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Is it just my BF or are girls on top a turn-on for most guys?

Q.   Hey, I gots a question for the fellas! I just lost my virginity to my bf of two years last week. Any way it was the biggest turn on for him that I took the initiative to be the one on the top lol I guess it took ...

A.   20 February 2009: yes it feels really good to be feeling all that pleasure without having to do any work for it!... (read in full...)

We met online, he says he wants to have sex and then marry me in 3 years, do I believe him?

Q.   me and this guy met on orkut (Social networking and discussion site )and we have been knowin each other by communicating by phone since last year..havent seen each other bfore.. he says he likes me and i also like him..he says he love me 60% but as f...

A.   20 February 2009: you should get to know him better before you rush into any hasty decisions. once you know him well enough to be sure what your both going to do then you can find out whether his love is true.... (read in full...)

Is it possible to stay friends with my ex now I know he has feelings for me?

Q.   I told my ex i still have feelings for him this tuesday,he sed he kinda worked it out for himself. He tried 2 give me reasons why i shudn't still like him sayin we didn't have much of a relationship etc which left me so upset, because he did not say ...

A.   19 February 2009: if hes doing that then yes he is confused too. he might not want to get to close to you incase he makes it even more confusing maybe? this is just my opinion from experiance. just be patient and see what happens... (read in full...)

How to get a vibrator?

Q.   I have a question. Can somebody tell me how to get a vibrator? Because it is boring fingering myself, and i dont want to use my sisters' one. ...

A.   19 February 2009: just use your sisters one....you might wanna wash it... (read in full...)

I broke up with him twice but can't help feeling I've made a terrible mistake!

Q.   I'm 16, almost 17. I live several hours away from my now ex-boyfriend. We met each other through a friend who had moved down from her old town to where I live. We made friends and chatted over the phone every night, and after a few months he took a ...

A.   19 February 2009: of course you dont want to get over him. ur not supposed to want that but moving on is the best thing to do... (read in full...)

How can I top his gift???

Q.   Please I'm desperate, tomorrow is the girl of my dreams birthday and I love her so much. I got her a birthday present for tomorrow but my friend who goes to a different school is skipping school and coming to where me and her go to school to suprise ...

A.   19 February 2009: give her the gifts and take her out . have one of those sunset beautiful view romantic moment things.... (read in full...)

Advice needed! Do I follow my head or my heart?

Q.   My brain is telling me to say "goodbye", but my heart is not onboard. I have been seeing my "boyfriend" for 6 months. We had a rocky start. I had a drunken psycho moment. Then we kinda moved past it. We dont see eachother that often. He tells ...

A.   19 February 2009: give it more time. wait to find out what is happening. once your sure about where it is going then decide wat your going to do. but dont expect him to think the same way.... (read in full...)

He got me nowt for my birthday and I'm upset about it.

Q.   I planned a great vday for my boyfriend of almost 3 years... he had so much fun and so did I but it really bothers me I didn't get a gift this year... he has always gotten me one. Should I really be upset he didn't get me anything? I mean I didn't ...

A.   19 February 2009: If gifts dont matter to you why are you upset? He probably thinks that he doesn't need to give you gifts for you to love him which he shouldn't. You're making a big deal out of nothing.... (read in full...)

Should I have a baby? Or not?

Q.   When my mom was 16 she had her first child. which was my older brother who is now 32 and got a 7 month old baby of his own, which is my neice and he has a wife. I am now 16, 17 in september and I have been suffering from depression since I was 13 ...

A.   19 February 2009: do you not think that your to young to handle a baby? if you want a baby that badly and if you think you can cope then you shouldnt need to ask anyone elses opinion (except your boyfriend).... (read in full...)

Should I surprise him and give him a BJ while we're out?!?

Q.   Ok, so tonight I'm going out to the movies with my boyfriend. He called me late last night at work to tell me he was feeling soooo horny! I thought it was cute. And I didn't let him know, but I wanted him so bad!! We haven't had sex just yet. And ...

A.   19 February 2009: how can you even ask that? yes it would be a turn on!! he might have even been hinting at it by telling you he was horny. if your ok with doing that then you should!... (read in full...)

We don't have anything to talk about!

Q.   ive just got a new boyfriend yesterday and weve pretty much proved we love eachother but weve realised that we dont have anything to talk about! what do i do? P.S dont give me any sexuality advice i dnt want any....

A.   17 February 2009: lol weve loved eachother for a while but we started seeing eachother yesterday.... (read in full...)

Erection painful?

Q.   my friend - and i do mean my friend im not stupid enough to say its my friend when its really me so MY FRIEND told me that ever since he started masturbating his penis gets so erect that it is painful so does anyone have any explanation as to why ...

A.   13 February 2009: he tried not to masturbate because it hurts him so its not overworked.... (read in full...)

Still haven't had my cycle yet and I'm beginning to fear I'm pregnant.

Q.   Hello I'm 14 years old and I had sex with my boyfriend on January 15 2009 and today is January 30 2009 and I still haven't had a cycle. I'm starting to feel a little different. I really believe I am pregant. Yes I have told my boyfriend and he is ...

A.   30 January 2009: Go to a doctor. If you don't want to tell anyone get a pregnancy test. If you feel different it could just be psychological.... (read in full...)

I'm worried I can't get pregnant.

Q.   I have been off my pill for 6 months and I am 20, still get periods, me and my partner have sex 3 times a week maybe more but I am worried I can't get pregnant any more. I did when I was 17 and I really didn't think it was right at the time but now ...

A.   29 January 2009: if you still have periods it means your body is still preparing itself to carry a baby so it should mean that you can get pregnant. as for the sex thing im not sure but you might want to see a doctor to clear things up.... (read in full...)

Sex games?

Q.   First I'm gay and I don't want any annoying advice on it, I get enough of it already. I'm meeting and going camping with him soon and he wants to play some sex games and I want to look like I know what I'm doing (even though I don't 0_0) any advice ...

A.   29 January 2009: I meant to say I'm meeting up wiv my boyfriend and going camping with him soon.... (read in full...)

Is it realistic to think we could stay in love and get married eventually?

Q.   Is it possible to love someone since a teenager until marriage? Well that's how I feel, I really love her and she really loves me but I'm afraid there will be something bad happen on our way in the future and the thing is how do I go through if ...

A.   29 January 2009: of course it is possible to stay in love. and if you keep thinking bout things tht will happen ull forget bout wats happening now so just enjoy wat u have... (read in full...)

Does she still like him and just want me for sex, or does she love me and just wants to really be friends with him??

Q.   I met this chick during summer school last year and we totally hit it off. Before school was out, I asked her if she wanted to hook up and have some fun, she enthusiasticaly agreed and so we got together. I really found her attractive and really ...

A.   29 January 2009: sorry but she only wants you for sex. to her just someone to help her blow off steam. you need to find someone else hu will love you bac. break up wiv her and no matter wat she says dnt change your mind... (read in full...)

Help me choose between two men!

Q.   Please help me chose between these 2 men, I feel like I love both of them. Please dont judge me, I really need some perspective on this. Man A Healthy Own House Car Car License Great Job Rather Anti-Social Independent Stubborn Funny W...

A.   28 January 2009: well i wud pick B as long as u get him off the drugs. lol i know im young but im gay and i wud say i had taste lol. A seems to me like a typical everyday slob but just has money.... (read in full...)

How do I help my girlfriend stop blaming herself for bad sex and start blaming the GUY?

Q.   My girl friend met a guy and a party and began dating him - he pressured her for sex. After a couple weeks she gave in because he said all the right things and she trusted him. Once he got what he wanted he dumped her. She moved on to me - and ...

A.   28 January 2009: as cruel as it sounds... 4 simple words......"shell get over it" all she needs is a companion to help her through this and just keep trying to get throught to her and eventually shell open up to u. i know im a 14 yr old guy but i know bout this ... (read in full...)

I fell in love over MSN but he doesn't return my feelings.

Q.   i fell in love wiv some guy over msn (i didnt know him but i couldnt help it) and when i told him i loved him he sed he loved me to. he likes it when i flirt wiv him but a few days later he told me to stop thinking of him in tht way and, like i sed ...

A.   28 January 2009: btw hes 14 and a friend of a friend and i know i am gay he wants to stay friends wiv me... (read in full...)

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