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writes: i have a problem getting close to guys. every time im interested in a guy, and want them to like me, everything is fine until they confirm that they ACTUALLY do like me. once that happens....and they call, and want to know me better, i get scared and push them away. i cant tell you how many times its happened, therefore im a 21 year old who has never been in a real relationship. does anyone have a bit of advice or comments as to what i could do? anything would be helpful...im at the end of my rope, i just want to give up. Reply to this Question
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reader, iwillhelpyouthroughit  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 maybe you are self concious. . .i no i am i hate myself, and when people say they like how i look or anything like that i tend to shut out what they are saying to me
i used to be a bit like you....i could never reli take in that someone could like me and love me so therefore if you're like me youy tend to back off. what helped me was relising that i'm not reli that bad of person as i thought i was i accepted myself in a way....like ummmm stopped putting myself down as much this gave me a big confidence boast and i now am not as bad as what i used to be
i dont no how much of this advice will help you but hey if you like it give me some feedback i no how your feeling sometimes you feel you are lonely and you never will have a relationship but dont worry boast your confidence believe in yourself and who know's it might actually work! i hope it does anyways xxx
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