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heya . .i decided to be an agony aunt because with all the problems of my own i thought i might have a bit of advice to share with others!

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I'm sick of making all the effort with this boy!

Q.   Me and A boy at school like eachother. He's really shy. and In school its usually me who makes the convosation and he just says he's bored. and On msn he said it was rubbish. when im there trying to make convosation. in school he says hes ...

A.   9 October 2008: I would talk to him about it. I know you dont want to lose him, i've been in that position exactly, but if he's not pulling his weight and keeps turning you down you should really talk to him, people often say things they dont mean on msn, so i ... (read in full...)

I need to boost my self confidence because I feel so ugly - does he really like me?

Q.   I've got a serious issue with self-confidence and constantly compare myself to other girls and think they're so much better than me - prettier, etc. Recently, a lad who I've known for a year-ish told me he liked me. This was a shock because lads ...

A.   27 July 2008: I was in the exact same position as you about 4 months ago. I felt like i wasnt pretty enough for anyone to like, and i had no self confidence or self esteem. But now i've got a lovely boyfriend and he's made me feel so much different, i'd had ... (read in full...)

I always wear a smile, but in reality my head is a mess! I think I'm depressed. How can I get a more positive outlook on things?

Q.   hey guys just wanted your help plz. I have been with my gf for nearly 7months we have a good relationship. i dnt know whether im in love with her, bt i do feel close ot her. she says she has never felt like this for anyone before which is q...

A.   10 July 2007: you are not alone i no this isnt helping but i've just been feeling like that not in a relationship but i always find myself comparing me 2 my best friend and i always feel i have to make the effort on msn and myspace and stuff i masturbate f... (read in full...)

I want him back, how can I make him want it too?

Q.   I met a guy last summer, and we soon became good friends. He began to like me, but I only liked him for about a week, because I was confused over my feelings. Eventually I began to feel awkward, and I began to avoid him, so we stopped talking for a ...

A.   30 June 2007: bless you it reli looks liek your goin through a bad tym i think that you should tell him how you are feeling wot have you got to lose i mean i think that you should tlk to him upfront about it tell him you miss him and how upset you were ... (read in full...)

I want to date my best friend

Q.   There is this girl I like she calls me her best guy friend... she doesn't have a boyfriend, she knows I'm not gay, she finds me "funny" but not in an obnoxious way im not ugly.... well im really really bad at asking girls out and im pretty sure she ...

A.   30 June 2007: well...my only advice if you get really nervous face to face do it over txt or msn ... it's not the best of options but it gets the job done.. if you want to do it face to face my best advice would be to take a deep breath look into her eyes mak... (read in full...)

Im in love with someone, How can I get them to notice me ?

Q.   Im in love with Someone But i just dont know how to make them know im here and notice me Its like I dont exist What do i do to get them to see me ?...

A.   27 March 2007: make conversation is the only tip i can say go over or start talking 2 one of his friends and then invite him into the conversation dont b nervous shoulders back and go for it! (althought u dont want to b to over confident!) you've got nothing to ... (read in full...)

Is he just getting with me on the rebound ?

Q.   me and my boyfriend may be getting back together. he broke up with his girlfriend just over a week ago and we have been getting closer ever since, he was with his ex girlfriend for over a year, she fancies someone else and he fancies me, i am just ...

A.   27 March 2007: why dont you ask him that i mean i no it sounds insulting just goin 'by the way do you really lyk me or just gettin with me on the rebound' but somethimes it's better to get things out in the open. if you really like him you can tell him what your ... (read in full...)

Once a guy calls me for a date-I get scared and push them away? Why do I do this?

Q.   i have a problem getting close to guys. every time im interested in a guy, and want them to like me, everything is fine until they confirm that they ACTUALLY do like me. once that happens....and they call, and want to know me better, i get scared ...

A.   30 December 2006: maybe you are self concious. . .i no i am i hate myself, and when people say they like how i look or anything like that i tend to shut out what they are saying to me i used to be a bit like you....i could never reli take in that someone could like... (read in full...)

Love at first site with my bf but I also love and dream about my friend every night!

Q.   I have been dating a guy for about a month now and it was love at first sight. But, I have a very close friend and I love him, too. Now that I'm dating I have been having dreams literaly every night about him. In my dreams I am dating him and my ...

A.   30 December 2006: i've had a problem just like this.....i met this lad @ a club and started dating im but my crush before i went 2 the club still lingered in my mind i was unsure of wot 2 do but i asked myself. . .do i feel happy when i'm with my boyfriend....will ... (read in full...)

How should I ask her out online?

Q.   I have been talking to this girl online and i am starting to get feelings for her. We both trust each other because we talk about personal stuff and we have things in common. The thing is i want to see her and hang out with her... im 16 and she is ...

A.   3 June 2006: just tell her you'd like to hang out with her if she wanted to, i'm sure if you's are as close as you said she'll trust you and don't be worried that you'll scare her, i mean i don't think she'd talk to you if she was scared. make her feel relaxed ... (read in full...)

I want a boyfriend, but I've never had one before!

Q.   Hiya I am 19 years old and never had a boyfriend. I didn't mind before but since I have come to uni it's really started to get me down, as I feel there must be something wrong with me. Whenever I go out, despite trying to look my best, guys barely g...

A.   3 June 2006: i have felt like that before the dfference is i'm younger than u and never had a b/f most lada are my friends and i have as many lad friends as girls, if you wana show him how you feel just go up to him keep the conversation flowing and then ... (read in full...)

How do I start the conversation flowing??

Q.   i want to talk to this girl but don't know how to start the conversation what should i do? ...

A.   2 June 2006: just say something silly like asking her for a pen or say hey i haven't talked to you in a while how are you doing :) i'm sure she'll apreciate you saying something nice :) ... (read in full...)

How do I impress my boyfriend?

Q.   i am 15 and i really wanna impress my new boyfriend by doing something different with my hair. i want to curl it but i only have straighters. how do you curl your hair using straighteners and would it stay curly for the whole day? second questio...

A.   2 June 2006: i often curl my hair with straigteners get the straighteners at the top of a piece of hair not to much! and don't have it horizonal have it leaning to the left a lil lyk that \ get a hold of you straigteners and wrap your hair around the ... (read in full...)

I want to wear clothes that make my body look as curvy as it really is...

Q.   i am 15 and have quite a curvy figure and i love it! (not boasting lol). but i want to envisise it by wearing clothes that will make my body look more curvy. i really want my body to look more curvy but i am not sure on what sort of t-shirts and ...

A.   2 June 2006: long tops with chic belts and a good pair of jeans should do it, clothes which you think fit don't hav to be revealing go for a nice fitting jumper or something i personally lyk these long vest tops which you can get with a nice chunky belt hope i ... (read in full...)

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