I'm 20 and parents won't let me date!
Q. I am 20 years old and I am still with my high school sweet-heart. Our relationship began 4 years ago and we feel to be really in love til' this day. I really love him and wouldn't doubt spending the rest of my life with him, we have been going to ...
A. 6 September 2009: Hmmm,well yes your parents might seem strict but the truth of the matter is they want you to have a good life,good job,without it all getting messed up with love problems and mistakes like for example if you got pregnant. What you should do is try a... (read in full...)
Caught up in a love triangle... what should I do?!
Q. damn it! I am so mad at myself now! i just relized the other day that i am in love with my best friend! i dont know why i am but i just relized it the other day when i found out he broke up with his latest girl friend, which happens to be one of m...
A. 9 August 2009: you should get with "bob" but if you feel like something won't go right you need to talk to him, and don't let anything come in between your great friendship !... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to my friend's brother?
Q. Ok I have a very important question......One night when I spent the night over my friend house her brother and I did some freaky stuff..and now since that night I been thinking that I wanted to loose my virginity to him he's 15 and im 14.....should ...
A. 6 August 2009: i get what your saying kind of lol. well your the only one who can make up your own mind. you might regret it after, and you might want to loose your virginity to someone you actually love. i can't tell you what to do but whatever you do,think wi... (read in full...)
What are the signs that a girl likes you?
Q. Hello, can anyone help me please? I have been working with a girl at work for nearly two years now and I REALLY, REALLY like her. I consider us to be very close friends but would really like to know how I could tell whether she fancies me too ...
A. 6 August 2009: yeh she possibly does like you.
she might not admit it,or to be honest she might not have even realised it herself yet but she has at the very least something for you.
goood luck... (read in full...)
Why did he act this way, when he has a girlfriend?
Q. Well, there´s this guy at work who is getting closer to me lately. He haven´t said anything serious yet, like he kinda jokes he likes me and stuff. The point is he has a Girlfriend, which makes me feel we can get in trouble. Yesterday, we ...
A. 5 August 2009: well there could be a lot of possible answers.
maybe he is going through a rough patch with his girlfriend,and wants to be reassured by you. or he is trying to win his girlfriend over again, so lets say the word he could be wanting to make his girl... (read in full...)
Sometimes I get the feeling that he's talking to other girls!
Q. My boyfriend is reading a book. He tells me this is the reason why he'll take long to reply. Sometimes I get the feeling that he's talking to other girls- as in flirting. Other time, I think of how ridiculous that is. Right now, its one of those ...
A. 5 August 2009: maybe he is..just because you have a feeling doesn't mean its true. don't go and accuse him because you don't want to loose him !
sit down and talk to him face to face,but makesure you just say your confused with your feelings,and how gutted you ... (read in full...)
He wants to kiss me but I don't know what to do
Q. im 13 years old theres a boy i like and he is 15 my friend always talks to him on the phone the other night me and my 3 friends went to sleep at there house miles away we said we were staying in a friends house we had lots a fun and i could tell he ...
A. 15 July 2009: well i know what your feeling. my first kiss was when i was 13 and i still am 13,this was about 2months ago and the guy i kissed it wasn't his first and he is 14. i never told him that it was my first kiss. but don't worry. just don't kiss when o... (read in full...)
I think my fiance is messing around with my mom
Q. dear agony aunt please can u give me some much needed advice. where do i start. i have had my suspicions for a long time now tht my fiance whom im due to marry this year has bn having it off with my mother. i havnt actually caught thm in the act but ...
A. 15 July 2009: well you need to first get the evidence.
leave them two in a room togetha and either listen and record/ voice record it. or next time it gets deep and he asks for a kiss walk in and see what happens. do they split apart quickly ?
talk to your dad... (read in full...)
Even when invited I feel left out
Q. I feel totally alone. My friends all go out and socailize, but never invite me. When they talk to me, they blame me, and say I should asume to be invited to everything, and I understand that. But I nver feel welcome or wanted, and when I do go out...
A. 15 July 2009: aww.i get what your saying. tell them or one of them how you feel, that you feel alone. try and involve yourself more, go along get chatting with them more, make arrangements with a few of them. as time does keep passing by and you feel like nothin... (read in full...)
Do I love her? Or am I just used to being with her?
Q. i wont hide anything..long story short, i broke off with this girl cuz this relationship was goin too deep and she was too eager about our children and marriage stuff..im 22 while she was 17....she loved me so much that i feel i have touched the ...
A. 15 July 2009: well if you did want to get back together with her then,makesure you make it clear that you would rather enjoy life as it is without marriage and kids. make it clear to her. but maybe you aren't missing her as much as you think you are. you probably... (read in full...)
I want to let go but I work with him and see him every day
Q. i need some advice how do you get over sum1 that you totally ar in love with and you see him everyday in work and you cant help looking at him and hes looking at you but he has a girlfriend and you have been with him before and the sex was great but ...
A. 15 July 2009: i get what your saying and feeling. try to avoid him as much as you can. if he starts to talk to you after a while when you really can't take it, just say something im sorry don't meane to be rude, but right now im so busy or i have to go and do s... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend talks about his ex too much... Help!
Q. At the beginning of our relationship, he mentioned his ex a couple times, and I sort of took it as a compliment because he was so willing to open up to me. He said she put him through a lot, blah blah blah, and basically I'm pretty sure she broke ...
A. 10 July 2009: yes i think he is trying ot give you hints slowly about something, and he might be trying to find a way to not break your heart as much ?... (read in full...)
How do I make him forget about the lovers in my past?
Q. when me and my boyfriend started going out he asked me how many people id had sex with before him and i lied and said it was only 4 when its really 9. (he was a virgin before me) recently he found out the truth and said he still loves me but he ...
A. 10 July 2009: all you can do is show him how much you love him
try not to talk about other guys
let him know he is your only one
and don't brag about other guys or hang out with them
good luck he will trust you eventually well forget about it after a while do... (read in full...)
I think I still like him but not sure if he likes me
Q. i'm confused and i really need help please someone help me out.this guy used to like me and he asked me out and i said yes but after a few weeks i told him that were are more like friends cuz we never kissed or went out so i told him that and he ...
A. 5 July 2009: i think he is probably into you. but trying to act cool and all big. he is probably trying to make you jealous. try not to pay too much attention to him and see what he does. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend freaked and started crying when I undone her bra. Why did she do this?
Q. My girlfriend and me were making out and until I unhooked her bra. She had padding in it, she ran out of the room in tears. I did call her a few times with no answer. She wont talk to me. She always problem her with insecureties. Like she wears my ...
A. 5 July 2009: she is most probably unsecure about her boob size. even thought you may be fine with it and her size, she probably compares herself to others and wishes she was a different size.
don't force her into anything as some girls really don't like thei... (read in full...)
He doesn't talk much when we're together, don't know what to make of it!
Q. Right this may sound really stupid to some, but i need your help! I'm with this guy, who i really like, am always thinking about him, both sexually and not. Just spending time with him is amazing! I dream about him almost every night, again bot...
A. 5 July 2009: if he is being quiet either maybe next time take a friend with you who he knows kinda well. you can start with them like messing about and talking then it will all get into a subject. but if it is just you two,maybe he is nervous and does not kno... (read in full...)
Is it time to leave this unhappy marriage?
Q. I am unhappily married with two children to a man who is physically and verbally abusive who also has a drug addiction that he can't kick. We get along sometimes, but he treats me like I'm his child and makes comments about my parenting. He won't ...
A. 5 July 2009: personally,yes you should leave him. this isn't quite right and even thought you hvae 2 children you need to leave, you can sort something out with the kids, like they can see him every weekend or so. but this addiction will come worse. and ... (read in full...)
Do I have to tell my boyfriend everything about my past?
Q. I have a serious question that I need advice on. I am in a long term relationship and I'm starting to get the feeling that my boyfriend is going to propose. I love him very much and definitely want us to get married. I have two things that I have ...
A. 28 June 2009: i think the threesome is not that important so no ou don't have to tell him. but the raped and abortion one i do think it will be better and easier if you told him. but before you tell him you should say once i have told you this i would rather y... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my fiance and my best friend. What should I do?
Q. I met my fiance when i was 16 (i'm 23 now), we hit it off straight away. we knew we would be good together. after 5 years of being together he asked me to marry him, i said yes. we were very happy and wanted to spend our lives together, we have now ...
A. 28 June 2009: i can see where your coming from but you need to hurry up and make your decision. maybe tell your fiancee that things are not working well and you would rather have a break. see how things go from there. but too me it seems like you will have such a ... (read in full...)
His g/f flirted with me, now he's mad
Q. My best friend, his girlfriend and me went to a bar (my girlfriend was out of town that night). We were drinking a lot and his girlfriend was flirting with me in front of him. We later went in the dance floor and starting dancing. My friend is ...
A. 28 June 2009: yes he will get over it, after he has thought about stuff. no offense but he can't be a good best friend if he stays angry at you for a long time! urmm, give him a text a long text saying how much of a good friend he is, and he can't let a... (read in full...)
My jealousy is getting in the way of relationships! How do I deal with it?
Q. I have a jealousy problem and I shouldn't be jealous because I have no reason to be... Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with it? I mean its starting to get out of control and I realized that tonight lol Because I made an ass out of myself ...
A. 28 June 2009: try and think of other stuff, i can't really help you with this problem cause you don't really say an example of how your becoming jealous? as soon as you start feeling really jealous when you shouldn't be, try and think of something differ... (read in full...)
Do I say something to the girl I like?
Q. There's this girl who ive liked for a while and i think she likes me. Thing is she doesnt know i like her because i dont know her well enough to make a move. she is now going out with another boy. do i say something to her?...
A. 27 June 2009: well im not a boy im a girl. but when i told the guy i liked him he really liked this other girl. the only thing which made me tell him how i felt was because we had just talked on msn for more than 5 hours, one of my mates didn't know i liked him ... (read in full...)
Am I being protective like a brother or am I just jealous?
Q. My step-sister just got a boyfreind. Befor I even met him, a felt mad at him for no apparent reason. When I met him, he already seemed unconfortible around me, so I wanted to further scare him. I didnt becouse my step-sister was there. I havent ...
A. 27 June 2009: personally, i think your a bit jealous. you have some kind of feeling for her but even she is your step-sister. you need to wake up and think no i cannot think this she is literally my sister. try and be friends with this guy, make him feel welcome ... (read in full...)
How do I stay in touch with this boy I like?
Q. Hello everyone, Right, there is a boy who I have met who I really like and would just like some advice as how to keep contact with him. I saw him for the first time at a debating group I am part of. I didnt speak to him but added him on fac...
A. 27 June 2009: just carry on texting. arrange to meet up some weekends when your both free, if your too nervous then take a friend with you each. speak on the phone and keep talking over facebook. get to know him more and things will turn out just fine. good luck ... (read in full...)
Should I trust my husband after what he's told me?
Q. My guestion is...about for years ago when my hubby and I first got together he was working with this girl that loved to get into the pants of guy that where takin. He has told me that they would flert alot and that he would help her out whenever she ...
A. 26 June 2009: honestly and no offense i really don't think you deserve him! he sounds like such a player! i think he is probably lying and there is more to this! honestly what sort of guy does that and he is supposed to love you not tell you he prefers the other ... (read in full...)
I'm seeing her on the side...
Q. I'm seeing this girl who has a BF. We've talked many times that she's not leaving him and I'm not in any rush and I'm just having fun. We have had sex about 3 different times and every time is amazing. She is an awesome girl and we click like no one ...
A. 22 June 2009: well there is not much u can actually do. its down 2 her. but if i were you i wouldnt feel right hanging around with this girl so much as its not fair on her boyfriend. she needs to either dump him and link you or just keep you as a mate. ?... (read in full...)
Infatuated with someone on the telly!
Q. I like someone very much off the telly, she is so beautiful and every time I see her I get butterflies in my stomach, she isn't famous, she just reads news type things on a channel and used to sell things on another. I don't know if I love her or ...
A. 22 June 2009: just start speaking to her normal like a friend. keep it calm and dont go to over the top. start with casual conversations like hi how are you. get deeper into the conversation every time you two speak. you need to get to know her more then see how ... (read in full...)
Help! I'm having trouble choosing.
Q. I have been seeing two guys for a few months now. Neither of which knows about each other. One is my ex, which I have been with one and off for 6 years and have even lived with for about 9 months. I broke up with boyfriend 1 and moved out. A few ...
A. 21 June 2009: i think you should go with this new guy, because even thought he has 2 kids your not the mum. you don't have to help out, speak to him that you feel uncomfortable but love him. you will probably end up loving these kids.don't worry though. this ... (read in full...)
One night of sex, now I'm pregnant and he doesn't respond
Q. My bestfriend and I have been friends for years, since we were babies. Our families know each other really well. On the night my bestfriend was leaving to move to the other side of the country I told him I loved him and had done for many years. ...
A. 21 June 2009: well pratically there is a chance he might not have got the texts and that but maybe he has got them and is scared. text him saying something like 'i know its weird. but can you stop ignoring me, this is your baby and i need to speak to you'. Leave ... (read in full...)
He says to leave him alone but tells me he likes me!
Q. Hi everybody. I need help. I have known this guy since October. I like him but didn't realize how much till all this happened.To make a long story short, I sent him an email I thought he wanted to hear but didn't.It's a long story then sent him ...
A. 21 June 2009: he is probably a bit annoyed with these emails. he probably didn't mean it. you should just give him an email saying something like 'hey,long time no speak.how are you.write back soon x'
see what he replies back or if he replies, then see how it g... (read in full...)
Should I wait or just let him go
Q. Hey guys well kinda obviously got a relationship prob so ya heres it... So me(17) and my bf(18)dated last summer for about 3 months but sadly had some issues with my mom and decided to end it cuz there was no way of getting her to like him thanks t...
A. 21 June 2009: well if you wait then it will be really hard. i mean someone else is going to probably walk into your life then you will have to block them out and thats going to be hard. personally i think you should just move on but keep in touch with him and ... (read in full...)
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