How can I tell if a strong silent type guy likes me?
Q. Hi guys I just wanted to know if there's any signs to look out for to see If a guy likes you. Especially of there the strong silent type Thanks :)...
A. 18 February 2012: Hello hun, Perhaps if you notice him looking at you a lot. If you talk to him and he seems to blush that could be a sign. Generally it is quite hard to tell with the quite ones :) I hope this helps you though, you should try talking to hi... (read in full...)
Does anyone deserve a second chance?
Q. when someone has cheated, should you give them a second chance?...
A. 18 February 2012: Hello :)
You are young, and I think when someone has cheated, no matter how much you love them, they do not deserve a second chance.
You did not cheat, therefore you cared about this person and they let you down, to prevent yourself from being l... (read in full...)
I can't date her because of our religions...so what should I do?
Q. I've gotten to know this girl around 8 months ago. We're both 16, in the same school, same classes, everything. Ive gotten to know her so well, and I spend every waking minute thinking about her. I really think I love her, but see the problem is ...
A. 17 February 2012: Hello dear,
This is a difficult one, it is a shame you have fallen for someone who it would be difficult to have a relationship with, however 'there are plenty more birds in the trees'.
If you feel you cannot have a relationship with this gir... (read in full...)
I don't want a baby right now, but it seems like my body is screaming at me to have one
Q. I'm 16. I'm in a stable relationship with a guy who I adore (don't care how immature this sounds- he makes me the happiest I've ever felt and treats me like a princess). Ever since meeting him, I've become so broody. Like, I can't stop looki...
A. 17 February 2012: Hiya hun :) Don't worry about a thing :) hundreds of us girls have several periods as we grow through our teens of being broody, sometimes it can last for a couple of weeks, sometimes it can last for months and months. I had it for half a ye... (read in full...)
My parents want me to break up with my boyfriend..
Q. First, i am 15 and he is 16. anyway, my parents have been talking to me lately about breaking up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for over a year! they want me to start dating other people because they think that's its unhealthy for someone my ...
A. 17 February 2012: Hiya hun,
Well it is up to you not your parents.
My sister had the same issue, she never really felt the need to tell our parents about her relationship with her boyfriend unless she needed help and they told her the same thing.
However, ... (read in full...)
Do you think its time to move on?
Q. I have been texting a guy for several months now. We have met 3/4 times. His texts are not consistent. He will text me every few weeks and will only ask to meet when he is out drinking.In the beginning he was making so much effort, texting ...
A. 16 February 2012: Hiya hun,
If I were you I would just ignore him, I'm sure you can do better :)Delete his number to make it easier and don't get upset about it or anything, like I say 'there are plenty more birds in the trees' ;) Hope this helps you decide :) xx... (read in full...)
Is he just being friendly
Q. Basically I used to like some guy were still mates but I still think eh doesnt like me more than a mate. Recently he like to me I will one hopefully buy you a bucnh of roses becuase he was joking aroud saying didnt u get my valentines day preent ...
A. 16 February 2012: Hiya hun,
Instead of someone telling you what he means you can try to work it out for yourself ;)
What you need to do is start gradually talking to him more, this could take a couple of weeks just texting more often and seeing if he puts kisses ... (read in full...)
Will my stretchmarks put him off me?
Q. My long-term boyfriend and I are so in love. We are truly made for each other and we're planning to sleep together for the first time. There's just one problem, I've lost a lot of weight as I was extremely overweight a few years ago, and now I have ...
A. 15 June 2011: Hello,
I had the same problem, one solution I can give you to get rid of your stretchmarks is the use of Bio Oil! It really works! however it does take quite a while to do the job (a few months)so another thing I use is Johnsons Holiday Skin loti... (read in full...)
I found out he was married after 3 years, he thinks I will take him back! How do I make him see its over?
Q. I split from my ex a while back now because I suddenly had my eyes opened to what a nasty horrible dispicable selfish personn he is-found out after 3 years he is married amongst hundreds of other twisted lies. If I'm honest, I'm not sure if I'm over...
A. 15 June 2011: Hello, One thing is for sure you definatley need to move on from this moron - and you already know that. Block and delete him off you hotmail/email, changing your number was the right thing to do so well done. The next time he turns up outs... (read in full...)
I don't know what gender I want to date
Q. Im 18 years old virgin male and never been in a relationship but i want to have one. Now the big problem with me is deciding what gender do i like men or women. I can see myself dating and being in a relationship with a women but not a guy but i ...
A. 12 June 2011: Hello,
I understand what you mean and I woudn't be in a rush to lose your virginity as it is special and you can only lose it once so you should do so to someone special.
It would be difficult for you to decide now whether or not you prefer m... (read in full...)
My wife feels more like a sister to me than a wife, and it doesn't feel right to make love to her!!
Q. Hi I have a big problem. Over the years my wife and I have had many issues. I left her 9 months ago because I lost my feelings for her. I now find myself wanting to be with her and my children. I realise I do have feelings for her, but they are up ...
A. 15 March 2011: Hiya, I don't really know much about different counsellors or therapists, however, I do think you and your wife should talk together about your relationship. You need to explain to her how you feel and why you have been reluctant to have sex. So... (read in full...)
How do I convince my girlfriend she needs to go to the doctors?
Q. Dear Cupid My girlfriend had a dodgy discharge recently and we know its a vaginal infection. She knows it needs to be treated but she keeps pushing the topic aside or agreeing but not doing anything. I know she's doesn't like going to the doctors,...
A. 14 March 2011: Hiya,
She's most likely worried about being embarrest incase the doctor wants to swab her, however she could take a private swab of the discharge, it then gets sent off and within a few days they diagnose and provide treatment. She should be more... (read in full...)
My wife is pregnant and our sex life has stopped. Is this normal?
Q. Me and my wife had a great sex life but shes pregnant one and half months from now. We both missings our days but we're afraid of losing pregnancy. What should we do?...
A. 14 March 2011: Hiya,
don't worry it's normal for a pregnant woman to stop wanting sex if she's pregnant. You could do oral and she could give you a hand job.
Hope this helps. ... (read in full...)
How do I make more converstaion with this girl without her feeling overwhelmed?
Q. i am 16 and i like this really smart and beautiful girl...she knows i like her and she doesnt talk to me that much as she talks to other guys more...she is pretty social and friendy and nice to people...the thing is that she probably doesnt talk to ...
A. 14 March 2011: Hiya,
You could start by making simple conversation or asking her questions to do with work at school/college.
I know it sounds a little pathetic but at least it gets you talking to her, if you know something she is interested in talk to her abou... (read in full...)
5.5 years together yet he still can't get over my past
Q. Hi. First of all, I would like to thank you for taking the time to read my story. I am a 23 year old girl. I have been with my current boyfriend for the last 5,5 years. The problem is that he cant get over my past. He was my best friend during hi...
A. 14 March 2011: Hiya hun, First of all, how dare you let anyone call you a whore - your not one at all! You've had two previouse boyfriends, not 24! This boyfriend of yours soundS like a total asshole! I've experianced it myself, trust me. Who i... (read in full...)
Should I follow my head and chose the nice guy whom I "like"? Or go for my ex whom I love(d) but who hurt me?
Q. I'm really confused. I don't know what to do or who to pick. I'll tell you the story... I'm 17, and I was with my ex for 7 months. We were really happy at first. My family loved him and we got on very well. He then turned very controlling, he'...
A. 14 March 2011: Hiya hun,
To me, it sounds like James is a really nice guy, I understand you probably think you love your ex - don't get annoyed at me, just read on a little - I'm not being all anti-young-love but after seven months, I don't really think yo... (read in full...)
Should I tell my brother I had sex with his room mate?
Q. Every few weeks I go and visit my brother who's away at college. When I first met his roommate I felt this attraction to him. One day when I was there my brother had to go to work so it was me and his roommate. At first we watched some tv then one ...
A. 19 February 2011: Hiya, It's not like your keeping it from him, it's only his roomate not his lover. He doesn't need to know about your sex life hun, I wouldn't bother it's not like he's gonna ask. If you want to go out with his roomate, prehaps drop hint to your bro... (read in full...)
Is it weird for a male teacher to call you hunny?
Q. Is it weird for a male teacher whos like 30 to call a 14 female hunny? Cause today in class i went up to him privately and asked him if i could redo a quiz and he was like whats that hunny? and he kinda tends to flirt sometimes... but i dont know if ...
A. 19 February 2011: It does sound a little strange, if he makes you feel uncomfortable either by calling you hunny or leaning too close when your talking too him, back off a little, your body language will tell him you feel uncomfortable discreetly. Try to ask him ... (read in full...)
How do I overcome my crippling insecurity?
Q. I've always been really insecure and it's annoying the hell out of me. I was brought up to be a well behaved, polite child and I suffered for it through bullying at school. I was cast into to "weird" bin very early on and as a result became ve...
A. 19 February 2011: Hello, First don't become the everyday ignorant, cocky bloke. You sound like your decent and sensitive, and you're not the only one with a slight confidence lack, loads of people will have it but they won't be letting on, just like how you act... (read in full...)
I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?
Q. hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...
A. 15 January 2010: First of all, your only a young teenager and your still developing, Do you know how hard a pregnancy can be, for months your feet swell and ache like mad, your back hurts, your shoulders hurt it's a very painful experiance. Even if it may be for ... (read in full...)
How do I help my guy friend get over being rejected by a girl?
Q. ok so i'm best friends with this guy. we hang out everyday and ignore the rumors that spread. problem is, he's liked this girl for over 8 months and found out that she really doesn't like him. at all. he's crushed. i care about him allot and i hate, ...
A. 14 January 2010: You need to make him realise that if he doesn't need a girlfriend, (no matter how much he liked her) It's not the end of the world, there will be girls ten times as pretty as her and nicer, he just needs to go out and find them. Make sure he stays ... (read in full...)
My husband got laid off and has turned into a couch potato!
Q. Ok please help me understand. My husband has been laid off for 3 or 4 month now and he has be come a couch potato. He is so lazy even our daughter sees it. She will say daddy you are a lazy butt. He sleeps till 11:00 or 12:00 every day and then ...
A. 14 January 2010: I think first you should talk to him, one on one. Ask him if there is anything he is worrying about, can you think of anything that could be making him act this way, financial problems or could the two of you be slightly distant from each other. You ... (read in full...)
In love with 2 guys at once...what do I do?
Q. Six months ago I decided to go into a relationship with guy A. I can honestly say I love him and am inlove with him,he makes me happy. A month ago, I started working as a kitchen manager at a friends pub.. Guy B is a friend as well as my boss, he is ...
A. 13 January 2010: The way someone makes you feel, is what causes you to fall inlove with them, they both sound like really nice guys. However your boss should hold the reins on his feelings for you, especally as he knows you are already in a relationship. You love ... (read in full...)
My best friend and g/f are also friends, and I think I like my b/f more than my g/f
Q. I currently have a girlfriend, and I love her and care a lot about her. My best friend is a girl, and she really really likes me. I care about her a lot also, and the truth is sometimes I feel like I am closer with her than my girlfriend. The ...
A. 13 January 2010: I agree with Strontiumdog that you can have care about someone alot, however it doesn't have to be sexual. I'm sure you understand how Girlfriends are diffrent than Friends, you can care about them both, it's the way you love them that seperates the ... (read in full...)
Was my mom right to give my cat away?
Q. hey i`ve been really upset as today my mum told me that she had to give my cat poppy away i really loved this cat but my mum has a massive fear of birds and poppy brought them in every few days i walked in my room and i saw poppys cat hairs...
A. 12 January 2010: I don't think she should have given your cat away without talking to you, she could have asked that you clean up any birds that get baught in, it seems a little extream to give Poppy away. I have a huge fear of spiders and my puppy find them ... (read in full...)
Why do I like older men?
Q. Alright here it is. I have always been attracted to older guys. Even when I was little, like four or five I would try to kiss all the adult males (not blood related of course) that were around me. I'm nineteen now going to be twenty and by this age...
A. 12 January 2010: You not the only girl who is attracted to older guys, we are attracted to older guys because they are more mussely have more respect for women and have stubble, they also seem more manly and protective than a student. I think it is the thought of ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to take advantage of me!
Q. I have finally gotten enough courage to ask a guy that I have been flirting with over that last year. By talking to him over this year he has given answers and made comments that made me think he was single. After asking him out I found out that he ...
A. 12 January 2010: If he was trying to work it out with his girlfriend maby he shoudn't have given you the impression he did. I agree with oldersister that you should tell him you would like to get to know him, however would prefere to stay as friends whilst he works ... (read in full...)
Embarrising question most likely for females to answer!
Q. Ok this is a very embarrasing question to ask, but I told my boyfriend that I had to clean the drain in my shower because it was clogged. And he asked if I shaved my crotch and I told him no i haven't. Reason is because I was taught to wait till I'm ...
A. 12 January 2010: Never shve that area. You are suppose to wax it. It is a little embarrasing, I agree, it must of been a bit cringy when your boyfriend asked you that. I shved there one it just gets extreamly irritated, it a sensetive area.
Hope that helps.... (read in full...)
Why can't I compliment my wife?
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined together. Why can't I tell my wife that she looks hot? My wife of 20 years hates it when I tell her that she looks hot!! I don't understand the difference between a come-on and a compliment. How come she thinks that I'm ...
A. 12 January 2010: I'd talk to her, explaine to her so she understands how you really feel, I think a come on is more flirty a compliment is just a way of showing a loved one how much you apreciate them, it's suppose to make them feel good about themselves.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Should I tell him how upset I am about the comment he made?
Q. When i was talking to my boyfriend about us having sex ONE DAY not anytime soon..and he brought up the fact he wanted it to be the most special thing for me and i couldnt say the same since he is not a virgin...i hurts i know i have talked about ...
A. 12 January 2010: Is he really the one for you, you are only young, and losing your virginity is something special, I would talk to him about it, get it of your chest, out in the open. On the other hand 15 is a little younge to have sex at you have your whole life ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to love someone at 15?
Q. Do you think it is possible to love someone at 15 i honestly think i do..its something i can't explain and then its like there is nothing i could do to change it?... what do you think it would be very helpful...
A. 12 January 2010: If you really care about someone and have certain feelings towards them than other people you may have gone out with it could mean you have more chemistry therefore making the two of you have a stronger bond and feeling very comfortable around each ... (read in full...)
Is it really love or just a crush?
Q. I'm 14, gay, and a freshman in highschool. I like a 17 year old junior. He (of course) is straight. Yup, I'm officially living the stereotype, unrequited love that can never work out. But I want to know, is it really love or just a crush that'll ...
A. 12 January 2010: I don't think you'd be in love with him, I think you have a stronger chemistry with him than you realise, he sounds like a nice guy, he made you feel welcome by being friendly but If he isn't gay then the chances are he just wants to be your friend ... (read in full...)
B/s doesn't know I"m gay!
Q. Im 17 guy n im in love with my best freind whos also a guy but dosnt no im gay but has suspitions i dnt no wat to do at all i tell him i love him but he thinks im messin we spend every day togeather n i flirt n cuddle n watch him sleep n cuddle him ...
A. 12 January 2010: If you are attracted to guys, then that is who you are maby you should mension that you are gay, before telling him how much you love him. Im sure he wont tell anyone If you dont want him to. Don't try to avoid telling him it will just make you feel ... (read in full...)
Help me out here! Is it illegal for an 18 year old to date an 15 year old?
Q. Is it illegal for an 18 year old to date an 15 year old? ...
A. 12 January 2010: I don't think it is illegal, theres only four years difference, I think sexually it could be a little weird. Would she really be with him forever, because it might not be worth thinking to deeply about. ... (read in full...)
I hate my close friends
Q. If your friends constantly unintentianally belittle you, and make your hopeful heart often sink to tears when they're not there, then they are not really your friends. If after not seeing them for a while makes you scared to see or speak to them ...
A. 12 January 2010: The girls you are hanging round with sound two-faced and a little bitchy, you don't want to be like that, I had some friends the same however when I forced myself to leave them I beacame serverly romoured about and bullied. There must be some other ... (read in full...)
How do I overcome my social anxiety?
Q. How do I overcome my social anxiety? I started university in September and although I quite enjoy the course I feel incredibly lonely and cut off from people as I have trouble making friends. Since I finished school 4 years ago I've found that I h...
A. 12 January 2010: You sound like me, I made some friends a while ago but never want to spend time with them, im shy and not at all confident. My problem is I struggle to find things to talk about. Therefore making myself feel left out, not needed or wanted. The only ... (read in full...)
I can't say no to the ladies!
Q. Help! I am a 24 year old male and the problem i have is to much sex/ relationships. Every weekend i go out and i will go through between 2 and 5 woman a weekend, i cannot say no! I am a good looking guy and very cheeky and flirt alot, i have settled ...
A. 12 January 2010: It wasn't the best of moves to sleep with relations or your brothers girlfriend, I wouldn't tell your brother about that either, do you want a seriouse relationship, you have to think about what you want before you go ahead and say yes ... (read in full...)
I can't attract girls!
Q. No matter what I do, I just cant seem to attract girls, and the rare occasions I do, They get bored and move on after a short while. (But that's another issue). I'm not very confident, so going out and meeting new people is a bit hard for me. I'm ok ...
A. 12 January 2010: I think you confidence is the main thing that is letting you down, you need to gain enough confidents first. All you need is a high self esteam, you see your in a bit of a cycle . . .
Have little confidence, Meet someone, gain confidence, it ends,... (read in full...)
Being teased about a crush on the teacher
Q. i've got a crush on a teacher.all the kids are teasing me.i'm worried about turing my computer on because the kids leave me messages about us on facebook myspace and so on.they tease me at school too.i'm worried that my parnets will give me a speech ...
A. 12 January 2010: Everyone must find atleat one teacher in their lifetime attractive, I have, I just didn't let anyone know. I wouldn't tell your parents, your best pretending you've gone off this teacher, after a while they'll forget and stop teasing you, the only ... (read in full...)
What can I do or say to get my ex-gf to give me another chance???? I love her and need her!
Q. Ok so I am 18 and my ex gf is 17. She broke up with me the day after Thanksgiving (a little over a month ago). I deserved to be dumped b/c I treated her like complete sh*t. I mainly did this b/c I was hurting so bad inside. I went to the Doctor ...
A. 12 January 2010: My sister was in the same position your girlfriend is in.
You are both in love with each other, but you have slightly put her off by your behavior towards her. You know what you did was wrong, and you are helping yourself become a better pers... (read in full...)
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