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anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend may be getting back together. he broke up with his girlfriend just over a week ago and we have been getting closer ever since, he was with his ex girlfriend for over a year, she fancies someone else and he fancies me, i am just scared incase i am getting with him too soon after his split eventho he wants to get with me ,what can i do?
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reader, Reebe +, writes (27 March 2007):
 The answer to this is easy do everything slowly. Tell this guy that you like him but you want to move slow with him, enjoy your time with him and see how things progress don't rush into doing anything!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007): A week is nothing and considering that his ex fancies someone else maybe he's getting closer to you because he wants revenge on his ex, not because is actually fancies you. Don't go there, he's only just got out of a relationship plus you've already been there before, what's to say that it'll work this time? Keep out of it, after all you don't want to be used as something for him to get back at his ex do you?
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reader, iwillhelpyouthroughit +, writes (27 March 2007):
 why dont you ask him that i mean i no it sounds insulting just goin 'by the way do you really lyk me or just gettin with me on the rebound' but somethimes it's better to get things out in the open. if you really like him you can tell him what your feeling in a way which wont hurt him. try pulling im 2 1 side just so u no u's are alone and go i realy like you but i wanted to make 1 thing sure before we take things further and ask him if he likes you as much as you like him. it's worth a try, dont be shy or embarrased jus tell him. get your feelings out in the open i've done it 1ce and it worked out really good. this lad and me were flirting and his ex was sitting across from us and i said your not just doing this to make her jealous and he moved away from her and kissed me and told me he loved me and it was all good. i hope you find this good advice even tho i'm just blabing on about me sorry :( xx
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