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I'm Kat

I'm 16

I'm from Liverpool, England and I love the place!

I have divoirced parents but live with my mum, who I hate.

I'm bisexual

I'm generally pretty unlucky in love

I am too trusting in people

I'm generallu quite lucky in the grades I get, but i could do better if I did more work, granted.

Thats me, feel free to PM me :D

I want to gain weight. but don't know how. I'm tired of being so skinny.

Q.   I know this is not the type of question 2 ask,,,but i really need your help....i need your advice on what pill to take to make me gain weight...am just sick and tired of being so skinny!!!...

A.   5 March 2010: Pill? I didn't know there were any get-fat pills... though going on the pill (as in the contraceptive) can make you gain weight... I have the same problem I have a really low body fat percentage but unfortunately my dance teacher wont let me put ... (read in full...)

I have a phobia of talking on phones!

Q.   I hope this question doesn't come across as pathetic, as it is a genuine problem. I have a phobia of talking on phones, i've done a little research and have come across other people who have the same fear. I'm okay with talking to some of my close...

A.   2 February 2010: Hey :) I just want to point something out, phobia of talking on phones is actually pretty common, especially in todays society, so you are not alone! I have a fear of talking on phones, generally if its an important call then I get my mates to take ... (read in full...)

How can I stop being gay?

Q.   I need help!!..Long story short Im 20yo n have had a pretty normal life..well.. I am gay.. but I hate it..I wish I wasnt gay. I dont know why or at what point in my life I became this way... Id like to know why I turned gay.. think about it all the ...

A.   31 January 2010: Sorry hun, but being gay is biological, you cant "turn gay", and you cant "turn straight" either. I know it truly is hard to accept, I went through months and months of hating myself... but now I've come to accept it. And just because you're g... (read in full...)

I am crushing on my same sex friend

Q.   I'm 14, female, and bisexual. So, I guess you could say I've totaly fallen for my closest friend who's a girl. I've fallen hard too, because I've never liked someone this much, ever. When me and her hang out together by ourselves I am fine, I can ...

A.   14 January 2010: First you need to find out what way shes orientated sexually. I have recently been through the same thing with my best friend, about a year ago I realised I was gay and that I liked her, she told me she was bi and about six months later I told her I ... (read in full...)

Why does my wife eat egg shells and tiny rocks?

Q.   my wife craves and eats tiny rocks and egg shells. any ideas why? ...

A.   10 November 2009: Maybe she has calcuim or mineral deficiency? Some people eat chalk for the same reason, try taking minerals, see if the cravings sease, if not go the doctor :)... (read in full...)

Do you think I've upset or offended her???

Q.   Hey there, last week i asked my best friend out (we're both girls and bi). She's known how i feel about her for about 6 months now, and she said she loved me back, but when i asked her out, she said no. this sort of crushed me and the last week ive ...

A.   1 November 2009: Thanks for the advice but she text me this morning saying happy birthday so all is well, we've been back to normal since, thanks forthe advice though :D... (read in full...)

I'm 14, have had one abortion with complications, and I think I may be preganant again!

Q.   Well im 14 yrs old and will be 15 February 3rd. I am in a relationship going on a year january 3rd and had an abortion september 1st. For my follow up ii was told that there was a blood clot left in my stomach ! ii believe they got it out but the ...

A.   11 October 2009: You're only a kid, respect your body! Quit shagging! OR at least use a condom! Jeez!... (read in full...)

Shattered and Lost!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I'm about to graduate high school and, unlike my classmates, I am dreading it! When I was 13 I was kidnapped and abused, I also suffered from amnesia for 5 years. I didn't remember anything about my family or even my last name. I end...

A.   11 October 2009: Hey :d You haven't seen your parents for 5 years, they dont know you! Do what you want! Marry your fiance! Do whats best for you, you deserve it, you've had a hard life, so just something for yourself! Your parents wont want to lose thei... (read in full...)

I'm bi but I can't seem to show affection to the girl I am attracted to.

Q.   Ok basically, me and my best friend are both bi and we both have feelings for eachother. we're both 15, girls and too shy to try anything. The other day she told me she loved me, and i love her back but I dont know what to do about it, or if i ...

A.   4 August 2009: i am most certainly NOT confused, i am definately gay and i love her to bits, and i'd love for something to happen between us, im just not sure how to go about it. Its both of our first lesbian relationships, and her first real relationship ever, ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my friend and I think she likes me too, how should I go about this?

Q.   Im so confused, i need help. Im 15, gay, and Im in love with my best friend, have been now for about 9 months. She used to say she was bi, then straight, then she didnt know and just yesterday she said she was bi again. My friends reckon she likes ...

A.   9 July 2009: oh she knows im gay, she helped me come out, cant reply properly now and she knows i like her, anyway off to school but thanks :)... (read in full...)

Will we ever be more than just friends?

Q.   So, I am a girl and so is this person I am completely inlove with. I am bi and she says she is straight. I've known her for 2 and a half years but have actually been talking to her for 4 months or so. I told her "I kinda like love you" but that was ...

A.   29 June 2009: If shes straight then probably not. Im in love with my best friend and shes confused about her sexuality, and thats been hard on me, especially when shes rejected me but i live by the rule now that if shes straight or says shes straight its a no! ... (read in full...)

How can we stay safe?

Q.   Right, me and my mate and her friend (all of us 15) are going to a gig next weekend. The problem is its abour 200 miles away and we'd have to stay overnight on the street. We really want to go and we've planned the train journey and we have the ...

A.   12 May 2009: we have looked at hostels and hotels but we just cant afford it. tbh, im scared sh*tless. im petrified something will happen but if i dont go, my other friends will go anyway and it would be even worse with just 2 of them, i cant let that happen. ... (read in full...)

Who do I choose...my wife or my lover?

Q.   I ended up having an affair due to lack of affection from my wife. I know I was wrong and I take full responsibility for my actions. Obviously, I wasn't looking for affection, it just grew from a friendship to an emotional level, which turned ...

A.   28 March 2009: Hey, Im a 15 year old girl and 12 years ago my dad was in the same place as you are. In the end he left my mum, and me and my brother (i was 3, he was 5) and now lives with his lover. I see my dad 3 times a week, and im perfctly fine with ... (read in full...)

I don't know why I'm so jealous!

Q.   Help me! I don't know why I'm so jealous! Im 15, bi and really fancy my best friend. She knows i like her but she doesnt like me that way. however, i find myself really jelous when my other best friend goes round to hers, or shopping with ...

A.   15 March 2009: Didn't I mention she is also bi, and we have messed around a bit in the past? This is definatly not my first crush, ive known i was gay since I was 11! I give her loads of space, Ive stopped hanging round with her at lunch and stuff, because I know ... (read in full...)

All my friends have boyfriends, I feel so unloved because I never had one!

Q.   I feel so left out! All of my friends yes all of them have boyfriends and I don't and I've never had a boyfriend. It's never really bothered me before but it's really starting to affect my self esteem I feel that it has to be something physically ...

A.   22 February 2009: This has worked for me: Dont aim to get a boyfriend, just aim to make as many male friends as you can. They dont need to have a physical attraction to you, but over time, if you treat them well, they'll fall in love with YOU, your personal... (read in full...)

I think there is something between us..how do I tell her?

Q.   Well, Im 15, bi and recently came out to my friends. One of my friends I am really close to (lets call her X), and I really fancy her and months ago she said she was bi, but then told our other friend that she was not. Then, a few minutes after I ...

A.   21 February 2009: Thanks, but no, she is definatly bi. Also, shes is obsessed with gay men and anything/body gay. We're really good friends and i dont wanna risk our friendship, so i just want to find out if anyone else thinks she likes me before I try anything ... (read in full...)

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