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I am an educator. Have taught elementary up to high school students. I have listened to so many problems faced by these learners that nothing shocks me.

I have learnt psychology as part of being an educator. Therefore, I try my best to provide comments that would help anyone seeking advice.

I prefer to answer posts from my age group as I myself am going through my own personal problems. However, I do answer posts from other age groups if I feel and think that I am able to help. I do not provide advice for any posts that I think I am unable to provide any help at all.

I am currently completing my PhD thesis. Undergoing a PhD study has helped me a lot in being a person who looks at things wholly and based on facts. Besides, it has helped me a lot to understand how culture, individuality and upbringing influence everyone differently.

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Being A Good Agony Aunt or Uncle

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6 February 2013: I have been reading comments and feedback from agony aunts and uncles to queries and questions posted by OPs. Some of the advice, opinions, comments and feedback are encouraging, motivating and insightful But nonetheless many are very negative, j...

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What should my next move be with this other guy?

Q.   a guy declared his love to me about two weeks ago, but i told him i couldn´t just go with him because i was dating this other guy who's been longer with me. Though we might break up. I told guy#1 that i wouldn't break up with my guy because of h...

A.   10 December 2012: You have put yourself in a very complicated situation. I am a little confused, so bear with me if I got some of the facts wrong. First, do not go from one relationship to the next without thinking it through. Ask yourself what is lacking in your ... (read in full...)

I have some regrets about my LDR. I think I give too much. How can I overcome these feelings?

Q.   Im in a ldr with a wonderful girl and we love each other very much. When i met her i was pursuing my dream job, having job interviews etc. When things got serious and we became exclusive she had to go back to her country to complete school ...

A.   10 December 2012: Dear OP, You have to make the effort to talk to her. What are your fears if you talk to her about what is worrying you? Are you afraid that she would end the relationship, get upset, distance herself??? My dear, talking to her about your issue... (read in full...)

How could he be over me so quickly after a seven month relationship?

Q.   okay my boyfriend just broke up with me two days ago, he broke up with me three weeks ago because he wanted to find himself and needed his alone time i guess but it didnt last that long before he wanted me back cuz he regretted it immediatley and ...

A.   9 December 2012: hi dear, I do not know what he is thinking but maybe he wants to move on and seeing all the pics make it harder for him. it is hard to let go i know but you have to concentrate on getting over him. It will take time but you will come out as a... (read in full...)

I have some regrets about my LDR. I think I give too much. How can I overcome these feelings?

Q.   Im in a ldr with a wonderful girl and we love each other very much. When i met her i was pursuing my dream job, having job interviews etc. When things got serious and we became exclusive she had to go back to her country to complete school ...

A.   9 December 2012: Hi, I am sorry to hear that you are upset with what is happening at the moment. Just wanted to know if the decision to be self-employed and halt your pursue of your dream job was ever discussed between your gf and you. I understand that you deci... (read in full...)

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