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writes:My bestfriend and I have been friends for years, since we were babies. Our families know each other really well. On the night my bestfriend was leaving to move to the other side of the country I told him I loved him and had done for many years. He didn't say it back but kissed me instead. We ended up making love and he took my virginity, I had been saving it for the one and he knew. We spent the whole night together but when I woke up the next day, around 1 in the afternoon, he had gone without even saying goodbye. I rang his mobile a couple of times but he didn't answer. A couple of days ago I found out that I was pregnant. I've tried calling, texting and emailing him but he hasn't replied. I don't know what to do. I'm keeping the baby but what should I do next? Shall I go to his house and talk to him directly? but then again maybe he's read the messages and does not want to know about either of us(the baby or me). I'm really confused. Please help. Thanks.
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reader, iloveyhoo  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 well pratically there is a chance he might not have got the texts and that but maybe he has got them and is scared. text him saying something like 'i know its weird. but can you stop ignoring me, this is your baby and i need to speak to you'. Leave it like that if it doesn't work then just leave it. trust he will come running back to you eventually. good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): Hun, you need to go see him and tell him to get his head out of the clouds, and to step up to the plate. You're pregnant with HIS kid! He needs to take care of HIS kid! If he loves you, then he shouldn't mind!
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reader, betty_black +, writes (19 June 2009):
 Had you been drinking before this all happened by any chance?
Maybe he was just weirded out by what happened and woke up really confused and didnt know how to handle the situation and so he ran outta there being a coward as alot of men are. If you dont hear from him for a couple of weeks from now, then yeah you need to drop by his house. Youre pregnant with his child, its important he understands that and supports you.
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reader, candyluvsu01 +, writes (19 June 2009):
 go see him.
it doesnt matter if he doesnt want the baby because now hes stuck....it was a mutual choice to have sex so he has to deal with the consequences of his actions.
and be sure you tell both sets of parents so they can help out with your decision on keeping the baby or not.
good luck X
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