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writes:Right this may sound really stupid to some, but i need your help!I'm with this guy, who i really like, am always thinking about him, both sexually and not. Just spending time with him is amazing! I dream about him almost every night, again both sexually and not.There is only one thing i have an issue with, well i say issue, i don't really know what to say, but anyway, when we're together, yea we chat about stuff, but a lot of the time it just kinda goes silent for a while. I don't have a problem with silence, i do love just being with him, speaking or not, but my problem is the fact that it actually feels like we don't have much to say to each other. He is a really shy guy, so its understandable he doesn't realy say much, but i swear before we got together we used to speak a lot more than now we are together.. i'm confused, and don't really know what to make of it.He's always saying how much he likes spending time with me, and that he misses me when we're not together. He texts me almost all the time.Please help in any way possible.. tell me i'm being stupid.. or need to get out of this.. anything is better than nothing!:) Thanks! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): If he says he misses you and likes you and texts you all the time, it means just that. He likes you! When a guy texts you multiple times a day, it means he's thinking about you a lot during the day. It could be that at first he was trying to impress you with a lot of chit chat, but the quiet type is really who he is.
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reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (5 July 2009):
 if he is being quiet either maybe next time take a friend with you who he knows kinda well.you can start with them like messing about and talking then it will all get into a subject.but if it is just you two,maybe he is nervous and does not know what to say. even though this can be hard try and find something to talk about and start it off. amybe talk about movies, or interests you know he likes. or how your day was then it will go into a deeper conversation and that. good luck x
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