I don't want to have to choose because I need them both in my life, but I really can't take any more of this.
Q. My mum hates my boyfriend so much that she even used an old mobile to text him so it looked like he was cheating, I know because I knew the number was my brother's old number from his first phone. She's always talking bad about him and calls him all ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hey sweetie, In your mothers eyes no boy will ever be good enough for you but that wasnt right for your mother to do that to him. Mothers are there to give support and to pick up the pieces once the mistake is made. Just make sure you dont fuel her... (read in full...)
I've recently got together with my uncles best friend! But he is 40, I am 23 and he now wants to cool it a bit. I dont want to lose him!
Q. Hi Everyone, I am after a bit of advice regarding a new relationship i have started with an older man. I am 23 and my partner is 40, we met a while ago and have seen each other on occasion at my relative's house(he is my uncle's best friend!)I h...
A. 30 August 2007: Hey Honey, Boys (yes even those that believe they are men) need there space all the time. Give him as much time as he needs just let him know your still interested maybe arrange a date then after that date let him ring you. Play a little harder to... (read in full...)
I really like him and enjoy spending time with him and I want to be in a proper relationship with him.
Q. I have been seeing this guy for about 9 months now only every couple of weeks because he lives in another town. I really like him and enjoy spending time with him and I want to be in a proper relationship with him. From the conversations we've had ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hey honey, If you dont ask how will you ever know if secretley he does like you? Just hint towards it and if you get the message to steer clear then say your happy just being friend and go find another who likes you back. Have your cake, Mayb... (read in full...)
My 17 yr old boyfriend doesn't take me anywhere and says because I'm 15 he didn't think I would want to go anywhere. Was I right to take offense?
Q. my 17 Yr old boyfriend never takes me anywhere. earlier i confronted him about this and he said "well your only 15, i didnt think you'd want to go anywhere" i took offence by this and he stormed off to bed when i expressed this. was i right to take ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hey Honey, It was a bit mean of him to say that really. Youve got to think about it though hes obviously not sure of what you want from the relationship. Try sitting down and talking to him show him that you can be taken out dont take offence and... (read in full...)
Scared she'll tell people about my circumcised penis!
Q. I am a 15 year old male and circumcised, me and my friend want to have sex for fun but im scared she will tell everyone about my penis please help?...
A. 19 August 2007: OKay i know we're here to console you about your circumised penis, which by the way is nothing to be ashamed off. But the sex for fun got me! If you both really want to do it then okay, but be careful otherwise fun will end up changing Nappies and ... (read in full...)
My friend and I are fighting..all due to this guy I like! Any advice?
Q. What am i goin to do? I like this guy but he likes my friend and my friend likes my crush`s friend and he knows That i like him and at the past he told me that someday he and i will be together and i thought that he is falling for me but i am wrong...
A. 10 August 2007: Boys will come and go but friends will be there forever. Tell her that and try and think it through, i fell out with my friends over a boy i fell in love with when i was fifteen by sixteen i was pregnant and although my friends hated my boyfrien... (read in full...)
His ex wife is being nasty. How do I get him to do something about it?
Q. i have been with my partner for 6 months and love him dearly, we have both been seriously hurt by past relationships, his ex wife left him for some one else after 26 years and my ex used to beat and threaten me. what is bugging me now is that his...
A. 10 August 2007: If she is bothering you that much YOU can get a restraining order, however her children are a different story. Change your house phone number and ask him and the kids not to tell her. If all else fails sit her down and ask her whats going on and how ... (read in full...)
I left him a message 5 days ago and he hasn't got back to me, I feel silly; what should I do now?
Q. ok following advice about this guy i would like to be friends with he works around the corner from me we always smile and say hi blah blah, well i did want to follow the advice and just ask him out for a friendly drink but i just couldnt do it so i ...
A. 10 August 2007: Okay sweetie, maybe he didnt get the message and maybe hes seeing someone. But i think you should ask him in person. Then you can forget about him or enjoy a nice drink with him. Get know until you ask.
All my love
Ileana
xxxxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)
I don't like the fact that he smokes pot, what should I do?
Q. Hey, wonder if you can give me some advice. I've known this guy for about two years, and we've been going out for a few months. Anyway we've always been pretty good together but there's one thing that bugs me a lot about him, he smokes weed. He ...
A. 10 August 2007: Get rid of him darlin' if hes not willing to give up Pot for you, you shouldnt be willing to give up your freedom for him.
Love
Ileana
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When I am with him I feel good but I don't want to invest in something that will be doomed from the start to end.
Q. Hi, The thing is this, I am seeing a guy, even though we are not technically boyfriend and girlfriend, there is an attraction between us. However he is seperated, he has been for 11 years, and he has 3 kids... well teenagers. His wife has c...
A. 9 August 2007: Okay maybe things may change with him as his feelings grow for you. The question is are you ready to wait and see? If not you need to tell him what you want, maybe he will compromise with you. If he refuses to budge even a little of the way he ... (read in full...)
I am planning on making a move on a friend of mine who is also a girl. How do I go about this?
Q. I am planning on making a move on a friend of mine who is also a girl. How do I go about this? We have made out before and it only was once. Also if it ends up going past kissing what do I do? How do I do it? I really could use some advice. ...
A. 9 August 2007: Ask her on a date, but make it subtle.
Possibly to the cinema alone if she suggests a group of you going say you would prefer it if it was just the two of you, see if she gets the hint.
Remember you only have to go as far as you want to go, and ... (read in full...)
What can I do to comfort my friend and not make him upset?
Q. Hey Well, the problem is one of my best friends used to like me and flirted with me quite a bit but we knew it wouldn't work as i'm still 14 an he's 16 and its hard because our families are so close. Its been a while since then and he's just sta...
A. 9 August 2007: Okay firstly dont condole the idea of him kissing you, as he may think if he can get away with a kiss on the top of your head, his next step may be your lips. Try to comfort him by saying nice things like
'im sure everything will work out perf... (read in full...)
How can I control my sexual urges? I want to wait before my boyfriend and I have sex
Q. I sort of have mixed feelings about sex right now, and I'm confused. I am very attracted to my current boyfriend and I love him very much, and I am really tempted to have sex with him (I'm a virgin, but he isn't pressuring me at all, this is just ...
A. 9 August 2007: Hey there,
Take your time and find out about things before you actually do go through with having 'sex' with your boyfriend. Getting aroused is simply a sign that your hormones are working this is most prominent during your menstrual cycle.
Dont ... (read in full...)
How can I control my sexual urges? I want to wait before my boyfriend and I have sex
Q. I sort of have mixed feelings about sex right now, and I'm confused. I am very attracted to my current boyfriend and I love him very much, and I am really tempted to have sex with him (I'm a virgin, but he isn't pressuring me at all, this is just ...
A. 9 August 2007: Hey there,
Take your time and find out about things before you actually do go through with having 'sex' with your boyfriend. Getting aroused is simply a sign that your hormones are working this is most prominent during your menstrual cycle.
Dont ... (read in full...)
A few days ago he has been like getting close to me but gets nervious and starts treating me all crappy!
Q. I like this guy and well this guy seems to like my friend's sister but she doesn't like him back and he knows that! We used to be good friends until I messed up with my friend's sister now this guy doesn't really talk to me anymore! A few days ago...
A. 9 August 2007: Maybe hes a bit insecure, or maybe he thinks if he treats you badly and you go back to him then you do actually like him and he can take his chance. I think he likes you he is just worried about whether or not he should have you.
Hope i help... (read in full...)
Why cant I trust my boyfriend? He hasnt done anything wrong!
Q. Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 4 years now and the only real problem in our relationship is Me. My problem is that Im super insecure with him. Ive had a few boyfriends in the past and I never worried about them meeting someone else or ...
A. 9 August 2007: I agree with Eve hunny, before you can expect anyone to love you, you need to love yourself. JUst say to yourself three times everyday
'I am a beautiful, sucessful, young lady
I have a boyfriend who loves me,
I am confident and can take on the ... (read in full...)
We're both virgins, when we have sex for the first time, will it hurt?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are both virgins and we are getting near to the point in our relationship where we both want to have sex! I have heard that it will hurt my gf and I know that those rumours are true but I have also heard that it will hurt me as ...
A. 9 August 2007: Yes. It may hurt him a little bit but it will hurt her more, but if your careful everything should be okay, and use Protection!!! I wish you the best of luck in the future.
Anymore questions just email me.
All my love
Ileana
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Should we tell mum i'm pregnant over dinner?
Q. Should me and my boyfriend tell my mom im pregnant over dinner? we really need to tell her and soon because its really heavy on my heart that im keeping this from her. we arent all that close but she is still my mother. i expect for her to ...
A. 9 August 2007: this is the perfect way to tell her babe. Just speak calmly and tell her that your going to take full responsibilty and she will realise your a big girl and she can help you. You wanna chat you know where i am. Ils... (read in full...)
I'm scared to tell my mom i'm pregnant!
Q. Me and my mom dont get along that well because she is so strict, but im pregnant and im scared to tell her,HELP!...
A. 8 August 2007: Hey sweetie well i can say is you have to tell her she'll go mad but she can support you i also got pregnant at 15 so i know how it feels but she will support you and in future reference hunny wait til your older and use a condom, if you wanna chat ... (read in full...)
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