I don't want to disappoint my late Mother, but my father is out of control.
Q. Hey guys I need some advice on what to do! My mum died back in early 2007 and although we weren't really close, I still really miss her. Anyway, after she died my dad moved back in who had left when I was about six and at first me and my sisters ...
A. 23 November 2008: I'm not sure how the legal system works in your country and what recourse you may have, but regardless it is not fair of your father to disrupt your life and your sister's with drinking and drug use. Talk to someone you trust about this ... (read in full...)
Is college supposed to be this lonely?
Q. Im in my second year of college and I have never beeb so lonely in my life. I know people but I feel I have no REAL friends that I can depend on. I had a best friend last year who I always partied with and stuff but we had a falling out becuase of ...
A. 23 November 2008: I honestly think some of that is the nature of college. I definitely felt similarly when I was a freshman/sophomore several years ago. You go from having fairly small classes of 25-30 people (most of whom you probably already know) in high school, ... (read in full...)
Am I stupid and not seeing something that I should?
Q. Dear all, My recent attempts for help have failed so i have come back another time for help. met the dreamgirl of my life, the problem was she had a really popular boyfriend. I have always had popular friends but im not that good lookin...
A. 23 November 2008: You don't say what went wrong in your relationship, or if you two are still together. That's fine, but know that if none of the factors that caused the breakup (if there was one, or falling-out if there was not) have changed, efforts to make things ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want to be pregnant at 15?
Q. Is it normal to want to be pregnant at 15?...
A. 23 November 2008: From an evolutionary standpoint, yes. The onset of menstruation is a sign that your body is biologically ready to have a child. Women throughout history started having children at much earlier ages than is common today; it's only as our life ... (read in full...)
Playing safe in love or in a relationship?
Q. how will you define the quotation "playing safe in love or in a relationship"?...
A. 23 November 2008: Context is everything and I don't know the idioms of your country, but I would interpret this as not becoming too emotionally attached to the other person, possibly out of the fear of being hurt. "Playing safe" on a more literal level could also... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a 13 yr old to date a 19 yr old?
Q. Is it wrong for a 13yo girl to be dating a 19yo guy that lives over seas? I love him to death, but i want other peoples point of view. No my parents dont know about him-im not supposed to date. I have been with some one that was 14....it didnt work ...
A. 23 November 2008: It's not "wrong," but not everyone you mention it to will agree with your choice. The main concern with such an age difference is usually that older boys dating young girls are more mature physically and hormonally, and may pressure the young girls ... (read in full...)
We can't afford to break up!
Q. I've lived with my long term boyfriend for a good few years. We do have a lot of problems that have come up over the course of that time, I've discovered we're very different people, with very different priorities. The spark may not completely have ...
A. 23 November 2008: You know the situation better than anyone here...be honest with yourself. If you have stayed with this person only because of your financial interdependence, you're in the relationship for the wrong reasons. Look at it this way: you can't afford to ... (read in full...)
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