and find someone else??My other question is I think his penis may be small. Im not really sure how to explaine this but when were fooling around...fingering, oral ect.I can have an orgams just fine. But the other day he hut his penis in my vagina for the first time and it didnt do anything for me. When I do him I always that he had a good size. This was my first time having sex in this way so maybe Im just not doing something right. We tried diffrent positions but I couldnt even tell it was in me I was just lying there while he moved.My second question is is it me or does he have a small penis?? If this is a problem then what do I do?? Do I tell him whats going on or just suck it up and make sure I get his fingers when I want it..lol..?? And if it is a problem then how do I make sure I stay pleased?Sorry its so long! I hope somone out there can help me!! ThanksME
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reader, MIss_congeniality  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 HI first of all if this guy means alot to you then your family will just have to accept it, maybe it could turn out that your family are right and he was no good for you, but they have to let you live a life and let you make your own mistakes, but somehow i think that you both really like eachother and that you want wants best for eachother.HAs for his penis situation ;) lol, well you will find that most guys penises are small, is the penis erect before he his inserting it because if it isnt then you wont feel anything, the other thing may be that he isnt pleasuring you enough before he enters you, e.g maybe fingering you or arousing you to turn you on, if a woman isnt properly turned on and a little wet before the penis enters it can cause no sensation.Try lots of foreplay first and get into the mood, sex can be very fun, experiment and dont rush it, has for his penis i think its normal you just both need to heat it up abit. maybe an handjob or b-j or just generally whispering sweet naughtys in his ears. You will figure it out, good luck
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reader, ifsa +, writes (18 February 2008):
 wow the guy is 20 years older than u hey if u love the guy then be with him your family shuldnt treat ur bf y dont u invite him over for dinner so ur pearants can get to know him better and about his penis y dont u talk about his penis lol i have heard u can get tablets which make your penis bigger lol try surfing the net for it lol good luck
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reader, Kawika +, writes (18 February 2008):
 I think true love is very hard to come by. If you think you have found that special person than you need to fight to keep it going. Race should never be an issue...in ANYTHING. It is the content of a person's character that really matters. It is how He loves and treats you that matters the most. As for your lovemaking situation...I think you need to be open with Him about it. I hope this helps...
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