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female
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30-35,
*odaii
writes:Ok basically, me and my best friend are both bi and we both have feelings for eachother. we're both 15, girls and too shy to try anything. The other day she told me she loved me, and i love her back but I dont know what to do about it, or if i should do anything about it! i really think i love this girl and i know that she loves me, but we just cant seem to try anything, we're both to scared. i mean id really like to just hold her hand and even hug her but i stop myself, im used to stopping myself but i cant seem to brake the habit now that its acceptable to do that. i hug my straight friends which makes it wierder. Any help? thanks :)
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reader, love-x-him +, writes (6 August 2009):
 Hey,,
Ive been in this situation when i was your age, it started at 14. I believe the first thing you both need to do is sit down next to each other and hold hands. When you are saying bye to each other, hug? When you are more confident with each other, you could walk in public holding hands, it'l either make u feel great or worried of reactions. Dont worry about anything else, as it'l happen when u are both happy and a way to help speed it up, is if u are both relaxed and the main thing is to talk about what u both want. It may be awkward at first ( hugging etc or others ,,) But it does get easier.
Hope i helped :) x
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reader, sugar_sugar  +, writes (4 August 2009):
 Honestly if a male teenager had posted that he wasnt able to show the girl he liked affection would anyone suggest he was confused about his sexuality? I think that's a bit unfair.It can be difficult as a teenager to show someone you care. Since it is an issue that both of you seem to be having perhaps you should talk to each other and plan to hold hands. Once you talk these things through and do them more often it will become more comfortable to do it without having to discuss it first.
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reader, jodaii +, writes (4 August 2009):
jodaii is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am most certainly NOT confused, i am definately gay and i love her to bits, and i'd love for something to happen between us, im just not sure how to go about it. Its both of our first lesbian relationships, and her first real relationship ever, we're just both shy and not sure about how to go about it. Im just asking for advice on that
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