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I fancy a girl at school but don't know what to do!
Q. i fancy this girl. we dont know each other. we only met once before properly where we had a good chat and got on well with each other! otherwise at school i just say hi. how can i ask her out? when? shall i get her number? but i cant phone her? ...
A. 25 October 2006: Ok mate, I would suggest getting to know a bit more about her first. You only say hi because you have no reason to converse on any subject, you need to get a subject.
Find out what shes into and what she enjoys, the research it so that you know... (read in full...)
His mom's death is making my boyfriend seem distant! Help!
Q. My boyfriend is 30 years old and he has 5 siblings but have to take care of 2 younger ones after his mother’s death 5 months ago who died tragically. I understand it is a great loss to get over I had lost my father too so I know how it feels like ...
A. 25 October 2006: I think you are doing the right thing, by trying to be there for him, in this respect you need to be patient. People all have different ways of dealing with the loss of a loved one.
I would not expect him to be giving alot of attension and it m... (read in full...)
While on a cruise I cheated on my boyfriend...I don't know what to do!!!!
Q. I have a huge problem. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he even had gone through stages where he broke up with me and wanted to have sex with another woman. He did not do it and we worked it out. We have had many ups and downs, one of ...
A. 24 October 2006: You need to ask yourself the rocking chair question! Years from now when you are an old lady, sat in a rocking chair looking back on your life, what do you think would make you make you happiest knowing you had done?
To me is sounds like your boy... (read in full...)
What kind of teasing do boys so when they fancy you???
Q. hiya i wanna know if this boy fancies me, he brushes past me delibratly in the corridor, he pokes my cheek for some reason hehe when i pass him, he teases me constently (by the way what kind of teasing do boys do when they fancy you???) ...
A. 24 October 2006: Boy do any type of teasing, they will do what ever gets you attension. This sounds like he is interested in you, atleast I would be shocked if he isnt. He would prob deny it if you asked, just to not feel vunerable. The main question is do you like ... (read in full...)
How can he really be over the relationship after just 2 days???
Q. Is it really that possible for my ex to get over our serious relationship after 2 days after we broke up? The day after we broke up a friend of ours said that you could tell that he was bummed but 2 days later he acted like there was nothing wron...
A. 24 October 2006: The first thing that would need addressing is if you were both so 'bummed' about the split, why did you??
When guys split with their girlfriends, in general, they do get upset, but the help of friends help you to deal with it and keep your min... (read in full...)
He has issues with bigger girls...are we just friends or is he trying to get over the fact I'm a 16???
Q. I have a guy friend that i like but he has issues with bigger girls, we spend 90% of our time together and the other 10% on the phone talking. He says that we are just friends but i get different vibes, he flirts and I stay at his house alot ...
A. 24 October 2006: If he hasnt made any advances on you then it is likely that he does just want friendship. Size 16 is not big, and if he has to deal with your size then he wouldnt be worth the effort anyway.
Think, if he did get with you, and you truly believe ... (read in full...)
I'll feel more confident if I get bigger breasts...do breast enlarging pills work???
Q. i've really small boobs i measure 34AA they're really small, it's like nothing but a nipple because i'm really thin. should i take breast enlarging pills? which ones work better? pills or creams? i'm only 17 though maybe it'll grow but i'm getting ...
A. 24 October 2006: Firstly I would suggest not talking anything until you are atleast 18-20, just so that your body has had enough time to grow properly, before you try to alter it.
Im not very clued up on the pills, but I do know some women that have tried them wit... (read in full...)
He wants me to give him and handjob...how long do I do this for???
Q. iv been seeing this boy for about 5 months now and he has asked if i would give him a hand job which im completely comfortable with, i nearly gave one boy one before but we got interupted so my only question is how long do i do it for? too short and ...
A. 24 October 2006: The amount of time you should do a handjob for would be totally down to you and him. You should try and watch his face and reactions, you can generally tell when its time to finish.
Most men like to ejactualate when getting a handjob, this is ... (read in full...)
I don't love him anymore but he is the only good thing is my life...would it be wrong to get back with him???
Q. 2 Weeks ago my bf and I agreed to break it off. I agreed because I thought that he was the reason that i was never happy anymore, and i felt as though I had lost my identity. We've been single for 2 weeks and after the initial 3 days or so when I ...
A. 24 October 2006: If you feel that you could love him again, do you believe it would be for the right reasons.
You should question what made your relationship fail the first time, and if it could happen again. If you believe this is a high possiblity then its most... (read in full...)
I asked him the 'status' of our relationship...I wonder-am I pressuring him too much?
Q. Hi there, I have been feeling rather down in the dumps as I have been seeing a guy for nearly 2 months. Got drunk and asked the status of 'us' everything a guy dreads! He didn;t want to discuss it and I feel this could have made him not as inter...
A. 24 October 2006: If things are still the same between you, he still makes you believe that hes interested and he hasnt gone off with anyone else, the I would believe that the chances are his feelings havnt changed.
It might be worth attempting to get him to discu... (read in full...)
Would letting him know my true feelings...backfire on me?
Q. I have a really good relationship with a guy, we are not going out, but see each other up to 3 times a week and talk via text and on the phone every single day. He knows I have feelings for him, and has confessed to my close friend that really ...
A. 24 October 2006: I think the situation is just waiting for one of you to make the first move. I believe the best thing you can do is talk to him about how you feel rather the talking to other people.
If you are both interested in each other, then it wont make any... (read in full...)
When we are together I don't like her but when we are apart I can't stop thinking about her!!!
Q. I dated a girl about a year ago. We dated for about a month then she broke up with me. I didn't learn till about four months later that she thought we were going to fast and that she liked me still. Instead of fogiving her I ended up going out with ...
A. 23 October 2006: Sounds like your not sure what you want, or to be more accurate, your not sure what your looking for. Its easy to think about all the good things when your not with someone and all the bad things when your with them simply because its what you wan... (read in full...)
Are these calls on the mobile to another woman?
Q. I was in a relationship for four years. Last month my fiance broke ur relationship. I dont' know what to do. We have being argueing for the past years and a half. We kept telling each other that we were going to change and we never did. However, ...
A. 20 October 2006: I think the best thing you can do is just leave him to it and move on. It would appear that hes got you right where he wants you, he knows you would do anything for him, and he is using that to his advantage.
The best thing to do is to just wal... (read in full...)
After 3 hours of talking to her..I have feelings for her. How do I get to know her better?
Q. i met this girl who my mates birthday for the first time. and we had a good chat in the restuarant and she sat with me in cinema. she was so sweet. well i have discovered just after 3hours of knowing her i have feelings for her. she is 14 i'm 16. i ...
A. 20 October 2006: Firstly there is nothing wrong with her thinking that you are interested, if she thinks you are not then things are more likely to fail.
You should just mension that you enjoyed the cinema and the day you had, possibly talking about the film wou... (read in full...)
I love this guy and now that he's dumped his gf..I thought we'd hook up! But he's playing mindgames..why is he doing this?
Q. hello i was just wonderin if yew could help yew see ive fallen really madley in love with this great boy and hes only pretty much just seen how much i love him after 1 year ! lol so he finally realised that he had feelings for me to so he dumped his ...
A. 12 October 2006: Hes obviously a jeliously freak. He wants to make u jelious so that he feels more wanted, and the more you react the more he will do it.
Im willing to be that if you done the same and flirted with another bloke, he'd get jelious too.
Try to ... (read in full...)
My bf's family keep bringing up his ex's name and it hurts! Why do they do that?
Q. Why is it that other family members from your partner's side always brings a little bit of your partner's past up in front of you when it were from 13 years ago it really bugs me as its not to do with me and it hurts me to hear the exs name. ...
A. 11 October 2006: Dont let it get to you. Just think hes not with her hes with you, and them talking bout her isnt going to change that.
They may just be doing it subconciously, as you are new to the family relationships will be the hot topic. If you just give it ... (read in full...)
She was size 10-12... But she can't stay away from cakes and chocolate and her weight has ballooned and I don't find her attractive!
Q. Im 21 and i've been with my partner for just over 4 years now. We've been together since we were 17 and i think we have a good relationship, but i feel very unattracted to her now. when we 1st got together she was a size 10-12 now she is a size 16+ ...
A. 11 October 2006: I can understand that this is causing problems in the relationship. Everyone when in a relationship subconciously evens the score, even tho they are not aware of it. When you got together the scores were even, now she has stop with trying to look ... (read in full...)
How can I make losing my virginity less painful?
Q. I am 15 and I am still a virgin I no it is against the law to have sex before you are 16 but my 2 best mates are having sex and have been since I have known them I think I am ready to have sex but I carnt help but keep thinking it is going to really ...
A. 11 October 2006: I would say you do need to be with someone that you really care for, dont just do it because you think you may be ready, make sure its with someone that you care about. You can only lose you viginity once, make it one that you can be happy with ... (read in full...)
How can you get over somebody who you still want so badly?
Q. How can I get over a guy that I love? We started dating, then we broke up as he began to ignore me. He then got back in contact, i did as much as i knew to see if he was serious about trying again and so we started seeing each other again. He...
A. 11 October 2006: I would suggest firstly talking to him, and making him aware of the situation. If he knows exactly how you feel he has the opportunity to do something about it, and he may change to become more like the boyfriend you want.
I this fails. Its good... (read in full...)
Boyfriend really upsets me with his teasing. Am I taking this too seriously?
Q. I’ve always been led to believe that teasing is one of the ways a guy will show you he likes you, but tonight my boyfriend was teasing me so much I almost ended up in tears. I would have called it borderline bullying. I have been feeling a little ...
A. 11 October 2006: Ok, the reason he is now treating you like this is for two reasons:
1, he craves you attension. He is getting more of an reaction from you by talking to you like this, even tho it has brought you to tears it upsets you, which gives him the perf... (read in full...)
My husband and I fear he may be fired, due to a new manager. Andy advice on how to deal with this?
Q. I am really worried about my husband. Last night after work he told me that through the grapevine he heard that his new manager has it in for him and wants him fired. She sits around most of the time and has only warmed up to one other female member ...
A. 11 October 2006: If he is reliable at his job and continues to work efficiantly then there is no reason that they can fire him if he does nothing wrong.
If the company needs to get rid of him due to any reasons for needing to cut down then they will have to give ... (read in full...)
How do men get free sex without having to pay for it?
Q. Hi!, i need to ask a question that eveyone escapes from or ignores, without being offensive. How do men get free sex without having to pay for it. More and more men are struggling to get free sex. Its a growing problem that needs to be solved, its ...
A. 11 October 2006: Firstly I would not suggest looking for just sex, in can end up hurting you and very likely the person you intend to sleep with.
Secondly, why do you consider a one night stand to be a good answer? I see a one night stand as a sign that either y... (read in full...)
What is True Love
Q. My question is short but complex...What is True Love? How do you know you've found it? ...
A. 10 October 2006: Love is a kind of self-imposed hallucination, so weather somoeone believes they are inlove is entirely down to the individual. It can happen instantly or can take may years.... (read in full...)
Why can't I find a boyfriend? Maybe I should try girls instead.
Q. Hi eveyone. I've got a bit of a problem. Well I'm 18 and I've NEVER had a boyfriend. However, I am not a virgin. I have only been with 4 guys since losing my virginity last year. The guys I have been with have not been my boyfriends. As I said ...
A. 10 October 2006: I think your right in that you have been looking for guys in the wrong places, the Internet is not the best way, you need to meet people in person. Your past experiences can serve as a reminder of how men can be, and it can make you more prepared ... (read in full...)
Am I right to be suspicious?
Q. hi--been with my b/f for a year and a half. He dropped me off last night around 10 or so..we spent the day at his house with his family for a relative's birthday--i said in the car--we will talk later and he just says maybe--and i guess he was joki...
A. 10 October 2006: If you have been with him for a year and half, I think you would have a good understanding of your boyfriend and it would be worth asking yourself if you have had any suspicions in the past??
If this is a one off, chances are your worrying... (read in full...)
Is 14 too young to go to 3rd base?
Q. is 14 too young to go to 3rd base ...? i have bin with my bf who is 2 years older than me for 5 months now and love and adore him very much!..i have been to 3rd with him...feeling confident and ready. He has never presured me and he respects me ...
A. 10 October 2006: Like everyone will say you should concentrate on school, but at the same time anyone who has fallen for someone else (everyone) can understand that you will find it difficult not to keep running questions through your head.
Ultimately only you... (read in full...)
What do guys want in girls?
Q. Im 15 and you know like basically all girls want to go out with a guy thats kind, sweet and funny. Well what do guys want from girls??? Girls want 'sweet and funny'. What do guys want in girls?...
A. 10 October 2006: Ok from a guys point of view what everyone else is saying is correct. Everyone is an individual and wants different things from a partner. Firstly dont try and be what a guy wants you to be, just be yourself, if you get stuck in the state of being ... (read in full...)
I am sleeping with my exes best friend, she has a boyfriend but we are really into each other.
Q. I have a child with my ex girl friend.. but I slept with her best friend who is like a sister to her, shes also in a relationship with her bf but she says she gonna end it soon. we've slept together more than once, we're really into each other and ...
A. 10 October 2006: Its like the forbidden fruit, you want her because you shouldnt. Trust me Ive been in a very simular situation and its not all that its cracked up to be.
Im sure that if you persue not only are you going to ruin their friendship and hurt peoples ... (read in full...)
The only time I get sex is after my bf has been looking at porn. Any advice?
Q. My bf of 3 years started downloading porn alot recently. I never was bothered by it until sex became less and less and the only time i get it is after he's looked at it. Any advice? I'm ready to walk!...
A. 10 October 2006: I would definently say there is no need to run! When you being a relationship everything is new and exciting, but after time when you get stuck in the same routine things become predictable and boring. The main thing is that you are aware of it and ... (read in full...)
I have met this incredible guy, he is amazing. Problem is.....he is 7 years older.
Q. Hi guys! Got a bit of a problem here. I'm seventeen, and I've fallen for my 24 year old friend. Wait, don't panic. We've been good friends for quite a while and I'm pretty sure the feeling is mutual. He's..just incredible. An amazing friend th...
A. 22 September 2006: Hi Ya!
Sounds like you really want to be with this guy, I can say from personal experience its a good idea, as im in pretty much the same boat!!
Im 23 almost 24, and I was falling for a friend who is 17, we were really close friends and got ... (read in full...)
Why is the new guy angry with me??
Q. I met a guy I like a lot, only problem is I had started dating someone two weeks before. I wasn't sure what the new guy's intentions were, although he gave hints that he liked me. I told him I was seeing someone, but he still wanted to get to know ...
A. 11 September 2006: I think you will find you are right in what you believe. The problem here is jeliously! He is evidentally interested in you, but because you had not replied to his messages he feels rejected and wants you to care about him more, as he does for ... (read in full...)
Found my bf giving my dad head!!!
Q. Please help me. I have been with my bf for nearly 6 months now. On Saturday we was supposed to be going out for a meal and he was meeting me at my dads cos he works by his house. I live with my dad and came in from work to find my bf giving head t...
A. 11 September 2006: Its gotta be said this is rare and extreme!! You must be completely heart broken. But right now I think you are doing the best thing you can do.
This is going to be upsetting, that time will heal. It would not be held against you to never talk to ... (read in full...)
I love another girl aswell as my girlfriend!!
Q. i need help im going with out with a girl that i love but i love another girl more and she knows but she is going out with someone too . if i tell my girlfreind it will break her heart what will i do xx ...
A. 11 September 2006: I can understand where your coming from, and it is possible to love two people at once regardless of what anyone says, just because they havnt doesnt mean it doesnt happen.
I think the best thing you can do is have a break from your girlfrie... (read in full...)
She told me it wasnt working so we continued to meet as friends, I am falling for her but scared to tell her!
Q. I have been meeting with my mates sister regulary for couple of months now, my mate is fine with it the probelm is my feelings. The first night we met i kissed her, and she was happy with it and so we continued to meet. Then after just a week she ...
A. 11 September 2006: Thankyou for your responce. When I read it I was a little bit withdrawn and was unsure that it was the right thing to do, but then I couldnt really see much other choice other than carrying on like normal.
So last night I met up with her and took... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex back, he says he loves me but the relationship isnt right!
Q. What do I do now,I want my ex back? I was dating a guy for almost 2 years(he always had commitment issues brought on by being hurt before) He also has a son who I have grown to love, the baby was born when we just started dating, The guy was the ...
A. 8 September 2006: I can relate to alot of what of what you have said, but from the male side. If he truely loved you as much as he keeps saying he wouldnt put you through this heart ache and pain. Whos to say that if he did get back with you, that he wouldnt just ... (read in full...)
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